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TB and your H

Does your H know you bump?  What does he think about it all?

My H used to give me the biggest side eye when I would talk about a post on here.  Like he thought I was crazy for having online conversations with strangers.  Now he's used to it if I mention something but he's not a big FB person so this is even more out of his "comfort zone".  For lack of a better phrase.

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Re: TB and your H

  • Yeah, he knows.  I honestly can't remember if he had an opinion or what it was back when I started on The Knot.  Now it's just something that's a given. 
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  • He knows.  I don't think he cares either way that I am on here.  
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  • My husband knows about the bump, knows my screen name, and knows about some of the board drama. He mostly eye rolls TB stuff but he cannot deny that he enjoys hearing about the petty drama on here once and a while because that is when he usually starts suggesting responses.
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  • imageI Heart The 80s:
    No idea. It's my dirty little secret. LOL.

    Really? I must be a bad hider...he knows from all the laughing and eye rolling. 

  • He knows and doesn't seem to care. He eye rolls when I tell him about a post but I think he secretly enjoys some of the stories.
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    Mine knows. We talk about different posts here and there. 





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  • He knows and he frequents a different forum on another site. He doesn't have an issue with it.

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  • imageletranger:
    I refer to you as my sahm coworkers. He tells stories of his coworkers and I tell stories of mine. He eye rolls a lot of stuff.

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    MH knows. If we have questions he will say post it on that baby forum. He goes on car forums so he sees TB as the same for me
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  • He knows this place is my guilty guilty pleasure.
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  • DH knows. I talk about it sometimes and I will occasionally leave a window open on the computer or a phone and he will glance over what I've been reading. He eye rolls a lot at the content, but he spends a lot of time on college sports forums so he can't say much against forums in general. And I usually only bring up eye roll worthy stuff anyway.
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  • He knows!  I'm not sure he knows the actual URL or anything or the forum, but he knows I post on various boards.  I've seriously posted on message boards since the 1990's (aol boards back then) so it's nothing new here.   He posts on a photography forum.
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  • I've been on these boards for 10 years (started out planning our wedding) and I only think I've mentioned it maybe a handful of times to him and I think I've probably only called it a message board- never by name. 
  • he knows I bump.

    He has actually met several bumpies and their husbands over the course of my time on the bump.

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  • He knows and he thinks s it's stupid. He also thinks Facebook is stupid. 

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  • I've met up with some bumpies before and we were at MIL's once and she was looking for a particular beach umbrella. DH said, "Oh, QueSyrah borrowed it when she went to the beach with some people from the Internet."

    Everyone looked at me like I was crazy.  


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  • My DH is a "Reddit'er" so he gets it.

    He always blames "those bump b!tches" when I'm in a bad mood. Silly man. You ladies aren't ever the cause... I'm typically pissed at him! Lol! He does it to piss me off though I think.
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