WTF Wednesday

Lavender P · May 2013

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Lavender P · May 2013

WTF BM? We were all getting along so well and you had to go and ruin it. No, you cannot have SS on the weekend of DS's 1st birthday party. We have family coming into town and they would like to see SS as well. Instead of just accepting tht we already have plans, that you knew about, you had to guilt trip SS about it. Telling SS that he is going to miss hanging out at YOUR friend's house and how much fun he's going to miss out on is just plain mean. He cried when he told DH and DH had to explain to him why we wouldn't let him go. He had been so excited to celebrate DS's birthday, and we have invited several of SS's friends, and now you have turned it into something negative. You see him more in a week then we do in a month. Can you at least let us have that time with him without trying to ruin it?

HisChamaoleGirl · May 2013

WTF BM. DH spent the day with SS yesterday and wanted to take him to the local carnival, but SS said you were to take him today. Instead DH took him to the movies and an arcade. At the drop off BM says she wanted to take SS to the carnival, but she didn't have any money and asked DH for money to cover the trip. DHs reply "I did give you money. Remember that $1000 on the first?"

It still amazes me that after all these years she still asks him for money, to run to the store and get her cigarettes and wine.

Lavender P · May 2013

wendilea:
WTF Dink? nbsp;Neither you nor any of your family could bother to text, call, or FB message B on her birthday? nbsp;You suck.nbsp;

I knew he sucked from your previous posts but that is beyond ridiculous. I'm sorry for your daughter.

2chatter · May 2013

WTF SS. You haven't passed an exam yet this year, but magically expect to pass the final, with no effort? Then you expect to graduate? Less than two weeks left, and nothing short of a miracle is going to see you cross that stage. Refusing your dad's repeated offers to come study with you will not yield good results with him if you do indeed fail.

WTF DH. If you don't "force" skids to see you for Father's Day, I don't want to hear one word about them that weekend. I get that they .... well, can really suck. But you are the adult, and they are subject to a CO parenting time schedule. When you LET them tell you NO, they have other plans, you consent to that treatment of you.

WTF me, for encouraging DH to "force" the skids to see him on FDs. This will be my Dad's last FD if he does not pass before then, so we will be spending it with him. Skids will NOT be OK with that.

MommyEllenSue · May 2013

WTF BM...you told SS6 and SD6 that they would be with you the whole summer and wouldn't be coming home at all. Ummmm NO never has happened never will! But I didn't even have to tell him that wasn't what will happen. Because the next words out of SS mouth was "but I know my mom is lying, she lies a lot. Ya know I don't think I like liars." Wow sounds like your son has already figured you out at 6 years old. One one hand it's great that he is so smart and has already figured you out but then again he is only 6 and already jaded about his mom. SD 6 still has no idea about you but she's smart too and will figure it out for herself.

Pamelacake · May 2013

WTF BM You want to call to fight again about something that has nothing to do with your children but we cause drama? I don't think so!! I'm so sorry that you are not getting DH and I to fight like you are trying to but we don't have a relationship like you guys did. Nothing like it. You only see them like one day a month and you complain about not getting enough time with them?? That's your fault! and you wonder why 5yo SD called Friday night crying saying she misses mommy and daddy and wants to come home!

and WTF BM, It was an emergency that you bring 6yo SD home Saturday, convincing SD that she was sick so you could leave and go straight to the bar from our house after dropping her off!! What a sick thing for you to do!!!! Next time you should make sure you don't answer the phone when you are saying all of these idiotic things right into my recorder!!!!!

and WTF TIRE: Did you really have to fall apart on our way to take 5yo SD to see her play therapist this morning!!! Grrrrr.

CurlyQ284 · May 2013

WTF BM you want to whine that SDs said they have more fun here. Then you go on vacation with your boyfriend and dump the kids with your mom so you can have a drink fest. Maybe they have more fun because we do things WITH them. You never take vacation with them, its always with your boyfriend. Quit complaining. Also, I have no idea why you took this vacation. You drove hundreds of miles to barhop, you do that every weekend. There is no difference except a change of background scenery. I will continue putting my bonuses into taking YOUR children on vacation but you need to quit whining. Seriously.

bebe11 · May 2013

WTF ME... I am two days shy of turning 41 and I am having hot flashes already!

ambrvan · May 2013

WTF BM, please just don't show up to the hearing. It will make everyone's life a whole lot easier. Just do things YOUR way. You're an adult. Quit letting your parents be your puppeteers. Trust me, we will all be happier in the long run, including you.

WTF DH! Problems do NOT go away just because you refuse to acknowledge them. Last time I did it for you, you got mad. Now that I am leaving all this up to you, you aren't getting anything done! I have freaking spelled it out for you. I didn't talk about it all weekend since there was nothing we could do then, so you can't say I am nagging. Making one phone message leaving a message is NOT enough to say you are taking care of it! You are finding everything in the world to possibly distract you from the important things at hand. And when things don't pan out the way you want, you're going to blame me. You want nagging, I can give you nagging!

YummyChef · May 2013

WTF DH don't you see that BM is turning SS against us and manipulating him all the time? BM showed up to OUR mother's day celebration (3 days ago-diff country) with SS, to give mother's day cards to MIL and crazy SIL, but couldn't even bother to say Happy mother's day to me? The one that takes care of him everytime BM get's sick of being a mom and dumps him at my house for 2 whole months? WHEN will everyone realize what a scumbag opportunist "mom" you are?

CFjo2010 · May 2013

WTF BM, can we please space out the crazy and the hostility instead of lumping it all into a couple of days? I'm not going to highjack this post, so I'll make a separate one. But seriously, tone it the eff down lady.

WTF work? Why are we not busier? As much as I like having some extra time to screw around on the computer and do PTA stuff, I would kind of like to have real work to do. Having real work to do means that I'm needed. Being needed means I have job security and a paycheck. Someone hurry up and sue somebody!

irishgirl0525 · May 2013

WTF SD1-It's been almost 2 weeks and you STILL can't acknowledge the news that we're expecting a baby? No one expects you to jump up and down for joy, but you're 20 years old, grow the eff up and start acting like the adult you insist that you are, and respond to a text message from your father who loves you.

I'm sure the second you need that college tuition paid for the summer, you'll be on the phone demanding it from him, so why don't you get a clue and try to make yourself look slightly better than you do right now. I swear, you don't even have to talk to me.

irishgirl0525 · May 2013

wendilea:
WTF Dink? Neither you nor any of your family could bother to text, call, or FB message B on her birthday? You suck.

Oh Wendi, this is terrible, I'm sorry for your daughter and you for having to deal with him.

10-4LilBuddy · May 2013

irishgirl0525:

WTF SD1-It's been almost 2 weeks and you STILL can't acknowledge the news that we're expecting a baby? No one expects you to jump up and down for joy, but you're 20 years old, grow the eff up and start acting like the adult you insist that you are, and respond to a text message from your father who loves you.

I'm sure the second you need that college tuition paid for the summer, you'll be on the phone demanding it from him, so why don't you get a clue and try to make yourself look slightly better than you do right now. I swear, you don't even have to talk to me.

She still hasn't acknowledged the baby? Wow. How immature.

Hope you are doing ok.

irishgirl0525 · May 2013

10-4LilBuddy:
irishgirl0525:

WTF SD1-It's been almost 2 weeks and you STILL can't acknowledge the news that we're expecting a baby? No one expects you to jump up and down for joy, but you're 20 years old, grow the eff up and start acting like the adult you insist that you are, and respond to a text message from your father who loves you.

I'm sure the second you need that college tuition paid for the summer, you'll be on the phone demanding it from him, so why don't you get a clue and try to make yourself look slightly better than you do right now. I swear, you don't even have to talk to me.

She still hasn't acknowledged the baby? Wow. How immature.

Hope you are doing ok.

Hey 10-4, nope, not yet. He has texted her on school related stuff a few times and hasn't pushed the issue with her but it has been radio silence. It makes life easier for me when she is not involved but that's beside the point, I know it bothers him that she won't even tell her what she is feeling so they can discuss it. It can't last forever but 2 weeks is much longer than I thought this would go on.

How are you feeling and how are the babies doing?

10-4LilBuddy · May 2013

Feeling huge. Can't imagine how I'll feel later. Baby boy is beating up my cervix and it is making me really nervous. Baby girl is beating up baby boy. Lots of movement already. Just can't shake all the anxiety though. I need to just relax and enjoy the pregnancy.

Tasheystar · May 2013

WTF course mates. I can't fulfill my participation requirements if you post all of your assignments at the last minute! I have to comment on your work before the due date in order to pass. It isn't fair to me for you to post your stuff at 11 or later on the day things are due. I have young kids. I'm in bed! If the 5 of you can't get it together before 9:30pm tomorrow, I'm complaining to the prof.

Here's another school one:

WTF case study. I know it happens in real life, but I don't want to read and analyze something about a person killing, beheading and dismembering an animal. I will try not to have nightmares tonight. Thanks.

WTF house. Please clean yourself until I'm done all of my assignments.

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