Okay, this is a first for me, but I don't know what else to do. I'm sorry for the length, but I need to get this off my chest. I am in the best relationship of my life. My fianc and I have three beautiful girls, two shared and one from my fianc's previous marriage. We are always worried about his daughter when she is not with us, right now we have 60 custody. 4 days on and 3 days off.
We know that there has been something going on with my fianc's Ex, she has just been very stand offish, and doesn't really let me know what's going on with B when I pick her up. We received a call for my fianc's Ex Motherinlaw this morning at 1am. Our first thought was something is wrong with B, turns out that his Ex and her new baby daddy had a huge blow out! She took the kids and was going to go to her mom's house but never showed. Only texting her hours later telling her to but out of her life. Then her baby daddy texts her mom calling her all these names, and telling her that he is going to take her grand babies away from her, and she has no right to see 'his' children. Though B is not his bio daughter. This really upset me, though she is my fianc's ex mother in law she doesn't deserve this. But she opened up to us this morning telling us that his Ex's new BF constantly tares her down in front of the children, calling her fat and ugly, always talking about other women with her and the babies in the room.
I don't want to take B away from her mom, but I don't feel that she should be in this kind of environment when she's not home with us. Is there anything I could do to help the situation? It brakes my heart when B comes home and tells me that she crys a lot at her mom's house cause ' M dad slams the doors, and yells real loud'... I don't believe a 2 and a half year old should be witnessing this kind of verbal abuse... My fiance was up all night trying to figure out what he can do. Is there anything we can do, other than document? I have documented EVERYTHING for the past two years I have been with my fiance but I don't know if it would be enough to do anything for our poor girl... Please help.