sexy time with your SO....

ena724 · May 2013

Ok ladies, fess up....

How often have you and your SO gotten it in since you found out about your BFP?

ena724 · May 2013

Being honest here...only once since my BFP. I'm exhausted, we're both freaked out about another loss, and now I'm nauseous and that makes sex sound even less appealing.

Poor DH. Hopefully I'm not the only one.

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alinafed · May 2013

Agree w PP - it's much easier for me to get in the mood and to the finish line! Both this time and last time I LOVE LOVE LOVE pregnant sex - best thing ever!

loramag48 · May 2013

Honestly pretty much everyday... probably been 2 maybe 3 days that we haven't DTD.

washyourhandsplease · May 2013

Once a week. I'm too tired...

MeganWorden · May 2013

everyday until we were put on pelvic rest Sad

My DH finds pg me very sexy. I think its the whole "Manly me made you pregnant" male thing. Its really cute!

jhunter89 · May 2013

I think our sex life is about the same since before, 2-3 times a week. Maybe it's closer to just 2 since i'm so.freaking.tired that if we don't start by 9, there's no hope.

MeganWorden · May 2013

wilburbud:
Oh heck yeah. We were doing NFP, which apparently didnt work so well last month lol, and now that there is no "fear" of getting pregnant, were all over it. There are days when I am just too damn tired, or too sick, but I reeeally try to make time to be intimate with my husband at least twice a week. plus with all the extra blood flow down there, orgasms are SO easy to achieve.

Yes But I am on pelvic rest and am not allowed to orgasm. I am terrified I will in my sleep (thank you very vivid pg dreams!)

Stella2008 · May 2013

Haha, glad to hear you ladies are still keeping up on the action front, because let me tell you, for DH and I since having our two kids the frequency has slowed significantly. We were averaging about once a week from after DD#1 was born (and sad to say, some weeks/months less frequently than that--kids are exhausting sometimes). Things were picking up a bit over the last few months, and over the last few weeks since I've gotten my BFP we back up to our pre-kids 2-3 times per week. Who knows how long it will last, but we will take it!

Deblondie1 · May 2013

Not once. But mostly because we have had a house full of people and that is just awkward for me.

sarahlisa00 · May 2013

We have been having sex every day but I'm having the opposite of all these easy orgasms that I've read about! I've found the build up to be great but it's very difficult for me to actually have an orgasm. It's strange because it's actually more difficult than pre-pregnancy.

moosebaby2011 · May 2013

We actually haven't at all since my BFP. My IL's arrived the day after my BFP and stayed for several days, which took us right out of the mood. Right after that my DS started taking an online class so his evenings have been taken up with homework and studying. I'm exhausted from being pregnant and chasing a very active toddler around all day. The end result is that both of us are just too tired. It's DH's birthday tomorrow so hopefully I'll be able to convince him to take a little study break. :-)

MindyBadger1 · May 2013

ZERO.

Last time we had sex was April 24th and we conceived this little sweet pea.

I'm dumb and paranoid and have a very irritable cervix. For me, it's not worth the spotting scare until I know there is a HB.

Put, as DH pointed out last night, we can do other things. lol. Just not feeling very sexy right now.

Meggies917 · May 2013

sarahlisa00:
We have been having sex every day but I'm having the opposite of all these easy orgasms that I've read about! I've found the build up to be great but it's very difficult for me to actually have an orgasm. It's strange because it's actually more difficult than pre-pregnancy.

You aren't the only one! I have found its more difficult for me to orgasm as well since I got pregnant. Which is why hubby and I havent "done it" as often since getting pregnant.

Mrs Bookworm · May 2013

Ew, no. Haha, that's so mean. I just REALLY don't want to right now. I'm worried about another loss, plus I just feel GROSS.

AshleyShivers · May 2013

Unfortunately zero. He's in the ARMY and in another state for training. But I manage on my own.

agunnet · May 2013

wilburbud:
Oh heck yeah. We were doing NFP, which apparently didnt work so well last month lol, and now that there is no "fear" of getting pregnant, were all over it. There are days when I am just too damn tired, or too sick, but I reeeally try to make time to be intimate with my husband at least twice a week. plus with all the extra blood flow down there, orgasms are SO easy to achieve.

We were doing NFP too, and obviously failed... as for sex now, its slowed down a bit, but we are still at it

sugarland726 · May 2013

Well I haven't counted, but less than when TTC. Twice a week now maybe? That's an average.

angiek1 · May 2013

Only once. I've been SUPER sick with this pregnancy so no dice. Maybe this week

ach298 · May 2013

Once every week and a half.

for a while even thinking about sex made my morning sickness kick in.

cnwilbur1030 · May 2013

23 times a week now, which is our prepregnant average. But I've been feeling sick, so I hope I'm in the mood this week!

pbandjsticktogether · May 2013

Ummm 23 times a week?!!! Hoping you mean 2-3 or I need to get some serious pointers from you!

bethughknee · May 2013

I still call us newlyweds (married Sept 2012) so we were up around 5x a week. Once I got the BFP it was about the same. But the nausea (I call it Baby Vertigo since it's more dizziness than anything else) set in last week so this was a bad week. I'm hoping these symptoms don't stay around long. I want to enjoy alone time while we can!

Dishylo · May 2013

Firstly what's DTD??? I can't find it's meaning anywhere. (ta!)

Secondly, to answer the question lol....we've only had sex once but we've been having our fun in other ways to make up for the lack of actual sex.

However, now that I've started throwing up.....who knows when the next time will be

kschref · May 2013

Not even once, poor guy. When we first found out, we were told to be on complete vaginal rest for a while. Even though it's probably safe now, we are both a little nervous after two losses, especially since my cervix seems to be sitting super low.

I'm also throwing up 3-4 times a day, which I'm sure is super sexy, and my breasts hurt so much I can barely keep clothes on. DH keeps offering to rub them, lol, but it hurts, so we are probably out of it for a while. He's super patient, thank goodness, as we have only been married for about 10 months and going at it like rabbits the whole time until now.

flowerpower3 · May 2013

We haven't done it at all. I'm using Crinone...ew.

jldubb0626 · May 2013

A couple times. He's been working long hours and I just feel icky. And now I have an AMAZING head cold and I don't think a runny nose and puffy eyes is too attractive. Lol.

mrsjenni · May 2013

Found out on Sunday, had sex yesterday. So once?

We have 3 kids already so we just find the time when we can!

mommatogirls · May 2013

zip, zero, nada. DH is a good sport he knows my paranoia will end after 12 weeks so he is patient. With DD1 I started spotting right after and ended up having a vanishing twin I know the cause was most likely not sex related but I just have my paranoia times and also no desire or energy anyway.

rowanthefrog · May 2013

2-3 times. Which is definitely low for us, we usually have sex 2-3 times a week. I've been so tired and anxious and DH hasn't really been in the mood either.

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jaclynwas17 · May 2013

Dishylo:
Firstly what's DTD??? I can't find it's meaning anywhere. (ta!)
Secondly, to answer the question lol....we've only had sex once but we've been having our fun in other ways to make up for the lack of actual sex.
However, now that I've started throwing up.....who knows when the next time will be

DTD-doing the deed

We haven't done it since I found out, I've been nervous to.

inhishands648 · May 2013

Zero - we've know for just over a month...between being tired and ms that lasts all day and is often worse at night, I think I've only even thought about it once and didn't bother to bring it up. Hoping I feel more like it in the 2nd tri!

MissRdotS · May 2013

ZERO! (I am the worst wife!) We both work 10+ hour days, and I am usually gone in the morning before he wakes up and asleep before he gets home, not to mention the nausea and killer boob aches. I am super horny though, so hoping this weekend will have something hot in it for me (Meow)