Secondary IF
mrsfrank
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Vent- It NEVER gets easier
mrsfrank
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I am so tired of people saying "but you already have two kids, you should be happy with that.", yes, dont get me wrong I am VERY blessed with two, but that doesn't stop the hurt that isn't not easy to have another. I've always pictured myself as a mom of 3 or 4 kids. My family doesn't feel "complete" and no matter if it's your 2nd, 3rd, 4th child you are having a hard time conceiving, it's still a void that you desire to have filled. I'm tired of hearing about how it will happen when it's time and when we stop trying it will happen and how we just need a vacation. YES, I need a vacation, but not so I can get knocked up. Alot of people do not understand. It's extremly difficult to go to family gatherings and events and hear "so it's about time for more huh? and "So, are you pregnant yet?" I dread this long family filled weekend. Most of our family don't know what it took to get DD #2, let alone doing it again...... Ok vent over. I know you ladies get it, thank you 
TTC #3 with PCOS. Long cycles, ovulate about 4-5 times a year
Married 6/9/07
DS 7/15/08
Met RE 12/08
DD 6/2/10
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Re: Vent- It NEVER gets easier
A lady in here said something I've that has always stuck with me. "Every woman is allowed to want the family size of her dreams. And if that dream isn't realized it is a void. And if you have trouble conceiving it is a medical problem. "
I know how you feel. I tell people when they ask "I'd love another baby but it isn't up to me".