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Sex, uncomfortable "inside"

AMarie101AMarie101 member
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Is anyone finding that sex is almost painful?  I feel like I am sore or swollen inside.  I thought maybe I had an infection but ob said I do not.  It just doesn't feel normal and dryness is not the issue.
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  • MrsBarron90MrsBarron90 member
    I feel sore but I noticed that I'm also a little swollen so that may have something to do with it. From what I've been reading, it's one of the normal changes our bodies are making.
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  • deejohn2012deejohn2012 member
    Yes, and I've been this way for almost two months now. Sex seems to make it worse. We tried KY, but it is still incredibly uncomfortable... sometimes painful.
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  • ashlo618ashlo618 member

    I had that problem for the past few months. Increased blood flow to the lady bits makes them swell, making things tighter and more sensitive which can be a good or bad thing.

    Being tight, uncomfortable and too sensitive is why we pretty much didnt have sex this pregnancy. However, now I'm in " get this baby out of me mode" so we had sex last night and its the opposite! I swear I felt loose as a goose! Lol so it can change :) 

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  • TchrKateTchrKate

    Sex outside of one or two positions has been very uncomfortable for me since 2nd tri.  I suspect that the weight of my uterus is pulling at my vagina and he's hitting an uncomfortable angle.  Add in contractions after sex and poor hubby hasn't been getting much action.

     Anyway, not sure if it's the same problem, but it could be. 

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  • jmaguilar5jmaguilar5 member
    During the fourth month the hubby and I tried it. Back then at four months it was swollen and it seriously felt like a metal rod was being shoved up there. We have not had sex since then!!!
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  • CoffeeBeanFiend91CoffeeBeanFiend91 member
    I found that missionary with a pillow under my butt has made it much easier. I'm not willing to give up sex even if uncomfortable or borderline painful. I need the emotional gratification it gives me.
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  • emolmemolm
    My solution to this is to just not have sex.
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  • amypogg6amypogg6 member
    Can't comment because we have had sex in 2013.
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  • iggles09iggles09 member
    Its becoming very uncomfortable for me too but in a different way. Almost feels like my cervix is too low and getting punched every second. Yay for sex!!! haha. I do not plan to give it up until baby comes though. 
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  • firewrk9113firewrk9113
    imageamypogg6:
    Can't comment because we have had sex in 2013.


    I hadn't even thought about this! But I'm in the same boat haha it sounds kind of funny when you put it that way
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  • IlovebeingamomIlovebeingamom member
    imageemolm:
    My solution to this is to just not have sex.

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  • hoopduckhoopduck member
    I've felt that uncomfortable tightness as well. It seems to go away after some initial discomfort though. Sorry ya'll aren't getting much action! I guess I'm one of the lucky ones...
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  • emolmemolm
    imagehoopduck:
    I've felt that uncomfortable tightness as well. It seems to go away after some initial discomfort though. Sorry ya'll aren't getting much action! I guess I'm one of the lucky ones...


    I don't feel unlucky and there's no need for an apology bc I'm perfectly content just talking to my husband.
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  • jaymiegerardjaymiegerard member
    Yeah, I just felt really irritated when we tried.  We decided to stop b/c of it.  Not sure what it was all about, but I don't do uncomfortable sex.  If I'm not going to enjoy, he won't either ;-)
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