Hello,
I'm looking for advice re: paying my part-time nanny (2 days/week) for her vacation. She is taking 2+ weeks off in June. I knew of her planned vacation when I hired her in February. So, she will have worked for us ~4 months when her vacation begins and she is expecting to be paid in full for these vacation days. It seems excessive to me that she would "earn" 2 weeks paid vacation already since only being employed for 4 months. I agreed to let her have the days off when she was hired but now we are having a disagreement regarding payment. I have no problem paying her for one week of vacation. Am I being unreasonable?
Thanks
Re: Nanny vacation pay
You didn't discuss vacation or sick days when you hired her?
My take- if you like her and want to keep things running smoothly, I'd agree to pay her. But I'd also discuss future vacation days. If there was no previous agreement - set up how many days you're willing to give her. And take these 4 out of her balance.
~Benjamin Franklin
DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10
I don't know -- if you discussed that she would have 2 weeks of vacation per year, she told you she was planning to take 2 weeks of vacation, and you said you were okay with her being gone those two weeks but didn't specify that she couldn't use her vacation for those dates because you were going to have the vacation accrue over the course of the year...
I think I would have interpreted your agreement the way your nanny did.
I'm not really following. When you say two weeks paid vacation, do you mean 4 paid days? I'm not sure what I think about a PT nanny getting paid vacation days, but if anything, I think that 2 days (equal to one working week for her) might be a compromise as you suggest. I don't really think that a 2 day a week job warrants 4 days paid days off so soon after she started.
And she's working for your friend 1 day a week and expects to get paid vacation from her too? That's really absurd in my opinion. Since when does a one day a week job (or 2 days a week for that matter) warrant benefits? If one of her days happened to fall on a holiday, I would pay her. But I certainly wouldn't be paying her for Monday holidays if her schedule was Tuesday/Thursday or whatever. Not sure how you're working paid holidays.
I would normally say that I don't think a 2 day a week nanny necessarily warrants paid vacation time after only 4 months, BUT it sounds like you told her she got two weeks a year (which I am assuming equals 4 days) so you need to pay her. If you did not specify that she needed to have worked a certain amount of time, then I can understand why she would expect to be paid. I would just make sure that she understands that she has used her 2 weeks for the next year so if she takes off again before the year anniversary it will be unpaid.
Honestly, even if you had no specified, I would still probably go ahead and pay her for the 4 days if you like her and want to keep her around. Trust me, I'm on my third nanny and if you find someone you like, not paying them for a few days is being a little bit penny wise and pound foolish because you may end up losing her...and finding a new, good nanny will consume a lot more time and hassle than that 4 days of pay is worth.
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge:
nanny works 3035 hrs a week
nanny gets 2 sick/personal days credited at start of employment
nanny earns 1 day is sick/personal every 3 months
paid leave cannot be cashed out at end of employment
paid leave cannot be credited ahead of being earned
Just to give you an idea of what we did, it's by no means perfect but it works for us! Hope this helps
~Benjamin Franklin
DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10