Trying. Seems unfair.

kaelikroetz · May 2013

My husband and I have been ttc for over a year now and no luck. I just found out my best friend just got of bc and a week later had an accident and oops now she is pg. It hurts to know I haven't yet. I have irregular periods it usually skips 12 months. But I make sure to have sex as often as possible no matter what. I want to be with child so bad. What do I do?

CenTx13 · May 2013

I know it's tough. My sister and SIL both got pregnant while my husband was deployed. After we had been trying for a year. One was an oops and in my SIL's words "they tried for three week". Give yourself time to be sad. Like PP said,start seeing an RE.

Desmo35 · May 2013

When I got off bc, I did not get my period for over a year. I conceived twice, but both ended up in mc. My obgyn wanted to give me clomid, but I felt strongly about seeing an RE (just as the other ladies described) before I took any medication.

Definitely check out a specialist who can do all of the proper testing before you choose to take any kind of medication for help. It will save you $$ and time to get a proper diagnosis.

ttuprincess · May 2013

I agree with what everyone has said so far. Definintely call the doctor once your cycle has gone longer than 60 days. I know it can be frustrating when you have tried for more than a year and others get pregnant on accident. Keep your chin up. Good luck to you!

RunCC37 · May 2013

ttuprincess:
I agree with what everyone has said so far. Definintely call the doctor once your cycle has gone longer than 60 days. I know it can be frustrating when you have tried for more than a year and others get pregnant on accident. Keep your chin up. Good luck to you!

All of the above! Hang in there and good luck!!

kaelikroetz · May 2013

I meant 12

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