Why we shouldn't do a facebook group yet....

AshlynBlake · May 2013

Because as much as you want to connect on facebook and give out all personal info and pictures of your life, there are crazies on the bump.

This is a perfect example... https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74261930.aspx

I tried to follow this, but couldn't it appeared that they all pitched in and gave $$ at one point only to find out the family they gave money to was a sex offender?

beccaleap · May 2013

O.M.F.G.

sleepy33 · May 2013

This gif has never been more appropriate, my face literally looks like this:

MiaGirl0815 · May 2013

Yup, that was my old BMB, and why I would never advise doing a FB group so early. She was a regular and kind of a bully, but for some reason people were drawn to her. She made no secret about her husband being unemployed, a total slob, the fact that they were on public assistance, ate fast food all the time, and other details. Yet those ladies still took up a collection to get a maid to clean up while she was on bed rest and her loser husband played video games. I still can't wrap my head around that. Oh, and the awesome chick in her siggy is the one who took up the collection even though she knew about the conviction. She is also the June '12 mod.

Jalee85 · May 2013

Great example.....but I will say that you don't have to be friends to be on a group! I'm not sure why that one girl who started an October group asks everyone to friend her to be added...all you have to do is give out the web address.... if you are not a member it just says it's a closed group and ask if you would like to join and then the admins either accepts it or doesn't accept it.... there is no need to be FB friends with someone just b/c they are on the same group.....

Lhand11 · May 2013

Scary thing is, this is not the first time I've read this same kind of story from a bumpie.

AshlynBlake · May 2013

Here is my 2 cents....

She says that he is a "changed" man and doesn't do that anymore....

But isn't he changing 2 kids diapers every day and home with the alone as a SAHD? Umm he doesn't have to do it, you delivered it right to him.

His convictions were in 09, seriously who changes that much in 4 years

It's sickening. Esp that this guy is a SAHD to twins who must be 1 year old? When he was convicted twice and served time apparently less then 4 yrs ago for 2 yr old porn.

Who in their right mind falls in love with that?

Phalaenopsis · May 2013

AshlynBlake · May 2013

And the plot thickens....

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yesthisiskim0401 · May 2013

I can't even begin to wrap my mind around this...

taylormarie923 · May 2013

dh13:
The FB idea is a horrible one for now.. BUT IN CASE YOU WANNA BE TWITTER/INSTAGRAM FRIENDS WITH A RANDOM STRANGER:https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74258093.aspxnbsp;

Your intro leading into her first sentence was genius.

CousinVicki · May 2013

he is NOT a pedophile, those pictures were on a STOLEN computer, they were not his!!! lololol nuts!

BeachMama7693 · May 2013

Oh. Dear. God.

Scientist23 · May 2013

You don't even know how much drama we went through. It was seriously ridiculous. She was so mean in the first place. I have gladly donated to many a fund on the June 2012 board and am so glad I abstained from that one. They are cray cray.

MiaGirl0815 · May 2013

Scientist23:
You don't even know how much drama we went through. It was seriously ridiculous. She was so mean in the first place. I have gladly donated to many a fund on the June 2012 board and am so glad I abstained from that one. They are cray cray.

i was mainly a lurker on that board because I just didn't understand why so many people loved Allison. She was mean and such trash...for lack of a better term. I still don't understand how people thought it was a good idea to donate to her and her lazy husband. I feel bad she duped so many people.

Scientist23 · May 2013

MiaGirl0815:
Scientist23:
You don't even know how much drama we went through. It was seriously ridiculous. She was so mean in the first place. I have gladly donated to many a fund on the June 2012 board and am so glad I abstained from that one. They are cray cray.
i was mainly a lurker on that board because I just didn't understand why so many people loved Allison.  She was mean and such trash...for lack of a better term.   I still don't understand how people thought it was a good idea to donate to her and her lazy husband.  I feel bad she duped so many people.  

I'm mainly mobile so I mostly lurked too until we got the FB group. She seriously pissed me off in it. I just blocked her Alicia. I'm glad I stuck with it though because there are so many awesome ladies. I went to a GTG with 8 other ladies in my area. Was amazing!

But yes AA were ridiculous. Glad they are being called out AGAIN.

Gwyneddlesliegrace · May 2013

This.is.horrible.

MiaGirl0815 · May 2013

Scientist23:
MiaGirl0815:
Scientist23:
You don't even know how much drama we went through. It was seriously ridiculous. She was so mean in the first place. I have gladly donated to many a fund on the June 2012 board and am so glad I abstained from that one. They are cray cray.
i was mainly a lurker on that board because I just didn't understand why so many people loved Allison. She was mean and such trash...for lack of a better term. I still don't understand how people thought it was a good idea to donate to her and her lazy husband. I feel bad she duped so many people.
I'm mainly mobile so I mostly lurked too until we got the FB group. She seriously pissed me off in it. I just blocked her Alicia. I'm glad I stuck with it though because there are so many awesome ladies. I went to a GTG with 8 other ladies in my area. Was amazing! But yes AA were ridiculous. Glad they are being called out AGAIN.

Yeah, I couldn't get on board with the BMB or FB group because of those two. As bad as the whole situation was, I was glad those two were finally called out and am glad they are getting called out again. They really need to just leave, I'm not sure why they ate even sticking around.

Scientist23 · May 2013

crunchymama11:
what...in...the...sam...hill? Why? Why do women have kids with RSOs? It makes me sooo sad for those innocent babies. Do you know what would happen if DH or anyone else even thought about molesting my children? My brother and I would take them on a hunting trip, and their body would never be found. I just don't understand how women can take that chance with their precious babies.

Oh and having babies was a very conscious decision. They underwent IVF which their parents paid for [her mom I believe]. Yeah. Awesome right?

yesthisiskim0401 · May 2013

Scientist23:
crunchymama11:
what...in...the...sam...hill? Why? Why do women have kids with RSOs? It makes me sooo sad for those innocent babies. Do you know what would happen if DH or anyone else even thought about molesting my children? My brother and I would take them on a hunting trip, and their body would never be found. I just don't understand how women can take that chance with their precious babies.

Oh and having babies was a very conscious decision. They underwent IVF which their parents paid for [her mom I believe]. Yeah. Awesome right?

I hope her mom can pay for the twins extensive therapy sessions after daddy dearest molests them.

Gwyneddlesliegrace · May 2013

Scientist23:
crunchymama11:
what...in...the...sam...hill? Why? Why do women have kids with RSOs? It makes me sooo sad for those innocent babies. Do you know what would happen if DH or anyone else even thought about molesting my children? My brother and I would take them on a hunting trip, and their body would never be found. I just don't understand how women can take that chance with their precious babies.
Oh and having babies was a very conscious decision. They underwent IVF which their parents paid for [her mom I believe]. Yeah. Awesome right?

.... so wrong

Amjoy25 · May 2013

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