TTC #1: May 2011 BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12 DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018 Me: 36 | DH: 39 Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled 9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks 10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN 11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN 12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN 1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst 3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP 11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
I have been devouring the drama. I post on SAHM, too, and thought it was so weird that they always defended her and told people that brought it up to go away. I knew they must not know the entire story, but I wasn't going to be the one to stir it up.
I check Alicia's one blog and when I saw those pictures from Allison's kids party, it was a major WTF. Barring all the lying saying they weren't in touch, I can't believe you'd make a long car ride to bring your kid to a convicted sex offender's house. So. Effing. Crazy. ESPECIALLY after all of their BS over CIO being abuse.
Also, what was the Alicia story that got posted then locked?! I'm sure I know it since I'm on here, but I need to know! Ugh! That'll teach me to do dishes amidst drama.
Oh man, sh!t's exploded over on the SAHM board. If you are interested get over there and read it before it gets deleted for the 3rd time.
I've been trying to keep up, but I feel like it is impossible! I am a serious hard core lurker there now! This is all insane, and I don't even know the half of it! I joined this group waaay too late!
If she does end up getting removed as the mod everywhere, I'll gladly say you are welcome. I would have posted about CIO a long time ago!
Our TTC Journey
TTC #1: May 2011 BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12 DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018 Me: 36 | DH: 39 Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled 9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks 10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN 11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN 12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN 1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst 3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP 11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
Huh. I'm trying to catch up over there but the other mod not Alicia seems to be deleting stuff and banning people.
How do they ban you? And for what?? Is that why people create AE??
Our TTC Journey
TTC #1: May 2011 BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12 DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018 Me: 36 | DH: 39 Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled 9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks 10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN 11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN 12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN 1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst 3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP 11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
TTC #1: May 2011 BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12 DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018 Me: 36 | DH: 39 Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled 9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks 10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN 11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN 12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN 1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst 3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP 11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
TTC #1: May 2011 BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12 DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018 Me: 36 | DH: 39 Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled 9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks 10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN 11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN 12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN 1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst 3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP 11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
Also, what was the Alicia story that got posted then locked?! I'm sure I know it since I'm on here, but I need to know! Ugh! That'll teach me to do dishes amidst drama.
I read it but it was a long post and I don't remember it all.
It referenced Alicia's job (or former job? no idea if she still does this or not). So I'm guessing it was revealing "personal information" and that's why the post was deleted and locked. I think the poster was banned as well. But Alicia posted about this job/activity before, so I don't get the big deal.
It also mentioned a nickname people gave to Alicia after all the stuff went down here on our board.
I'm leaving out the details because apparently this stuff can get you banned? lol
Also, what was the Alicia story that got posted then locked?! I'm sure I know it since I'm on here, but I need to know! Ugh! That'll teach me to do dishes amidst drama.
I read it but it was a long post and I don't remember it all.
It referenced Alicia's job (or former job? no idea if she still does this or not). So I'm guessing it was revealing "personal information" and that's why the post was deleted and locked. I think the poster was banned as well. But Alicia posted about this job/activity before, so I don't get the big deal.
It also mentioned a nickname people gave to Alicia after all the stuff went down here on our board.
I'm leaving out the details because apparently this stuff can get you banned? lol
Ah okay. Gotcha. The job with "her girls" or "kids" or whatever she referenced them as? And I remember someone coming over here calling her that nickname - had to do with a picture of her BFP, right? Ah, I feel better knowing I didn't miss out on any good/new dirt. Ha!
Also, what was the Alicia story that got posted then locked?! I'm sure I know it since I'm on here, but I need to know! Ugh! That'll teach me to do dishes amidst drama.
I read it but it was a long post and I don't remember it all.
It referenced Alicia's job (or former job? no idea if she still does this or not). So I'm guessing it was revealing "personal information" and that's why the post was deleted and locked. I think the poster was banned as well. But Alicia posted about this job/activity before, so I don't get the big deal.
It also mentioned a nickname people gave to Alicia after all the stuff went down here on our board.
I'm leaving out the details because apparently this stuff can get you banned? lol
Ah okay. Gotcha. The job with "her girls" or "kids" or whatever she referenced them as? And I remember someone coming over here calling her that nickname - had to do with a picture of her BFP, right? Ah, I feel better knowing I didn't miss out on any good/new dirt. Ha!
Also, what was the Alicia story that got posted then locked?! I'm sure I know it since I'm on here, but I need to know! Ugh! That'll teach me to do dishes amidst drama.
I read it but it was a long post and I don't remember it all.
It referenced Alicia's job (or former job? no idea if she still does this or not). So I'm guessing it was revealing "personal information" and that's why the post was deleted and locked. I think the poster was banned as well. But Alicia posted about this job/activity before, so I don't get the big deal.
It also mentioned a nickname people gave to Alicia after all the stuff went down here on our board.
I'm leaving out the details because apparently this stuff can get you banned? lol
Ah okay. Gotcha. The job with "her girls" or "kids" or whatever she referenced them as? And I remember someone coming over here calling her that nickname - had to do with a picture of her BFP, right? Ah, I feel better knowing I didn't miss out on any good/new dirt. Ha!
Lmfao I remember that name! oh god that seems like so long ago.
This is what the other mod on the SAHM board said about banning in the "Poof another one gone!" thread.
TobeMrs.Shavers:
I just spent an hour catching up on this thread after my daughter's Open House and felt compelled to answer this. The Terms of Use have changed dramatically just in the last month! and have gotten much more specific in what is/isn't bannable. I must not have read through or been around during the times you were experiencing that because I have no idea what you are talking about but I am sorry. The Terms of Use were incredibly subjective up until now so it's possible AliciaS and other Mods who were watching this board at that time didn't think there was a violation occurring. Sorry for the novel, I just wanted to be clear in my answer to your valid question.Going forward, any namecalling, direct callouts, bashings, etc. are considered by The Bump as "bullying" and are subject to banning.nbsp;I hope this helps.
Also, what was the Alicia story that got posted then locked?! I'm sure I know it since I'm on here, but I need to know! Ugh! That'll teach me to do dishes amidst drama.
I read it but it was a long post and I don't remember it all.
It referenced Alicia's job (or former job? no idea if she still does this or not). So I'm guessing it was revealing "personal information" and that's why the post was deleted and locked. I think the poster was banned as well. But Alicia posted about this job/activity before, so I don't get the big deal.
It also mentioned a nickname people gave to Alicia after all the stuff went down here on our board.
I'm leaving out the details because apparently this stuff can get you banned? lol
Ah okay. Gotcha. The job with "her girls" or "kids" or whatever she referenced them as? And I remember someone coming over here calling her that nickname - had to do with a picture of her BFP, right? Ah, I feel better knowing I didn't miss out on any good/new dirt. Ha!
Sorry to intruder post but I've been lurking all these shenanigans.
Bump Jackie often checks the Chit Chat board so maybe try paging her over there and explaining your (understandable) concerns. There are also a few mods that are regulars on that board and they may be able to get in touch with Bump Godz for you.
Yeah, she might help - she wasn't even around yet a year ago when it was really an issue here.
She locked the post after not getting the response she wanted and it looks the plan is to stir drama all day.
Check out the one from the pied piper of pedos aka Allison.
Refreshing and reading that one right now. It makes me sick to think that she would think letting a sex offender be a stay at home dad was a good idea.
Sorry to intruder post but I've been lurking all these shenanigans.
Bump Jackie often checks the Chit Chat board so maybe try paging her over there and explaining your (understandable) concerns. There are also a few mods that are regulars on that board and they may be able to get in touch with Bump Godz for you.
Yeah, she might help - she wasn't even around yet a year ago when it was really an issue here.
I don't go here but figured this board might need some checking on....I emailed this thread to Bump Jackie and she said Alicia will be removed as June mod next week.
2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14
I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929
Re: I want in on the secret!!
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
Oh man, sh!t's exploded over on the SAHM board. If you are interested get over there and read it before it gets deleted for the 3rd time.
My eyes are on fire from trying to read everything as fast as I can. I should have been folding laundry but this is nuts!
I check Alicia's one blog and when I saw those pictures from Allison's kids party, it was a major WTF. Barring all the lying saying they weren't in touch, I can't believe you'd make a long car ride to bring your kid to a convicted sex offender's house. So. Effing. Crazy. ESPECIALLY after all of their BS over CIO being abuse.
I've been trying to keep up, but I feel like it is impossible! I am a serious hard core lurker there now! This is all insane, and I don't even know the half of it! I joined this group waaay too late!
If she does end up getting removed as the mod everywhere, I'll gladly say you are welcome. I would have posted about CIO a long time ago!
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
How do they ban you? And for what?? Is that why people create AE??
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
They ban you for violating TOS but yes, people just create an AE and come back.
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.
I read it but it was a long post and I don't remember it all.
It referenced Alicia's job (or former job? no idea if she still does this or not). So I'm guessing it was revealing "personal information" and that's why the post was deleted and locked. I think the poster was banned as well. But Alicia posted about this job/activity before, so I don't get the big deal.
It also mentioned a nickname people gave to Alicia after all the stuff went down here on our board.
I'm leaving out the details because apparently this stuff can get you banned? lol
Yep, you got it!
Lmfao I remember that name! oh god that seems like so long ago.
Oh god, I forgot about tha! Hilarious
Yeah, she might help - she wasn't even around yet a year ago when it was really an issue here.
Check out the one from the pied piper of pedos aka Allison.
Refreshing and reading that one right now. It makes me sick to think that she would think letting a sex offender be a stay at home dad was a good idea.
2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14
I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929