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Over a month since BD has seen or talked to DS

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For mobile bumpies: Over a month since BD has seen or talked to DS

What the fluck. Thankfully, DS(4.5) has only asked about him once. BD needs to get his sh!t together before DS realizes BD is doing a half-@ss parenting job.

Hopefully, when BD gets the CO with his DD(2), he will be on a consistent schedule with both kids. *fingerscrossed*

Vent over. 

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Re: Over a month since BD has seen or talked to DS

  • clairedavid12clairedavid12 member
    Don't hold your breath. My BD started that as soon as we split up, it's going on 5 years since he has seen my DS or even payed CS. He did the same thing to his DD from a girl after me. Quit talking to her right after her 1st bday.
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  • proudworkingmom82proudworkingmom82 member
    I'm sorry.  I know how you feel.  DD also 4.5 only sees her dad like 4 days a month and he doesn't call in between.  Once I texted him in between a visit to tell him she was sick and he just said Okay, not even an I hope she feels better.  She's going to realize these things when she gets older and resent him.
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  • Littlejen22Littlejen22 member
    That sucks but I am glad your son is taking it in stride.
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  • PrettyInPearls23PrettyInPearls23 member

    I don't understand how they can be like that. My XH doesn't call DS in between his EOWE visits; I'd go crazy not talking to him for 2 weeks!

    I'm glad your DS is handling it well so far.

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  • twister22twister22 member
    imagewendilea:

    OH honey, I hope it gets better, but I doubt it will.  Some people just don't make their kids a priority.  Dink is WILLINGLY not taking the girls for his time this summer.   11 days total in 3 months - when he could have 5 weeks and EOWE. 

    I hope your DS gets good support at home since his dad is a POS.

    DS gets great support at home, he calls DH daddy as well (BD is actually fine with that.), and it's something DS starting doing on his own. DS is also super close to my parents, which is wonderful.

    It's just so frustrating because things were really looking up, and then he just goes back to his inconsistent ways. At least there's no drama. 

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  • KTdiditKTdidit member

    I'm so sorry for your DS, I thought things were starting to get on track for you all too. Unfortunately I don't see how getting a CO in place with his DD will make him see either of his kids regularly. If he doesn't see your DS regularly it isn't very likely that he will see 2 kids regularly. But for the kids' sakes I hope I'm wrong.

    And I agree with everyone else, at least your DS has a stable life at home with you and YH.

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  • ambrvanambrvan member
    I'm confused? Weren't you all just going to church together? And didn't he just get DS for a visit when he had his DD for the first time in a long time? Has it really been over a month now or am I thinking of someone else?
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  • CFjo2010CFjo2010 member

    This makes me so sad for your DS.  I know you were really trying to work with BD regarding his visits with his DD and trying to coordinate with him.  Ugh, so frustrated for you. 

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  • twister22twister22 member

    imageambrvan:
    I'm confused? Weren't you all just going to church together? And didn't he just get DS for a visit when he had his DD for the first time in a long time? Has it really been over a month now or am I thinking of someone else?

    Yep, that's us. And BD was supposed to have DS and his DD see each other, but he ended up giving up that visit. I posted about it after it happened. I know it's hard to keep up with everyone! 

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