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"Don't stress" vent

Firework7479Firework7479 member
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My blood pressure was borderline so my RE wanted a note from my GP that says its ok for me to get pregnant. The "nurse" brings me into the room to ask why I'm there. I tell her and I get "maybe you're too stressed. I tried for a while them when I decided to stop treatments I got pregnant" thanks lady!
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  • RunCC37RunCC37 member

    Ew, gross. Here's the reaction I'd have wanted to give the nurse :::thumb on nose, sticks tongue out, and blows:::

    I bet you handled it more maturely than I would. I hate comments like that! 

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    IUI #1-5: BFN
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    IVF #2: 14R/9M/5F ~ transfer canceled ~ all embryos arrested at 1-2 cell stage
    IVF #3: 9R/5M/5F ~ 1 frosty!
    IVF #4 (FET #1): BFN

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  • BlueEyedDreamerBlueEyedDreamer member

    If one more person tells me to relax and not stress out, I'm going to slap them across the face.

    I'm sorry you had to deal with that today! Hope your BP gets better, too!

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  • Shellydawn422Shellydawn422 member
    Yeah - that's a throat punch for sure!  Hope your day gets better!
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  • lorirachellorirachel member
    that is awful! what an idiot
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  • Firework7479Firework7479 member
    Thanks ladies. I just kind of rolled my eyes and said ok. I was there to get my note and leave. Dr took my BP and I'm good to go! Now off to the RE for my follow up appt.
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  • EIK2013EIK2013 member
    Ugh! That is one of the worst things someone can say to someone dealing with IF...ESPECIALLY from a nurse!!! Common lady! Sorry you had to deal with that today!
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    ***September 2012: IUI #1 = BFN*** 
     ***October 2012: IUI #2 = cancelled due to not responding to meds ***
     ***February 2013: IUI #3 - BFN ***
     *** April 2013: Gonal-f, HCG Trigger and TI = BFN*** 
     ***May/June 2013: TAKING A BREAK.***
    ***July 2013: Gonal-f, Trigger and TI = BFN***
    ***August 2013: Gonal-f, Trigger and TI = Cancelled due to over-stimulating***
    ***September/October 2013: Fermara, Gonal-f, Trigger and TI = BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Beta #1: 65, Beta #2: 210!!!!!!***




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  • KTdid81KTdid81 member

    What a "bleep"! 

    I hate it when people say that crap. 

    The last time someone told me to relax and be positive and how it helped her get pregnant, I told her "that doesn't quite work if the sperm and the eggs can't do their job to begin with".

    I really like using explicates, but sometimes I have to reel it in.....lucky them. 

    Married 4-26-2011  Me 31 DH 28  
    TTC since 12/2011  
    5/4/13-IUI #1=BFN,  6/3/13-IUI #2=BFN, 7/1/2013-IUI #3=BFP!!!
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