TTC after 35

I am convinced my body hates me

So I posted last week that I was five days late and getting a BFN.  Well AF finally arrived the day I had an all-day field trip with DS's school - that was so fun.  And now that my cycle is pushed back a few days it looks like my best days for TTC will hit this month on the three days that (1) DH is out of town and (2) are my three busiest days of work for the entire month.  So I may as well scratch this cycle as well...Sad

 

Re: I am convinced my body hates me

  • So frustrating! Hang in there!
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  • pounce him before he leaves and as soon as he comes back! Sperm can live 5 days during your fertile time!

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    My Ovulation Chart



    Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
    3 cycles clomid with Ob,
    1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
    Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
    clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
    1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
    2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
    3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

    May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

    May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

    February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

    SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

    Miscarriage 4/23/15

     

  • I am so sorry to hear that.  That happend for me and my husband for a long time too.  He was in school and working full-time.  Then we were on opposite shifts.  I will be saying a little prayer for you. <3
  • Thanks everyone...I am just having a pity party. I appreciate you making me feel better.

     

  • I know how you feel. Last cycle I O'd insanely early, CD9, which was just the second day after I got back from an out of town work trip. We had sex the day before I O'd, but not for a week before that, so it was likely 'stale sperm'. Didn't get me KU anyways. Now this cycle I HAVE to O early, CD8 or 9, or we'll be out completely as hubby leaves for a week for work on CD9. I'm guessing my body will not cooperate, it never does at the best of times. Blaaahhh!


         

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    Married August 2012. Me: 41  DH: 42 
    Daughter from previous marriage: 20

    BFP 12/19/12: Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
    June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161
    Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014

    TTC journey over as of the end of October 2014

    TTCAL BLOG

    All ALers welcome!

  • imageHeathernSteven:
    pounce him before he leaves and as soon as he comes back! Sperm can live 5 days during your fertile time!

    That's the ticket!   Best of luck......

    Lilypie Trying to Conceive 15 to 80 day cycle tickers
  • jlb1023jlb1023 member
    I'm so sorry to hear that :(  I'm new here and I can only imagine how you're feeling.  My hubby and I just started TTC and I travel for work so I'm sure I'll be experiencing similar situations.  Hang in there!!!!
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