So today we went to the new pedi since we have moved for DD's 2 year visit and I hated the whole thing. Office staff was rude and unfriendly not at all what I would expect from an office that deals with children all day! The pedi was also awful. Not very thorough and basically scared the crap out of me.
Now on to the labial adhesion thing, apparently DD has this? Dr. said it could have just occurred but I've never seen it so I guess it must have. Anyone have any experience with this? She said it was a pretty long one in that it was almost to her urethra but not blocking it. When I asked her what causes it she said just stickyness and being a moist area....or sexual abuse trauma!...then she asked me if I thought that could be a possibility!! I was just sick to my stomach that she made the thought even cross my freaking mind...but really?? ! So far I haven't read anywhere that that is a cause of it, but seriously it just seemed a little extreme and really upset me. Needless to say we won't be using that office again.
Any suggestions on what to do for the adhesions? She suggested vasoline and if they don't re-open we would have to put estrogen cream on it. I've never heard of this before so any advice, thoughts would be appreciated!
Re: Labial adhesions and awful pedi visit.
DD1 Feb 2010
DD2 Sept 2011
It's very common, and some girls are more prone to it than others, according to my pedi -- who never said anything about a connection to sexual abuse.
DD1 has never had one, but DD2 has had them repeatedly and we've done like 4-5 rounds of steroid cream over the past two years. Vaseline wasn't enough. As soon as we got one open, it would stay that way for a few weeks or a couple of months and then start closing again. It has gotten better as she's gotten older.
DD1, 1/5/2008 ~~~ DD2, 3/17/2010
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My pedi also says they're common and totally normal for some girls. She's never once mentioned sexual abuse.
My pedi also said that because DD clearly has enough space to urinate without causing a problem she sees no reason to interfere and that it will clear up on its own as she matures and produces estrogen.
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