So I am traveling alone with my soon to be 18 month old. I will require a car seat when I get to my destination. In the past we always gate checked our car seat, but have never flown without my husband. I cant quite fathom getting my child in a stroller, our carry-on tote bag and a car seat through security to the gate my own. I have read horrible reviews on the carts they make that you strap the car seat to. So how in the world do you make it work?
Re: how to fly with toddler and car seat
I strapped the car seat TO the rolling carry-on bag. I don't remember exactly how I did it, but it worked. I've checked the car seat as a checked bag, too - you shouldn't have to pay for it. Just get a bag to put it in so it doesn't get too banged up. I used one of the red drawstring "gate check" bags that they have at BRU, even though it was a checked bag instead of gate checked.
I just noticed you said that your carry on is a tote bag - my suggestion obviously wouldn't work with that. I just think rolling suitcases are easier to deal with.
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We had a horrible experience with checking a car seat last time we flew. It never arrived at our destination! So we wont be going that route again.
The problem is I am not taking a rolling bag. I am only taking a small tote bag to hold some snacks and diapers for the plane!
Do not check your carseat- it is considered damaged as if it were in an accident.