December 2013 Moms

Dont bring me down!

This is my first pregnancy and me and my fiancee are SOOOOOO excited about t the peanut. But it seems to me like so many people are just less than excited about it for us. His one aunt and uncle are so old fashioned and never had kids that they stare at us and frown all the time. Then there's my boss that just sees me as lazy and trying to work less because the pregnancy has not been kind in the begining begining, with morning sickness and fatigue. And he is constantly telling me how when i have the baby I'm going to have to work that much harder while being tired. And my mom seems determined to make me feel bad since i live further away than she would like!  What ever happened to just being happy for the people who made a life and keeping your strongly projected negatives to yourself! Woof its tiring. I just want lots of happy like i feel!

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Re: Dont bring me down!

  • People. Suck.

    Some people just don't want anyone else to be happy or feel the need to make your news about them.

    That's my favorite part about having my husband and starting our own family. If someone makes me feel mad or like what I feel or what I'm going through isn't important, he reminds me that it's all about us and our family now.

    And your boss sounds like a jack wagon. He should be careful because a lot of male bosses toe the line of HR issues with women. Especially pregnant women.

    Congrats to you and the daddy to be. I hope you have a wonderful pregnancy and anyone who makes you feel like crap can take a hike.
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    I say tell them you want them to be happy for you and if they are just going to be negative then those will be the times you have to cut the conversation/trip short! Find people that are excited for you and spend more time with them. : Congrats though!!!!
  • You are totally right! I just need more positive and this is a great place for that. 

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