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Vent

ambrvanambrvan member
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People say you can be open with them and they are "fine" with something, but they really aren't. And when you try to finally tell them something, they blow it up into something completely not the way you meant it. Why can't people just listen to me? And don't expect me to 'compromise' if you aren't willing to do the same. That's what a compromise is. It takes two people to meet halfway, not one person caving. That would be giving in. And I know I am going to really piss someone off with this comment, but oh the well.


Was going to put that on Facebook, but decided not to. So I put it here. I want to say it to DH, but he proba ly should not read it on facebook.
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Re: Vent

  • twister22twister22 member
    Lol here is a much better place to vent than FB. I'm sorry DH is having trouble compromising.
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  • WahooWahoo member

    Sounds like your H can work on his communication skills.  Saying you are "fine" with something when you are not is passive-aggressive.  

    Hopefully you can work through this issue!

    And you are smart to post here vs. on FB!

    image "Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self esteem, first make sure you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes.
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  • PhantomgirlPhantomgirl member
    Amb I hear ya! My DH is driving me crazy at the moment.

    Just breath and do something nice for yourself.

    I'm sitting in a cafe at the moment chilling out.
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