So the NY Post thing about the 1% hiring disabled people to act as family so they can cut the lines that has been floating around got me thinking.
Has anybody here done Disney, with or without SN accommodations? I think it's called the GAC. What was your experience?
We're going to Disney World (FL) in July. DD1 has done well at a local amusement park the past two summers, but the only time we've ever gone has been when DH's company has a private event -- they rent the whole park, so the lines are way shorter than they would be if it was open to the public. And that's just for a few hours, not three days of multiple parks (we are renting a condo to come and go from, with plenty of space, a pool, etc. when we need a break from the parks). I'm having mixed feelings about the Disney option -- like, I think we might be able to manage without it. She adores the "fun park," as she calls it, and I have no doubt she's going to have an awesome time overall; my dilemma, I guess, is whether or not to take this SN option. Maybe we could try the first day without it and see how it goes. Or maybe we just say, hey, this is a service for those with SN and she fits that and quit vacillating on whether or not she's "special needs enough;" let's just do it and not wait to see if she melts down.
If we do opt for the GAC, what documentation should we bring? Would a dx page from her evaluation or IEP document suffice, or should I get a note from our doctor? She will be wearing a medical/ID bracelet as well.
Re: Disney & SN
I would get it. Getting it doesn't mean you *have* to use it, but she's young and has a disability that could potentially use the accommodation. When you're there, you can use your judgment.
I hear Auntie on the eventually she will need to learn to wait and it will serve her well, and don't disagree but I also think there's a time and a place for that. You can have her wait during early hours and when the park is quieter, and maybe she'll be able to wait again after a rest in the middle of the day, but maybe she'll need the break at times. Maybe she'll need the break the first day or two, but able to handle a little more waiting later in the trip, or the opposite. If the trip ends up being a fun, positive experience, even if the pass was useful in helping make it that way, she will be more prepared to have a fun, positive experience next time, and likely better able to handle a little more waiting and chaos.
I kind of agree with you actually. If they are doing it because they WANT to --then let them. You just never know the real backstory.
As for the GAC--I've heard people over the years on the boards say that it truly made their trip different to have it with their SNs LO's. If we go, I would probably ask for it and then if I felt it wasn't necessary, wouldn't use it--and if I did--would have it. July can be very crowded and VERY VERY hot.
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Someone on my local board is pretty sure she saw this happening the last time she was at Disney. Where a "cousin" was eating lunch and taking longer than the rest of the "family", and when they were done, he was being nagged to finish, talking about "keeping to the arranged schedule" and making reference to there being a point where his "time was up."
I think if you're the type willing to hire someone disabled so you can get a shorter wait at Disney, you aren't all that worried about teaching your kids to treat people with respect.
DD1, 1/5/2008 ~~~ DD2, 3/17/2010
Auntie, it's really not a made-up story. My husband works with someone who did this. The "uncle" is in all their family vacation photos. My husband had just heard about this and told me a few weeks before the Post article. It's a real thing.