TTC after 35

36 and TTC

Hi everyone am 36 and my bf is 22. yes i know but love has no age....... we have been ttc for 6 months the thing is i got 3 kids already and am hoping that we are doing everything right. my AF is usually 25 days apart and 3 days long we do the baby dance the candle position u name it we tried it. HELP any advice

Re: 36 and TTC

  • ksgsmuksgsmu member

    Are you charting/temping?  How do you know when you are ovulating? If not go to fertilityfreind.com and learn about it.  If you aren't ovulating or you aren't BDing at the right time that is an issue. 

    Also I would ask your bf to get a Semen analysis... just because he is young doesn't mean there couldn't be an issue.

     

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    Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR,  DH: normal

     IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix.
    - poor responder
    ***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days
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    Are you charting/temping?  How do you know when you are ovulating? If not go to fertilityfreind.com and learn about it.  If you aren't ovulating or you aren't BDing at the right time that is an issue. 

    Also I would ask your bf to get a Semen analysis... just because he is young doesn't mean there couldn't be an issue.

    All of this....Good Luck

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    Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
    3 cycles clomid with Ob,
    1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
    Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
    clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
    1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
    2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
    3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

    May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

    May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

    February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

    SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

    Miscarriage 4/23/15

     

  • Welcome and the more you know about your body and how things work the better! Best of luck
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • Check out Fertility Friend, it has great free tutorials to help you with charting and figuring out your cycles.  Unfortunately I have no idea what candle position is, I'm almost afraid to ask. And if you're old enough to make babies, you're certainly old enough to say the word sex, baby dance is just ridiculous.

    Also, proper grammar/punctuation is your friend.



         

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    Married August 2012. Me: 41  DH: 42 
    Daughter from previous marriage: 20

    BFP 12/19/12: Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
    June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161
    Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014

    TTC journey over as of the end of October 2014

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    All ALers welcome!

  • i do chart and i use an opk every month. we have an appt at the doc to see if its him that is having this issue, he hates doctors but i told him itd for me so hes going
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