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November 2013 Moms
Oh MIL.
So it was Mother's Day weekend. I called my mom and sister, they're my best friends so of course we talked for hours. My husband called his mom and she asked if I called my mom. He said yes and that I also called my sister and we had talked for house. Well what happens next?!?! She starts fing crying!!!!!! Husband asked her whats wrong and she says that I didn't call her and I don't talk to her for hours like I do with my mom and sister.
It's not like we get along anyways!! Well they hung up. Then it begins. My husband got mad and started saying I was a b!tch for hurting his moms feelings. I used to call his mom all the time!! Until one day she said that I bother her when I call. So I stopped. And now she's crying cause I don't call her on Mother's Day, or her birthday, or other holidays. And my husband went nuts!! And said I was rude.
I felt bad then realized he has never, not once, called my mom on her birthday, or Mother's Day, or other holidays. And you don't see my mom crying about it!! And I told him that. Then he was studering like crazy and didn't know what to say. And I walked away like a boss! Lol. MIL strikes again and tries to make me look like a horrible person. But at least I made the effort. My husband hasn't done that.
This all happend on Friday. It was my Mother's Day, so I took my daughter to the park and we had lots of fun. It was our momma daughter time. Were super Mexican so May 10 is our day lol. My husband stayed at home, like a grouch. When we got home, my daughter was tired so I put her down for her nap. I went to put in a movie and make some pop corn and had a bag of chips, relaxing quiet night for me. My dog decided to join me so I was watching a movie with my hairy child. My husband comes out of the room, he wouldn't look at me. Then he sat next to me and said he was sorry he over reacted. I said to just forget about since its nothing new that his mom tries to ruin my day. We ended up just putting it behind and kept with the movie night. We took a picture together and posted it up on Instagram. His parents have an Instagram and saw the picture. His mom called about 5 minutes after it was up.
She didn't like that we were doing good. And went crazy. It was a strange, but Good Friday. Sorry it's long, but just had to share. I just laughed it off and got over it. Anyways, hope you ladies had a great Mother's Day and didn't have to deal with crazy in laws!! ::Mobile Smiley::
It's not like we get along anyways!! Well they hung up. Then it begins. My husband got mad and started saying I was a b!tch for hurting his moms feelings. I used to call his mom all the time!! Until one day she said that I bother her when I call. So I stopped. And now she's crying cause I don't call her on Mother's Day, or her birthday, or other holidays. And my husband went nuts!! And said I was rude.
I felt bad then realized he has never, not once, called my mom on her birthday, or Mother's Day, or other holidays. And you don't see my mom crying about it!! And I told him that. Then he was studering like crazy and didn't know what to say. And I walked away like a boss! Lol. MIL strikes again and tries to make me look like a horrible person. But at least I made the effort. My husband hasn't done that.
This all happend on Friday. It was my Mother's Day, so I took my daughter to the park and we had lots of fun. It was our momma daughter time. Were super Mexican so May 10 is our day lol. My husband stayed at home, like a grouch. When we got home, my daughter was tired so I put her down for her nap. I went to put in a movie and make some pop corn and had a bag of chips, relaxing quiet night for me. My dog decided to join me so I was watching a movie with my hairy child. My husband comes out of the room, he wouldn't look at me. Then he sat next to me and said he was sorry he over reacted. I said to just forget about since its nothing new that his mom tries to ruin my day. We ended up just putting it behind and kept with the movie night. We took a picture together and posted it up on Instagram. His parents have an Instagram and saw the picture. His mom called about 5 minutes after it was up.
She didn't like that we were doing good. And went crazy. It was a strange, but Good Friday. Sorry it's long, but just had to share. I just laughed it off and got over it. Anyways, hope you ladies had a great Mother's Day and didn't have to deal with crazy in laws!! ::Mobile Smiley::
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Re: Oh MIL.
I am sorry you had a bad day, but you need to get a blog. All these updates about the drama in your family are getting old.
If you don't want us to think you are crazy for being with your DH, I suggest you put things like this in a private blog.
No it's 3 boys in total. They're all married. But she the worst on me. Maybe cause we got married last from all his brothers? He is the youngest. I tried the whole text message or Facebook thing with her. But she never seems to be satisfied.
I actually tried getting a blog. Didn't quite work though. From other post I've put about my in laws, other people seem to get a laugh out of it. It is funny. And it's not my crazy family, it's my husbands. I don't think I'm crazy for being with my husband. I love the guy!!! So much, that I am willing to deal with his crazy parents. Yeah he might drive me crazy at times, but who's husband doesn't drive them crazy?! People need to vent, and really, this is the best place I can do it cause I like seeing the responses. Sorry you are getting tired of my post. I would post something asking for advice but someone beats me to it. I rather just read that then have someone complain cause I didn't look in other threads.
I actually tried getting a blog. Didn't quite work though. From other post I've put about my in laws, other people seem to get a laugh out of it. It is funny. And it's not my crazy family, it's my husbands. I don't think I'm crazy for being with my husband. I love the guy!!! So much, that I am willing to deal with his crazy parents. Yeah he might drive me crazy at times, but who's husband doesn't drive them crazy?! People need to vent, and really, this is the best place I can do it cause I like seeing the responses. Sorry you are getting tired of my post. I would post something asking for advice but someone beats me to it. I rather just read that then have someone complain cause I didn't look in other threads.
Thank you. Add that to her other rant about him not letting her take the car and you have a crazy woman married to a complete ahole.
I was in shock when he did that because he's never called me that. But I knew he was mad and thats why I just left. People sometimes say things they don't mean out of anger. It was my second mothers day and my daughter is old enough to enjoy it with me. I didn't want a pointless argument to ruin my day. I was blessed with a beautiful daughter and blessed to have another baby so what the heck, I'm glad he stepped up and apologized. If he didn't that would have been a whole different story.
I'm glad he apologized. DH and I talked a lot when we first got married about how to fight (hey, it's healthy to fight!) but to do so in a respectful way - even when we're mad that stuff doesn't fly!! I would've gone off!!
I was close to attacking him and smacking him with my daughters stuffed monkey since that was closer haha. But I just kept calm and walked away. I don't like fighting around my daughter. Last time we argued around her, she has the saddest face ever. That broke my heart. So since then, I learned to walk away and cool off. And I take my daughter with me cause she's so full of happiness and she's so silly, no doubt she'll make me laugh!
I agree. My husband has never ever called me that. I think it would break my heart.
OP, it's ok for you to realize he spoke in anger, but I think it would be a good idea to have a quiet conversation about inappropriate name calling.