Are u flucking kidding me DH!!!????!

Re: Are u flucking kidding me DH!!!????!

• Desireedill

  May 2013

  I hate when men randomly disappear. It's worse at night when ur asleep
  And completely u aware. Mine has done it enough times, it doesn't surprise me. Not anymore though sent him packing back to daddy. I have two kids to worry about, not his dumbass

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• blondolphn member

  May 2013

  My husband does that time to time when his friend would get off work at like 3 am. And that's when i'd wake up to pee so I'd notice he was gone. I'd call verify we didn't have a fight, and then try to go back to sleep. But then I'd think they were at Denny's (they would usually go there) and how good it sound. So the new rule is, if DH leaves to hang out with his friend, he's bringing me home breakfast. :O)
  

  

  
  

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• MrsMommyQ member

  May 2013

  I would be fuming too. That's so not cool.

  DH is a cop and often works 2nd shift (4-12) and sometimes he stays for overtime. When we were first married he wouldn't tell me he was going to be late and I 'd wake up at 3 am and he wouldn't be home and I'd FREAK the fluck out. Now he texts me. That's the least he can do--especially when you're home with a child...AND Pregnant!!
  

  
  
  
  
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• sfshorter member

  May 2013

  Ummm, I really hope your DH is wherever he says he is when he leaves, but all of my I've been down that road before red flags shot straight up when I read this.  Then, without telling him anything, I had my DH read it and the other posts about DH leaving at 3 am just to see what he thought about it.  His first response was, "I'd murder you if you ever did anything like that."  Which he knows I feel the same way, and then he said, just being a man and knowing lots of men, this doesn't sound right at all and it really seems like there is something else going on. 

  I don't know many men who want to get out of bed with their wife they love or leave the house in the middle of the night without some not so good alterior motive. 

  I'm not meaning to be a jerk, but I'd definitely watch for other things to.  I just have a big issue with cheating, not only because of the commitment marriage should be, but the health implications of it on you and your family. 

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• bkeane619 member

  May 2013

  sfshorter:

  Ummm, I really hope yournbsp;DH is wherever he says he is when he leaves, but all of my I've been down that road before red flags shot straight up when I read this.nbsp; Then, without telling him anything, I had my DH read it and the other posts about DH leaving at 3 am just to see what he thought about it.nbsp; His first response was, "I'd murder you if you ever did anything like that."nbsp; Which he knows I feel the same way, and then henbsp;said, just being a man and knowing lots of men, this doesn't sound right at all and it really seems like there is something else going on.nbsp;
  I don't know many men who want to get out of bed with their wife they love or leave the house in the middle of the night without some not so good alterior motive.nbsp;
  I'm not meaning to be a jerk, but I'd definitely watch for other things to.nbsp; I just have a big issue with cheating, not only because of the commitment marriage should be, but the health implications of it on you and your family.nbsp;

  I checked his texts and he def went to his friends house. So I'm not too worried about that. My issue is he didn't leave a note or text. He can hang out with his friend. I like the guy. He didn't tell me because he knew I wouldn't want him going over there so late. He's right. It's screwed up how he did it and deliberately deceitful. That's why I'm pissed.

                                                   

                                      

                                       

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• sfshorter member

  May 2013

  bkeane619:

  sfshorter:

  Ummm, I really hope yournbsp;DH is wherever he says he is when he leaves, but all of my I've been down that road before red flags shot straight up when I read this.nbsp; Then, without telling him anything, I had my DH read it and the other posts about DH leaving at 3 am just to see what he thought about it.nbsp; His first response was, "I'd murder you if you ever did anything like that."nbsp; Which he knows I feel the same way, and then henbsp;said, just being a man and knowing lots of men, this doesn't sound right at all and it really seems like there is something else going on.nbsp; I don't know many men who want to get out of bed with their wife they love or leave the house in the middle of the night without some not so good alterior motive.nbsp; I'm not meaning to be a jerk, but I'd definitely watch for other things to.nbsp; I just have a big issue with cheating, not only because of the commitment marriage should be, but the health implications of it on you and your family.nbsp;

  I checked his texts and he def went to his friends house. So I'm not too worried about that. My issue is he didn't leave a note or text. He can hang out with his friend. I like the guy. He didn't tell me because he knew I wouldn't want him going over there so late. He's right. It's screwed up how he did it and deliberately deceitful. That's why I'm pissed.

  Well that's a relief at least!  Yeah, knowing you would be pissed and doing it anyway is worse.  Good luck working all that out!  Maybe he will realize he screwed up and not do it again.

  
  

  
  

  
  

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