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Random vent

Kind of disappointed that DH and SD don't recognize me today. It makes IF even suckier today.SD had a mothers day tea with her Drill Team yesterday and she didn't invite me, which I understand. Her mom dropped the ball and they missed the event. Her mom had the flyer for a month and never bothered to look at the time so they missed it an SD was sad, it made me so mad because I would never be that careless. I only hope her mom apologized and took sd to do something special with just the two of them. To vent even more about her mom...she gave sd a bottle of weight loss pills! That is so unsafe for a teenager who is not even overweight. What kind of message does she want her daughter to get?! DH told her that was unsafe and he plans to talk to his ex.I get so mad because I feel I make better choices as a stepmom but I know its not my place to say anything so I just do it here. I'm sure there are a ton of things her mom does right but I can't help but get upset when I see her let her daughter down.

I'm 10dpiui and tempted to test because I tested the trigger out yesterday. I have zero symptoms and I never get AF without provera so I'm in limbo until the beta this thursday. Thanks for listening on this tough day!

BFP #1 6/16/2012 EDD 2/25/2013 MMC @ 7 weeks(found out at 10 weeks) 8/2/2012 BFP #2 2/8/2013 EDD 10/25/2013 Beta #1 56 Beta #2 62 Beta #3 156 Beta #4 665 Beta #5 1091 Blighted Ovum 2/27/2013

Re: Random vent

  • Ya major side eye to her for the weight loss pills. that's crazy. I'm sorry today is rough for you!

    As I read through your whole post I understood what you were saying, but I will say that the first couple of sentences read a bit differently than you intended. I read SD as sweet daughter instead of step daughter and since it is mother's day I know a few ladies here might not have made it past the first sentence.  Not trying to make a big deal about it but you may want to put step daughter instead of sd so that you get more responses. Again, I understood you and I'm sorry this day is hard.

    Good luck with your upcoming beta!!

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  • Desmo35Desmo35 member
    Oh dear! I'm so sorry. I thought that was the correct abbreviation for StepDaughter. Is there a way to edit? :/
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  • RunCC37RunCC37 member
    I'm so sorry you're having a bad day :( It has to be so hard to standby and watch your step daughter's bio mom dismiss her time after time when you're going through IF. You are an amazing person for being there for her without pushing too hard. (((hugs)))
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    ohh geez! What a frustrating situation.  Keep up the good work with your step daughter and GL w betas.
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  • imageDesmo35:
    Oh dear! I'm so sorry. I thought that was the correct abbreviation for StepDaughter. Is there a way to edit? :/

    Actually, please disregard my prior statement. You really didn't write the wrong thing. I was worried about what I wrote to you all through church this morning and couldn't wait to come home and make sure that you weren't bothered my what I wrote.  I truly believe that as her step mom you are a mother and should be acknowledged today. I'm sorry for just being in a bad mood today and pointing out something as silly as an abbreviation that really doesn't matter at all.

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  • imageRunCC37:
    I'm so sorry you're having a bad day :( It has to be so hard to standby and watch your step daughter's bio mom dismiss her time after time when you're going through IF. You are an amazing person for being there for her without pushing too hard. (((hugs)))

    This, I am sorry you are having a hard day. GL with your betas!!

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