January 2013 Moms

Lord beer me strength

My mother in law gets here Monday. For a week. In our studio.
Our little Samosa arrives in January!

Re: Lord beer me strength

  • I read stuff like this and I'm so glad my mil lives in the same town as us. Don't get me wrong, I love her and we have a great relationship, but I think a big part of that comes from the fact that we've never spent more than a day together. Good luck
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  • Eeeeeeeash. I live with mine but I'm at least in a little apt above the garage and she's in a six bedroom house. Yikes. Anyone visiting in a studio would be hard! Set boundaries with hubs now and make sure you have an exit strategy!!! Good luck!
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    It's an incredibly long story but we don't have good history she's Indian and didn't approve of me being white and she has said and done some really horrible things. I don't even want her to touch my daughter. Ugh!!!
    Our little Samosa arrives in January!
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    It's an incredibly long story but we don't have good history she's Indian and didn't approve of me being white and she has said and done some really horrible things. I don't even want her to touch my daughter. Ugh!!!
    call me a nosy B but now I really wanna know what she did!!!
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  • Hmmm ... maybe she needs a gift certificate to a local hotel for Mother's Day. ;)

    Seriously though, good luck. I know that I could never do it. I suppose I am lucky that the IL's live close. At least they will never try to stay with us.  

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  • DCKateDCKate member
    She has her own issues bad marriage, etc. I am very understanding and kind, honestly. She's just done too much to forgive. She used to call me at home and at work to tell me she knew that I was a gold digger and my husband was only with me for sex, and then he would leave me for a nice Indian girl.

    Needless to say, I make more then he does and he married a nice Irish Catholic girl instead! Things have gotten better but I'm steeling myself for the barrage of 'you're doing it wrong,' that i will face all week.
    Our little Samosa arrives in January!
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