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Orgasms. Do you fake them sometimes or are you honest every time?
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Ah. Well, my H's ego is big enough I guess. I generally tell him if sexy time sucked and we both laugh about it.
Now, I just look at him like "what the fcuk was that?"
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Off topic, we finally had sex this week after several months. Last time, DH finished before I orgasmed, then got up to clean up. I was pissed! This time, I was about to orgasm but he still finished first. I immediately grabbed his hand and guided him down there so he can finish me off! Otherwise, he might have thought I was done and gotten up again!
I can, as I re-affirmed this weekend for our drunken sex bout. It was seriously like pre-baby sex. Lotta foreplay which meant I was ready to O right away, but I just changed out the condom and went right back at it. DW is a lot dirtier when she's drunk, and yeah, it was some seriously hot, passionate dirty stuff. Oh, and DS decided to wait until right after we finished to wake up and need attending to!
The best part was later when we got into bed, despite her being kind of out of it, she wanted to go again. My mini-confession is we decided not to bother with a condom and just do pull-out-and-pray. I had no issue controlling myself and pulling out when the time came. It was a great night.
Since it sort of came up in the Food FFFC:
What "date" did you go all the way with your SO for the first time?
For us it was date #4 for P-in-V, #3 for oral sleepover.
Negative 1st date? I slept with him before we officially dated. I touched his penis with the quickness.
Negative 1st date? I slept with him before we officially dated. I touched his penis with the quickness.
This.
"Date" #3. Which was about a month after we met. I had to look it up based on Doctor Who episodes, haha.
I have never been with a guy that can do this. Super jealous!
I did date a guy that could delay O though. Apparently he would recite the quadratic equation to himself and just keep going, or so he told me.
The two guys DW dated before me both had this issue. She was quite pleasantly surprised when it was NBD for me. I'm sure it's not much consolation, but if there's no issues without one, it's purely psychological.
Ok, I gotta ask... why anal before vaginal? Was it pregnancy fears? Or was it like "I'm still a virgin if we only do anal"?
You were sort of a dumbass in your early 20s?
I think you'll have a lot of company on that around here!
Same.
Um. He has on occasion.
He was totally a wonderful mix of nerd and bad boy. Worked in a computer shop, played a ton of Diablo, was a racecar driver and smoked pot.
Dh had to wait 6 months after we started dating. He's the only guy I've slept which, since I don't count my rapist in my "numbers".
I had major trust issues and needed to work through stuff to feel fully in control and ready.
What time of day do you usually have sex?
I've faked in the past but not now. I think I used to feel bad if I didn't O, now I'm like, meh, maybe next time.
We had sex on our first date, which was a week after we met. Prior to that I hadn't had sex in a long time. Like 2 1/2 years or something.
Most often after DS goes to bed, sometimes in the morning before DH goes to work if he can get me worked up.
At night after Cu goes to bed, but we don't see eachother during the day... like hardly ever.
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Percentage of time for morning/afternoon/night
This. I don't think we've had a naptime afternoon delight yet, but I might be mistaken.
I SWYD there, and what you apparently are doing at night.
1. I'm a dirty faker. Only because I have times when DH is doing everything right, but I just can't get there.
2. We had sex on the 3-4 date. Not sure.
3. We had a ton of morning sex before kids, but now, especially now that DD isn't taking 2 naps, it's mostly after the kids go to bed.
2) DH definitely used to be able to last forever AND keep going. It was awesome. Post kids ain't nobody got time for that. I don't know if he still has those skills. Maybe when this LO starts STTN and I have energy for more than a quickie I'll find out.
3) I made DH wait like 6 weeks. I was 20 and he was taking the V card. I didn't need to wait for marriage, at the time didn't even think it would happen for us, but I wanted to be sure I wouldn't regret it.
4) After the kids go to bed.