Random stressors...a bit of a vent.

MrMrsandBaby · May 2013

I just have to get this out (again)...I'm so overwhelmed with options right now. #2 timing, vacation, bills, wanting a new house, raising a toddler, DH working a different shift, bills, all the motorcycle talk from DH, bills, FIL's estate and the drama that that entails, no social life, bills (did I mention bills?)...

I just want things to start happening rather than pending. FIL's estate has been in process since I got my BFP in 2011! Two years...come on...but the b!tch that he was dating/living with was dragging her feet for a year and now is stalling on the settlements. Once the estate settles, we can pay off some big bills, start saving for the house, decide on vacation/motorcycle/#2 and have some breathing room in our budget.

DH is starting to drag his feet now too! He never calls his attorney, just sits and waits for them to get back to him. I just want all of this to be DONE. I know that money doesn't solve all of our problems, but right now it is such a blocker to our goals that I feel like it would solve a lot of them.

Grrrrr....I'm done...for now.

lancyjo · May 2013

Ugh, stuff like that bugs me too. I have zero patience for people dragging their feet. I hope things pick up for you soon! Smile

DaizyMay22 · May 2013

I hate when people drag their feet too, especially with something like that. You would think they would want it done and over with so they can move on their life. Plus legal things take forever anyways. Good luck, hope it all works out soon!

Mar5195 · May 2013

I'm a total get sh!t done type of girl. So I can relate.

I also believe you have to prepare yourself to receive whatever it is that you want. So maybe start fixing up the house and prepping it for sale. I know that can usually be alot of little stuff. And set up a kill list for all the bills you want paid off (I follow Dave Ramsey so I have a list of bills and how we kill them off). And re baby #2, I'm getting into really good shape because I know with my luck I'll get my body back and then I'll get KU again. And if your Mr is goign to get a motorcycle start researching a really good driving school for him to learn before he takes his exam with the DMV (if he doesn't already have it).

The good thing in your case is that you know eventually things will have to be settled and there will be resolution.

MrMrsandBaby · May 2013

Mar5195:
I'm a total get sh!t done type of girl. So I can relate.

I also believe you have to prepare yourself to receive whatever it is that you want. So maybe start fixing up the house and prepping it for sale. I know that can usually be alot of little stuff. And set up a kill list for all the bills you want paid off (I follow Dave Ramsey so I have a list of bills and how we kill them off). And re baby #2, I'm getting into really good shape because I know with my luck I'll get my body back and then I'll get KU again. And if your Mr is goign to get a motorcycle start researching a really good driving school for him to learn before he takes his exam with the DMV (if he doesn't already have it).

The good thing in your case is that you know eventually things will have to be settled and there will be resolution.

Ahhh...a woman after my own heart! All of the above have been started! And I keep telling myself every month that goes by is one more month we pay on the bills so then less of the inheritance is going toward debt and more toward savings! It is jsut so HARD to wait!!!

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