So there are four people in my department including me. One of them is a woman who also just had her baby. My office is in the main room and I share it with our director so I can't pump in there bc it's very public. The other two have private offices. I usually use the other female's office bc she understands BFing and her office is private. I couldn't use her office one day so I asked the male who has a private office if I could use his to pump while he was out at a workshop and he flat out told me absolutely NOT. I then have to go to the public bathroom with students walking in and out of it and hide in the handicap stall to pump bc there isn't really another place to go.
I didn't realize my pumping was going to infect his office. He is now also treating me badly. I don't know why. I know it's his office, but I had no where else to go. It just really hurt my feelings.