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NoetholaNoethola member
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I have already been crying buckets because of mothers day, including a break down at church last Sunday. I know this weekend will also be a bear. So, I decided to share this with friends and family. I didnt write it, but my heart could have.

https://www.bethmorey.com/2012/05/what-to-say-to-bereaved-mother-on.html

I wanted to share in case any of you needed to share it with friends and family too.

Lilypie - (qptF)


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"Elsie Irene was born sleeping at 35w 6d on December 8, 2012. Mommy and Daddy miss you sweet girl."


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  • thecuddleeffectthecuddleeffect member

    I want to plaster this everywhere.

    Someone just told me I wasnt allowed to hate/avoid mother's day b/c it wasnt fair that I was ruining it for all the other mothers out there. And "ruining" it for my mother, yeah she is grieving the loss of her first grandbabies, I'm sure I'm not ruining it....

    Lilypie - (5WpR)
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    4/11 Off BCPs -- Cycle 1-3 (6months) - No ovulation, Provera
    Cycle 4-6 - Provera, Clomid 50mg, CD23BW - All BFN (HSG-all clear)
    Dec 2011 DH S/A shows zero count - dx Azoo
    TESE 4/13/12 - Sperm found!! 5 viles frozen
    IVF ICSI #1- (Lupron protocol) 5R 2F 2dt- 2DP & 4CF - BFFN
    IVF ICSI #2-  (Antagonist protocol) Started stims 7/26
    ER 8/8 11R 9F 3dt - 9BF & 7BF (+HPT 8dp3dt)TWINS! EDD 5/1/13
    <312/9 Joshua David and Zoe Faith born too early at 19w4d due to incompetent cervix <3
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  • tuscanbride2007tuscanbride2007 member
    imagethecuddleeffect:

    I want to plaster this everywhere.

    Someone just told me I wasnt allowed to hate/avoid mother's day b/c it wasnt fair that I was ruining it for all the other mothers out there. And "ruining" it for my mother, yeah she is grieving the loss of her first grandbabies, I'm sure I'm not ruining it....

    what an absolutely horrible thing to say! Why don't people think before they open their mouths? 

    BFP #1 12.24.07 - DD born @ 39w1d on 08.26.08
    BFP #2 08.04.11 - DD born still @ 37w3d on 03.25.12

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    TTC #3 since May 2012

    BFP #3 12.29.12 - CP @ 4w2d on 01.02.13
    BFP #4 10.17.13 - CP @ 4w2d on 10.23.13
    BFP #5 04.06.14 - MMC 05.07.14

    No longer trying to conceive.

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  • NoetholaNoethola member
    imagethecuddleeffect:

    I want to plaster this everywhere.

    Someone just told me I wasnt allowed to hate/avoid mother's day b/c it wasnt fair that I was ruining it for all the other mothers out there. And "ruining" it for my mother, yeah she is grieving the loss of her first grandbabies, I'm sure I'm not ruining it....

    Oh my word, seriously? That is rediculous. By avoiding mother's day it doesnt mean we ruin it for everyone else. Since when has being single during Valentines Day ruined it for everyone else??

    Just because we are mother's who are greiving on mother's day instead of being fake does not give someone the right to tell us we ruin it for others. And yes, the whole family will be greiving all over again on Mother's Day.

    Lilypie - (qptF)


    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers 
    "Elsie Irene was born sleeping at 35w 6d on December 8, 2012. Mommy and Daddy miss you sweet girl."


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