TTC after 35

Personal Question

Can someone tell me, I am 39 and have been trying to get pregnant for about a year, if being assaulted at 19, be one of the problems why I am unable to conceive? And should I bring that up to my RE? 
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Re: Personal Question

  • I think all things are pertinent. perhaps from the assualt you had some injuries that developed scar tissue preventing thr ovaries and fallopian tubes from doing there jobs.

    Also there may be a psychological component causing you to not concieve. I believe our minds have very powerful control over our bodies, so subconsciously you may be not ready.

    I hope everything works out for you!!

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  • First of all, I am so sorry that you had to endure such a horrible event. 

     As Heather said, our minds and body's protect us from all kinds of situations, so I would be as honest, as you can with your RE and let them have all the pieces to your puzzle to help them try and figure out why you are not getting pregnant.  Releasing that uncomfortable personal piece of your life can possibly, relax you to be more receptive to the blessing of pregnancy that you are seeking.....

    Wishing you the best in peace and success, as you move forward in your journey to become a mom......

    Lilypie Trying to Conceive 15 to 80 day cycle tickers
  • Sunni01Sunni01 member
    Thank you both for your suggestions. =)
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    Me-39, HSG 2/13- clear. DS-IUI #1-3/13,300iu Menopur 12 days,3 days Cetrotide, Ovidrel Trigger-BFN. IUI #2 06/13, BFP EDD: 02/22/14 m/c (cp), IUI #3- BFP EDD: 5/17/14 m/c 09/13. Blood work/RPL panel- nk cell/MTHFR mutation- negative. Blood work all good. Unexplained reason for m/c. IUI #4 BFP m/c (cp) 10/13. IUI #5- 12/13 Cancelled. No response. (1)follicle. IUI #5.1- 2/14. IVF Bound

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  • ksgsmuksgsmu member
    I would def bring it up to your RE....  I am so sorry
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  • PPL2011PPL2011 member
    So sorry to hear...at my first consult my RE asked me if I was ever assaulted, so it must be pertinent information. But, diagnosing trouble with trying to conceive is complex and involved. Go to an RE because you are 39 and have been trying for more than 6 months. That's not out of the ordinary. 

     

  • Sunni01Sunni01 member
    Ppl, I was never asked. It did not even think about it. I had totally blocked it out of my mind. My HSG was clear and everything was normal. But I guess I should still mention it. Thanks everyone.=)
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    Me-39, HSG 2/13- clear. DS-IUI #1-3/13,300iu Menopur 12 days,3 days Cetrotide, Ovidrel Trigger-BFN. IUI #2 06/13, BFP EDD: 02/22/14 m/c (cp), IUI #3- BFP EDD: 5/17/14 m/c 09/13. Blood work/RPL panel- nk cell/MTHFR mutation- negative. Blood work all good. Unexplained reason for m/c. IUI #4 BFP m/c (cp) 10/13. IUI #5- 12/13 Cancelled. No response. (1)follicle. IUI #5.1- 2/14. IVF Bound

    ********************SAIF/ PAIF/ ALL ARE WELCOME***********************
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