Don't understand.....

Skylers mommy · May 2013

I don't understand how some people on here can be so rude, and think that it's ok. Like people don't have feelings and that they won't get hurt when people say harsh things. I understand that you don't agree with some things but sometimes people go a little too far. I already have enough insecurities about not being a good enough mom and then people come on here and say things that only make it worse. I don't say things like that to people because you never know what they are going through, it's sad to think that some people just don't care about other people's feeling.....all I'm asking is for people to be more considerate. You can voice your opinion without being rude

BLT20051 · May 2013

Honey, this is the internet. People will respond however they want to. Some nice, some not so nice. You learn to take the good with the bad. You will be fine.

sheacox · May 2013

hugs&kisses&puppies&flowers....

this is dramatic mud right?

CocoMcGee · May 2013

sheacox:

hugs&kisses&puppies&flowers....

this is dramatic mud right?

I didn't think so at first, but this second thread seals the deal for me.

ASmallWonder · May 2013

No snarkiness here just the blunt truth - no one was rude to you. You inferred rudeness. How are we supposed to word the message that inductions for convenience are a bad idea? Because they are and if you don't know or understand that, you need to educate yourself. That's not mean, that's us sharing with you something we know that you don't and you should learn not to get defensive but hear that people are trying to educate you. As a mother you will constantly be given information and it's up to you to at least HEAR it, digest it, research it and decide if it's bullshits or something you honestly needed to learn.

sheacox · May 2013

oh and honestly... IF this is real... no one was rude to you. No one called you any names or was disrespectful. the only thing they did was have a different opinion then you and express that... which is life. and sometimes we don't like to hear others thoughts... but then be careful what you post about and you wont have to worry about that. BUT if you want everyone to always agree with you... well then, you are in for a surprise. That isn't how the world works. BUT that is what makes it interesting

Skylers mommy · May 2013

I am open to opinions whether its agreeing with me or not, but some of the way things were said were hurtful. I guess I just wasn't reading them right, and if that IS the case I apologize but it just seemed like some people were just commenting to try and be rude, not really give an opinion. Again I'm sorry if the problem was/is me and take full responsibility for all the drama.

snowsurger33 · May 2013

You are right, people do not have to be rude and can give advice nicely, but they also have the right to say whatever they want...

Skylers Mommy, its important you realize you need to filter what you read if you are sensitive. You do not have to read everyone's responses.

emolm · May 2013

snowsurger33:

nbsp;Skylers Mommy, its important you realize you need to filter what you read if you are sensitive. You do not have to read everyone's responses.

But if you're not going to read our responses, please don't ask any questions bc then you're wasting our time.

And bc my pregnancy rage is killing me right now, please look up the proper usage of an ellipsis while you're hopefully researching the pros and cons of unnecessary inductions.

LaBellaVida · May 2013

darn...I always miss the good stuff!

I don't get why you would DD then write a new post like this. Seems like you are looking for drama- just let it go.

skio · May 2013

People weren't trying to criticize your parenting or make you feel bad. We were voicing valid, educated opinions about the dangers of induction with no medical reason. Try not to take it so personally.

And please read what I posted in the below post in case you don't get to it. It's actual advice, I promise.

Pasted for your convenience: Don't let others push you into something you're not comfortable with if there is no medical reason. And a big baby is NOT a medical reason. It is not something you should just listen to your doctor on. Unless she can give you an actual medical reason that you should push your body and baby into labor before either of you are ready [like leaking fluid, high BP, etc.], don't do it. You're much more likely to both end in a c/s and have a baby with lung or other problems. Seriously.

Skylers mommy · May 2013

I was saying I'm 19 I didn't mean 19 year olds sit around an gossip....I meant the people making all those comments shouldn't be just sitting around talking about 19 year olds they don't even know

emolm · May 2013

Samanthaashley93:
I totally see where you are coming from, but I felt you made a comment that was rude and unnecessary as well. I would just like to point out not ALL 19 year olds are sitting around gossiping. Some of us work full time, are in school full time, and preparing for our LO's arrival. If younbsp;postnbsp;online some people will always disagree, but you have to remember that what matters the most is what feels best to you and your family. The end goal for us all is the same: healthy baby and healthy mommy. Good luck to you!!

Rock on, lady.

Skylers mommy · May 2013

Where is the post you were talking about?

mrskait13 · May 2013

Monkeybutt80 · May 2013

If you want only hugs and kisses, go talk to your friends and family.

flerlgirl · May 2013

Chikkity check yourself before you wreck yourself

flerlgirl · May 2013

Also, no one thinks it's okay. It IS okay. It's. The. Internet.

hjk5000 · May 2013

sheacox · May 2013

mrskait13:

PPH this...

CoffeeBeanFiend91 · May 2013

aw sh!t I always miss the good stuff

duffmaker · May 2013

CoffeeBeanFiend91:
aw sh!t I always miss the good stuff

I know right! Me too FFS every. single. time.

TheTamedShrew · May 2013

Skyler's mom, I don't even know what your post was about, but I have to agree that I have read some posts recently that have been unnecessarily surly and insensitive. This is (or so I thought) a message board for moms to support and uplift each other. Unfortunately, some women just want to expel their own personal frustrations out on the internet and the faceless women therein. This time it just happened to be directed at you. Just ignore it and brush it off. For every negative one out there, there will be a positive person to take their place.

As for everyone else, this is the internet, yes, thank you to the geniuses who keep wanting to point that out every time someone gets their feelings hurt, as if that were some consolation for it. However, try to be positive, please. We all came to this site to vent, to share feelings, to reach out, not bully each other and get into heated debates about our own personal choices. BE POSITIVE AND KIND TO ONE ANOTHER.

flerlgirl · May 2013

jo27key:
Skyler's mom, I don't even know what your post was about, but I have to agree that I have read some posts recently that have been unnecessarily surly and insensitive. nbsp;This is or so I thought a message board for moms to support and uplift each other. Unfortunately, some women just want to expel their own personal frustrations out on the internet and the faceless women therein. This time it just happened to be directed at you. nbsp;Just ignore it and brush it off. nbsp;For every negative one out there, there will be a positive person to take their place. nbsp;As for everyone else, this is the internet, yes, thank you to the geniuses who keep wanting to point that out every time someone gets their feelings hurt, as if that were some consolation for it. nbsp;However, try to be positive, please. nbsp;We all came to this site to vent, to share feelings, to reach out, not bully each other and get into heated debates about our own personal choices. BE POSITIVE AND KIND TO ONE ANOTHER.nbsp;

Oh.

kaleyandjason · May 2013

jo27key:
Skyler's mom, I don't even know what your post was about, but I have to agree that I have read some posts recently that have been unnecessarily surly and insensitive. This is (or so I thought) a message board for moms to support and uplift each other. Unfortunately, some women just want to expel their own personal frustrations out on the internet and the faceless women therein. This time it just happened to be directed at you. Just ignore it and brush it off. For every negative one out there, there will be a positive person to take their place.
As for everyone else, this is the internet, yes, thank you to the geniuses who keep wanting to point that out every time someone gets their feelings hurt, as if that were some consolation for it. However, try to be positive, please. We all came to this site to vent, to share feelings, to reach out, not bully each other and get into heated debates about our own personal choices. BE POSITIVE AND KIND TO ONE ANOTHER.

You might not like people playing the "this is the internet card", but I am sick of hearing about how differing opinions automatically becomes "bullying".

CocoMcGee · May 2013

jo27key:

Skyler's mom, I don't even know what your post was about, but I have to agree that I have read some posts recently that have been unnecessarily surly and insensitive. This is (or so I thought) a message board for moms to support and uplift each other. Unfortunately, some women just want to expel their own personal frustrations out on the internet and the faceless women therein. This time it just happened to be directed at you. Just ignore it and brush it off. For every negative one out there, there will be a positive person to take their place.

As for everyone else, this is the internet, yes, thank you to the geniuses who keep wanting to point that out every time someone gets their feelings hurt, as if that were some consolation for it. However, try to be positive, please. We all came to this site to vent, to share feelings, to reach out, not bully each other and get into heated debates about our own personal choices. BE POSITIVE AND KIND TO ONE ANOTHER.

And this completes my DD bingo card! I was waiting on the "Don't listen to them, they are all mean."

BLT20051 · May 2013

jo27key:
Skyler's mom, I don't even know what your post was about, but I have to agree that I have read some posts recently that have been unnecessarily surly and insensitive. This is (or so I thought) a message board for moms to support and uplift each other. Unfortunately, some women just want to expel their own personal frustrations out on the internet and the faceless women therein. This time it just happened to be directed at you. Just ignore it and brush it off. For every negative one out there, there will be a positive person to take their place.
As for everyone else, this is the internet, yes, thank you to the geniuses who keep wanting to point that out every time someone gets their feelings hurt, as if that were some consolation for it. However, try to be positive, please. We all came to this site to vent, to share feelings, to reach out, not bully each other and get into heated debates about our own personal choices. BE POSITIVE AND KIND TO ONE ANOTHER.

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