Have you ever been "unfriended" on FB?

Re: Have you ever been "unfriended" on FB?

• hootie123 member

  May 2013

  I've definitely been unfriended - FB doesn't ever tell you.   Are you sure she is still on FB? - sometimes people deactivate their accts.    I try not to take it personally - especially since I've unfriended people too.
  

   TTC #1 since 6/09
  Dx: PCOS and MFI
  3 IUIs, 4 IVFs = BFFN
    3rd RE: IVF #5/FET = BFP
  14dp5dt=1170 16dp5dt=2573
  1st u/s=TWINS!
  It's a Boy and a Girl!
  
  Born at 34w3d! 
  

   

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• BeeBee08 member

  May 2013

  Thanks, not taking it personally was difficult for me today.  I texted her and there was a misunderstanding. 

   
  me 33/DH 36
  ttc since 10/2008; d/x: mild MFI, stageII endo
  ~~PAIF/SAIF Welcome~~
  11 IUI’s = 1 m/c (7w4d)
  IVF#1 January 2012 BFN, FET #1 April 2012 BFN
  Surprise BFP October 2012 m/c (7w), Surprise BFP April 2013 m/c (6w4d)
  IVF #2: July 2013, ET 1 embryo 7/18, beta 1 @ 14dp3dt - 757, beta 2 @ 16dp3dt - 1762
  U/S 1 @ 6w4d = 1 little frogger with HB of 118, U/S 2 @ 7w3d measuring right on track with HB of 160
  Stick Frogger Stick! Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!   It's a Girl, EDD April 7, 2014

  

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• rockpaperlove member

  May 2013

  Glad it was just a misunderstanding!  How are you doing?  Thinking of you and hoping for the best for Friday's appt.

  Countless BFN(s)
  Moving to IVF
  
  IVF1 (ICSI): Long Lupron
  6R. 3F. 3DT. 8Cell 1Grade 2Embies. 1Frostie.
  Beta 1/22: 14 Beta 1/24: 24 Beta 1/26: 28
  Round One Result: Chemical Pregnancy
  
  Pressing Forward
  
  IVF2 (ICSI/AH/ACU): Microdose Lupron Flare
  13R. 11F. 5DT. 2TFR'ed. 1Frostie.
  Round Two Result 4/30: Harsh BFN
  
  FET. 2TFR'ed.
  Round Three Result 6/25: BFN
  Where do we go from here?
  
  Moving forward with CCRM in 2013
  ODWU revealed blocked tube(s). Lap 2/15.
  Bilateral Tubal Ligation. Stage IV Endo.
  Finally some (tough) answers.

  
  IVF3 (ICSI/CCS): Antagonist with EPP
  13R. We have 3 CCS Normal Embryos!

  
  Lupron Depot: May 2013 to August 2013
  Long awaited FET on 9/3. 2TFR'ed.
  BFP on FRER 5dp5dt: IN SHOCK!
  Beta1 9/10: 152.7! Beta2 9/12: 378! Beta3 9/14: 1224! 

  1st ultrasound 10/1: TWO beautiful heartbeats!  Overjoyed!

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• BeeBee08 member

  May 2013

  rockpaperlove:

  Glad it was just a misunderstanding!  How are you doing?  Thinking of you and hoping for the best for Friday's appt.

  I am going back tomorrow to check my levels, but I'd be surprised if I make it that long without AF. She's right there. I contacted a new clinic by my Dad's house in AZ so we can do PGD when we cycle next. It's another set back, but as usual. Thanks for thinking of me!

   
  me 33/DH 36
  ttc since 10/2008; d/x: mild MFI, stageII endo
  ~~PAIF/SAIF Welcome~~
  11 IUI’s = 1 m/c (7w4d)
  IVF#1 January 2012 BFN, FET #1 April 2012 BFN
  Surprise BFP October 2012 m/c (7w), Surprise BFP April 2013 m/c (6w4d)
  IVF #2: July 2013, ET 1 embryo 7/18, beta 1 @ 14dp3dt - 757, beta 2 @ 16dp3dt - 1762
  U/S 1 @ 6w4d = 1 little frogger with HB of 118, U/S 2 @ 7w3d measuring right on track with HB of 160
  Stick Frogger Stick! Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!   It's a Girl, EDD April 7, 2014

  

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• PrettyAccountant member

  May 2013

  I have been unfriended on FB by my supposed "Best Friend" from Childhood right after the loss of my triplets. She claimed it was too sad for her to be my friend through this difficult time in her life. Honestly, my feelings were not hurt but I wanted to punch her in her pig ugly face as hard as I could. I said good riddance to her and never looked back - but deep down inside I still wish her bad sometimes .... I'm human that's all I can say.

  Your friend may have unfriended you because of a pregnancy related issue. It is hard when one has success and another is still trying. Is that possible? That does not mean it is right but that may be whats behind it. 

  ETA I just noticed that it was a misunderstanding.
  

  TTC 1/2010 DH Dx - Azoospermia 2/2011
  Hysteroscopy 3/2011 2 Polyps removed 4/2011
  DH on Clomid / Arimidex to address hormonal issues - Sperm found July 2011!
  IVF #1 September 2011 - ER 9/8/2011- 8R, 5M - icsi - 1 made it to transfer - BFFN :-(
  IVF #2 Lucky November 2011 - ER 11/25/2011 - 15 eggs!, 13 mature, 10 fertilized with isci - 7 made it to transfer! Transferred 1 - 8 cell and 2 - 7 cell. BFP!!!!
  1st U/S - Twins! 2nd U/S - 3 heartbeats!!! - HOLY COW!!!
  Prayers for our take home babies!
  2 babies born on 3/27/12 and lost. Last baby born on 3/29/12 and lost at 20 weeks.
  My angels grew wings shortly after birth.
  Ahava Raisel, Matisyahu Nissim & Zev Chaim - Mommy and Daddy will always love you.
  IVF #3 July 2012 - ER 7/17/2012 - 10 R. 5 F. 4 made it to ET
  Transferred 2 on 7/20/2012 no snow babies :-(
  Beta on 7/31/2012 = BFMFN
  A miracle gift expected to come to us through adoption around 9/2012
  Baby girl adopted - Birth Mother changed her mind and took the baby back
  IVF #4 October 2012 - New RE. Doing PGD Testing. 8 R, 7F, 2 made it to 5 day blast for PDG testing. Both Normal (Thank you G-d!!!) 1 boy and 1 girl
  transferred one beautiful 5day blast (girl)
  Please G-d the almighty one - let this be our take home baby!
  Beta #1 158, Beta #2 318, 1 Absolutely magnificent HB at 175! Thank you G-d!!!
  Baby Girl born August 5th. Thank you G-d for our precious miracle.
  AMA. PAIF & SAIF always welcome - I need all the prayers I can get!
  
  

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• kflynn81 member

  May 2013

  PrettyAccountant:

  I have been unfriended on FB by my supposed "Best Friend" from Childhood right after the loss of my triplets. She claimed it was too sad for her to be my friend through this difficult time in her life. Honestly, my feelings were not hurt but I wanted to punch her in her pig ugly face as hard as I could. I said good riddance to her and never looked back - but deep down inside I still wish her bad sometimes .... I'm human that's all I can say.

  Your friend may have unfriended you because of a pregnancy related issue. It is hard when one has success and another is still trying. Is that possible? That does not mean it is right but that may be whats behind it. 

  ETA I just noticed that it was a misunderstanding.
  

   

  Who says that?!?   You obviously are going to be much better off without a person like that in your life. I mean all this time I thought friends were there to lend a shoulder to cry on....silly me, LOL   ((HUGS))) Sorry that happened to you!

  Me: 33, Endocrine issues & FVL       DH: 32, Nothing 

  NTNP 2009-2012         TTC since 2012:

  • Clomid, 2 IUI cycles, and 5 IVF cycles = BFN
  • FET #1   August 2013 = BFP!     EDD 5/11/14
  • Jack dx at 19w1d with Dandy Walker on 12/16/13
  • Severe Pre-e /HELLP set in Jack born sleeping at 20w1d on 12/23/13
  • FET #2 --July 2014  BFP!  ---  EDD  4/5/15

  Jack has handpicked his sibling up there

  My blog about IF and loss ... Kate's IF Blog
  
           

                                                    

                                                                           
  

  
  

               
  
  
  

  
  
  
  

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• BeeBee08 member

  May 2013

  kflynn81:

  PrettyAccountant:

  I have been unfriended on FB by my supposed "Best Friend" from Childhood right after the loss of my triplets. She claimed it was too sad for her to be my friend through this difficult time in her life. Honestly, my feelings were not hurt but I wanted to punch her in her pig ugly face as hard as I could. I said good riddance to her and never looked back - but deep down inside I still wish her bad sometimes .... I'm human that's all I can say.

  Your friend may have unfriended you because of a pregnancy related issue. It is hard when one has success and another is still trying. Is that possible? That does not mean it is right but that may be whats behind it. 

  ETA I just noticed that it was a misunderstanding.
  

   

  Who says that?!?   You obviously are going to be much better off without a person like that in your life. I mean all this time I thought friends were there to lend a shoulder to cry on....silly me, LOL   ((HUGS))) Sorry that happened to you!

  I agree!!  Your friend is a jerk, PA.  I'm sorry you had to deal with that along with what you were already dealing with.  And I'd punch her in her pig ugly face for you if I saw her as well!!  ((hugs))

   
  me 33/DH 36
  ttc since 10/2008; d/x: mild MFI, stageII endo
  ~~PAIF/SAIF Welcome~~
  11 IUI’s = 1 m/c (7w4d)
  IVF#1 January 2012 BFN, FET #1 April 2012 BFN
  Surprise BFP October 2012 m/c (7w), Surprise BFP April 2013 m/c (6w4d)
  IVF #2: July 2013, ET 1 embryo 7/18, beta 1 @ 14dp3dt - 757, beta 2 @ 16dp3dt - 1762
  U/S 1 @ 6w4d = 1 little frogger with HB of 118, U/S 2 @ 7w3d measuring right on track with HB of 160
  Stick Frogger Stick! Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!   It's a Girl, EDD April 7, 2014

  

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