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testes tuesday!

lisamonkee11lisamonkee11 member
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DH invited his father to spend the weekend with us so he can watch Em while we catch a movie Friday night. Which is great.
He's staying until Sunday. Mother's Day.

DH asked if I wanted to do brunch on Sunday. I said yes that would be nice. Then he said but I don't want to spend a lot of money. To which I replied look I don't care what we do, but I'm not cooking.

I get one day... Last year I had to share it with his mom who insisted on visiting over mother's day. This year I have to entertain his father. Boo!
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  • mamaZbomamaZbo member

    That sucks.

    DH pulled up two restaurant websites on the computer last night and told me to choose one. One of them was a sushi place...I don't eat fish, never have and probably never will. We have been together 9 years, and he doesn't remember?

    He also told me that I am not his mother, so until Cora was old enough to get me something on her own, not to expect anything. I'd like to think he was joking, but through past experience, I am not expecting anything. Maybe he will prove me wrong, but I am not getting my hopes up.

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  • lisamonkee11lisamonkee11 member
    Jerk. You're the mother of his child! Ugh. I bet he sure as hell expects something for father's day. Mine does anyway.
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  • mamaZbomamaZbo member
    I got him a keychain last year with a picture of him and DD and he said he felt guilty for not getting me anything. Obviously that feeling didn't last. I don't think he would care if he got nothing for Father's day and I think that is part of why he doesn't get why I want something for Mother's day.
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  • amyc216amyc216 member
    Last year for Father's Day I got DH a black and silver picture frame and a picture of him and DS in black and white and he complained that the picture was hard to see in black and white and I should have gotten color. 

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  • morsey2011morsey2011 member
    Ugh! I am sorry. You deserve a day for yourself.
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  • mrsgabusmrsgabus member
    imagemamaZbo:
    That sucks.DH pulled up two restaurant websites on the computer last night and told me to choose one. One of them was a sushi place...I don't eat fish, never have and probably never will. We have been together 9 years, and he doesn't remember?He also told me that I am not his mother, so until Cora was old enough to get me something on her own, not to expect anything. I'd like to think he was joking, but through past experience, I am not expecting anything. Maybe he will prove me wrong, but I am not getting my hopes up.


    DH said the exact thing to me years ago and he stuck with it.

    Last year was the first time I got a mothers day gift.

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  • mrs.lizziebmrs.lizzieb
    My H has been out-of-town for over 2 weeks and won't be back for another 2 weeks.  He's pretty miserable working 24/7 on a trial, but life is not easy here either.  I've been getting a sitter a couple times a week so I can go out and play some tennis and let out my frustration/stress out on the court.  DH told me on Sunday, "It must be nice to have a life of leisure".  Um, really??  I've pretty much been taking care of the kids 100% of the time since January, and you're going to complain about me playing tennis a few hours a week??  I think he wants me to be miserable because he's miserable Angry
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  • Shannon526Shannon526 member

    L has been sick the past day or so, and last night at bedtime was pretty rough. She was up from about 10pm-midnight just whining and not able to be comforted. MH had H during most of this time, she was awake, too.. but just hanging out, not really fussing, thank God.

    Long story short, I was up with H around 5am, and she usually falls back asleep after I nurse her, but this morning she decided to stay up until her sister woke up. Needless to say, I was exhausted. I started crying in bed while trying to rock H to sleep, and MH decides to wake up and give me his 2 cents.

    He said, "Maybe if you gave her a pacifier instead of your boob every 5 minutes she'd calm down"

    Umm.. excuse me??? Shut the eff up moron. I was pissed, which made me cry more, which led me to say things I don't normally say to him. So now we are fighting.

    Lovely.

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  • amyc216amyc216 member
    imageShannon526:

    L has been sick the past day or so, and last night at bedtime was pretty rough. She was up from about 10pm-midnight just whining and not able to be comforted. MH had H during most of this time, she was awake, too.. but just hanging out, not really fussing, thank God.

    Long story short, I was up with H around 5am, and she usually falls back asleep after I nurse her, but this morning she decided to stay up until her sister woke up. Needless to say, I was exhausted. I started crying in bed while trying to rock H to sleep, and MH decides to wake up and give me his 2 cents.

    He said, "Maybe if you gave her a pacifier instead of your boob every 5 minutes she'd calm down"

    Umm.. excuse me??? Shut the eff up moron. I was pissed, which made me cry more, which led me to say things I don't normally say to him. So now we are fighting.

    Lovely.

    Oh no! I remember those first few weeks when you feel like you're nursing all the time and no one seems to understand! I'm sorry YH is being a d-bag.

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