Tip toeing back on-line
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I'm back on board again - I think.
It's a rough couple of weeks. We are now in a holding pattern waiting for AF to show so I can start the next cycle.
But of a snag, as Dr want Hysteroscopy to ensure there was no residual damage from the m/c / ectopic. Not looking forward to that but ok. It's schedule for May 28th.
If I can't start this cycles meds until after that is done looks like we won't be able to do ET until end of June/early July. Which SUCKS.
In July I turn 43. So didn't want to be still trying for our first at this stage.
Additionally, my DH has work commitments that will take him overseas. We will both be relocating. It is not an english speaking country and I am VERY reluctant to attempt to move there before have a babe in arms. I can't imagine having to speak through a translator to express my concerns during the pregnancy and especially for the delivery (if we are succesful). So that means that DH will have to fly in fly out - and will not be here if there are complications and/or for the appointments and may miss the delivery altogether. Not the ideal situation. There's no good plan.
But here we go again.
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Breast Cancer diagnosis 12/01/2010 - Survivor and Cancer free as of 03/22/2011
BFP#1 04/12/2011 - fetal demise - MC 05/28/2011
BFP#2 10/14/2011 - fetal demise - MC 12/13/2011
BFP#3 05/30/2012 - fetal demise - MC 07/23/2012
IVF#1 02/14/2013 - 2 Beautiful Blasts transferred
BFP#4 02/25/2013 - BFP - MC and ectopic 03/06/2013
IFV#2 07/02/2013 -BFP#5 - 07/07/2013
1st Beta 07/11/2013 - 483 (9dp5dt) - 2nd Beta 07/13/2013 1006 (11dp5dt)
1st U/S 07/31/2013 - TWINS! "The Minions"
IVF#3 BFP#6 09/01/2015 6dp5dt
1st Beta 09/05/2015 - 105 - 2nd Beta 09/08/2015 335
1st U/S 09/22/2015 - .......
Re: Tip toeing back on-line
Oh man, you do have a lot on your plate. Big hugs, and I want to tell you that I've been thinking about you.
I hope that the hysteroscopy shows everything is perfect and that will just let you feel even more confident about moving forward and that your start of cycle will be here before you know it.
I can't imagine your trepidation about moving to another country amidst something like this so my heart goes out with you. Big hugs, and I hope that it turns out better than you think too. *hug*
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Me (32) DH (36) - Finding our way to baby #1
Me: POF/DOR - AMH <0.16, heterozygous c677t MTHFR, insulin resistant and gluten intolerant
DH: Severe MFI
12/2/11 - IUI #1- BFN
8/1/12 - IVF #1 - Zero response from max stims (600iu intramuscularly)
My ovaries are just for decoration
12/6/12 - Adopted five embryos that had been frozen for over ten years!
2/11/13 - DEmbryo FET #1 Thawed four, sadly two didn't survive. Transferred two beautiful blasts.
2/16/13 - First BFP of my life @ 6dp5dt! EDD 10/30/13
3/27/13 - After beta and u/s hell, no heartbeat ever detected. D&C at 9w1d.
6/5/13 - Adopted four new embryos that had been frozen for seven years!
9/12/13 - DEmbryo FET #2. Thawed and transferred two beautiful blasts
9/17/13 - BFP @ 5dp6dt! EDD 05/31/14
9/29/13 - m/c @ 5w1d.
11/19/13 - DEmbryo FET #3. Thawed and transferred one blast from each batch. Wow!
11/23/13 - BFP @ 4dp6dt! EDD 8/7/13
Beta #1 @ 13dp6dt - 522 Beta #2 @ 16dp6dt - 1373
6w5d ultrasound showed one perfect baby with a beautiful heartbeat of 134bpm!
Snowflake baby is a girl!
Our beautiful Snowflake girl arrived on July 22, 2014!
My embryo adoption blog: Wishing on a Snowflake
Wow....you do have alot going on. What country are you relocating to? Short term?
I'm hoping somehow everything falls in place and will be thinking positive thoughts for you. Big hugs to you.
I turn 45 end of May...it stinks I know
Hang in there. Wish I had better advice.
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
Glad you are back with us, but so sorry for your loss. We are on a similar schedule I think - maybe I'm a few weeks ahead of you. But I totally feel for you in every way - I turn 42 in June, and just got AF back on Friday after our 16w missed m/c.
I am just finally starting meds today for our mid-June transfer that feels 100 years away. I have my uterine check on May 9th.
And a move overseas in the midst of this - ug! That is a lot to take in. One thing I'd say is that many, many doctors train in English. I wouldn't write off that there will be English speaking medical people available. Not sure what country you are talking though...
Anyhow, here's hoping for AF to come soon, a nice, clean uterine check and full steam ahead. FWIW, I had a D&E and AF took 5 weeks to return. Hang in there - but FX for smooth sailing to your next cycle.
Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
June'12 - First RE Visit
Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect.
Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle
It feels as though all of the times it would have been better timing it never works out that way... But unfortunately, we get to the point where this can't wait anymore.
I hope you get the best birthday present ever!
Me (32) DOR, elevated NK Cells/ 2 copies of MTHFR mutation/ MH (35) azoo/high DFI (TTC#1 since 2009)
IVFs#1-4: (4/10-2/12) all BFN
Surprise Bfp (9/11) - c/p
DS IUI#1-2 (9/12, 10/12) - BFN
DS IVF: (11/12) - BFN
DE/DS IVF#1: (10/13) - 2 day 3 embies transferred-BFFN
FET of 2 day 6 blasts: (12/13) - c/p
DE/DS IVF #2: (4/14) - 1 day 5 blast transferred...BFFN...again.
FET 5/14: 1 day 5 hatching blast transferred...another BFFN
Repeat SHG 6/14-normal / Endometrial Receptivity Array biopsy 7/14-Receptive Uterus
New RE, additional testing reveals elevated NK Cells
FET of 1 day 5 blast (RE recommends transferring 1 due to elevated NK cells) with lovenox, steroids & intralipids in October