Success after IF

I know we don't need it,

but this article is such a good reminder as we look forward to Mother's Day. I shared it on FB today and came out of the IF closet. I feel so LUCKY to be able to kiss my baby this Mother's Day but I can't forget the last 3 Mother's Days that were spent crying my eyes out.

My heart breaks for those suffering this week/weekend.

https://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/05/07/a-non-mothers-day/ 

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Re: I know we don't need it,

  • Thanks. You're so right.
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    2 IUI's w/ BFN
    IVF 6/12 ~ 8R, 0F ~ Rescue ISCI gave us 3dt of 2 (6 cell, 9+ cell)
    DS born ~ 3/3/13
    IVF 6/14 ~ Operation Sibling ~ 10R, 5F ~ 5dt of 1 Blast
    Beta 1: 1600+, Beta 2: 4588
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  • TJ1979TJ1979 member
    I know the IF scars follow is all. But sometimes it's easy to get caught up in the joys of new motherhood and forget to be sensitive to our IF sisters. Thanks for the reminder.
    TTC with PCOS since November 2009
    IUI#1 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP, m/c
    IUI#2 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 5-9) = BFN
    IUI#3 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP!
    beta #1 11/23 = 270, P4 = 75
    beta #2 11/28 = 2055
    Our daughter E was born 7/29/2012!
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  • So true. I just hate that there are so many amazing women for whom Mother's Day is a painful day to endure. I feel so lucky to be in the position I am right now. But IF still sucks and it is not fair.
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    After months of being postponed or cancelled, FET #1.3 (Natural FET) brought us twin girls!

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  • mnj05mnj05 member
    So very true, and there really isn't anywhere to escape to for the day. Thanks for sharing.

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    DX: anovulatory and severe MFI
    DH is a testicular cancer survivor
    IVF#1 w/ICSI lupron, gonal f, ovidrel
    ER 6/15/12 6R 6M 6F! ET 6/20/12
    Beta #1: 154 Beta #2: 509 Beta #3: 7326
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  • Thanks for sharing this!

    I remember how difficult Mother's Days were and I wish it wasn't for so many. I definitely will be thinking of those dealing with IF. Grr. 

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  • Thanks, Penny. Great article. My pastor always does a really nice segment on mothers day about infertility, loss, and single women waiting for mr right. 

    My heart aches for my IF sisters, but it also aches for my pack of single girlfriends who are "running out of time" to find mr right and try to have children.  

    TTC Since 3/2010
    Me-36, Unexplained Infertility, DH-35, all clear
    Clomid 50mg 12/2011 = BFN
    Clomid 100mg 1/2012 = BFN, with Cyst
    IVF #1 Lupron/Menopur/Gonal-f/HCG Trigger
    ER 4/19/12 = 11 retrieved, 6 fertilized,
    ET 4/22/12 = 2 transfered (day 3), remaining 3 weren't good enough to freeze
    Beta 5/3 = BFP, 87 Beta #2 5/7 560.9 Beta #3 5/9 1376.5 First u/s One Baby, 125bpm!
    Second u/s, 176bmp! Kicked over to the OB by the RE at 8w. Team Green!! 
    Baby girl J arrived two weeks early! Born into water, med-free. Hooray for Team Pink!

    TTC #2 - back to the RE, treatment started 12/2014. 

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  • I was Blog Friends with Pam during the years we were struggling with IF and even have a signed copy of her book!nbsp; She is an amazing woman and always has the ability to put things into words just right!
     
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