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Trouble TTC
wearebirds
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My decent day has gone rogue!
wearebirds
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in Trouble TTC
A friend from college just announced that she is pregnant. For some reason, coming from her, it feels worse than anyone else I've had announce in the past.
It could be because I have my first RE appointment Friday, or could be because she always said she never wanted kids. Could be both. All I know is that my heart hurts and I'm fighting the urge to cry at work. The only people I've got to vent to are my sister who doesn't understand and a friend who is literally about to pop at any second with her second baby.
Needless to say venting to them hasn't helped much. I'm just sad.
It could be because I have my first RE appointment Friday, or could be because she always said she never wanted kids. Could be both. All I know is that my heart hurts and I'm fighting the urge to cry at work. The only people I've got to vent to are my sister who doesn't understand and a friend who is literally about to pop at any second with her second baby.
Needless to say venting to them hasn't helped much. I'm just sad.
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Re: My decent day has gone rogue!
WE are your people to vent to!!! We are always here to listen. I'm sorry! That is tough news to take in especially when they have always said they didn't want children. That part always sting worse for me too.
Good luck Friday!!!!
Married October 2009. Me 29 H 28.
After 1 year of infertility, our little miracle was conceived via our 3rd IUI on May 5, 2013.
Holland Sophia was born Jan 24, 2014.
I'm usually SO good at just getting over it and being excited for whoever it is. I AM always excited for them, I'm just sad for me...and sad for DH.
Yesterday this stupid commercial came on for a Chevy truck. A really big one that's a dually. DH says "that's what I want!!" Then he looks at me and says, "and this too..." And the guy in the commercial pulls his sleeping baby from the back seat. Melt my freaking heart DH. Melt it to pieces. He's so sweet sometimes.
I'm so sorry! Sometimes, those unexpected announcements are the worst!! I had to hide a girl I went to high school with, because she and her husband of less than a year announced they were pg, and she had the easiest pregnancy ever! I couldn't handle it!!!
Red wine seeps to help on days like that!
I know her getting KU has nothing to do with me not getting KU. I'm SO glad I've got this board FULL of all of you amazing ladies who actually really understand.
3TC March Siggy Challenge: Funny Internet Meme
Age: Me 26, DH 27, Married Oct. 10, 2009 ,TTC since March 2012
Problem: Irregular menstruation, unexplained
Nov&Dec-Provera because of no period after 35+ days
First RE appt 1/10/2013
Tests: TSH (normal), Prolactin (normal), SA (abnormal)
Hysteroscopy (normal) and PCOS labs (negative/normal) 1/15/2013
2/1/13- HPT BFP but Beta Hcg was negative
Plan: Femara + Trigger + IUI in April if no real BFP before then Bloggy Blog!
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Married August 2012 -- Me (40 yrs old) My husband (45 yrs. old)
RE referral from ObGYN in late Jan. 2013 -- Testing Confirms Unexplained IF
IUI #"s1 - 3 (Femara + IUI) April - June 2013 - all BFN
Decided to do IVF... Began stimming on September 10th! Egg Retrieval 9/20/13. 19 eggs: 6 to mature to freeze after 6 fertilized with ICSI
3 morula stage embryos transferred on 9/25/13.....Beta #1 on 10/4/13/ = 7.5 Beta #2 on 10/6/13 = negative
IVF#2 - Lupron plan (set to begin on 10/28/13) (Planning on thawing and fertilizing our 6 eggs with ICSI as well as all of the mature eggs they retrieve with this fresh cycle.)
Late October 2013 - ectopic pregnancy - methotrexate injection....benched 3 months
CD1 - 12/5/13...Lupron set to start on 12/26/13; CD1 - 1/2/14....Baseline 1/3/14....begin follistim tonight and continue with lupron. (Got my calendar today! IVF#2 is a go!)
ER = 1/14/14 (11 eggs....9 were mature. 9 fertilized. Of the 6 mature eggs we thawed, only 4 fertilized. At this time, we have 13 eggs fertilized and growing. Waiting for news about a 3-day or 5-day transfer.)
ET = 1/19/14 (5dt).....3 blastocysts transferred! (All nine embryos didn't make it to freeze. =( )
Beta #1 = 1/28/14 (2 weeks after ER) BFP! 209 (9dp5dt) EDD 10/7/14
Beta #2 - 1/30/14 (11 dp5dt) 302
Beta #3 - 2/3/14 (15 dp5dt) 1222
Ultrasound set for 2/17/14......TWINS! Twin A - HR 124 bpm; Twin B - HR 126 bpm
Final Ultrasound with RE 3/10/14 - Twin A - HR 176 bpm; Twin B - HR 177 bpm.
PAIF/SAIF Welcome!