Sorry in advance that this is so long.
My husband is typically not one I would ever have a complaint about. He's usually super-helpful and understanding especially when I'm pregnant and helps out a ton with our 1 year old. Please tell me if I'm over-reacting about the current scenario I am in:
We just moved to Mexico City for his job 2 months ago. I don't speak Spanish and basically no one here speaks English, so I rely heavily on him and his Spanish in the meantime until I learn more.
So, tonight, we went out for dinner, came home, my back was hurting so I got in bed with a heating pad and watched some tv. In the meantime, he took the dog for a walk and happened to also get a small bottle of tequila while he was out. He stopped drinking to lose weight and feel better in general since we got here and has only had a handful of drinks since we moved 2 months ago. So, about 10:30 I get up to go get a drink from the kitchen, and he's gone, the tequila bottle is empty (200 ml bottle), and he's not answering his cell phone. There is a very loud party with a dj happening in our building, and I'm ASSUMING he's there and is drunk but ok, but he isn't answering his phone, so I have no idea. My son is sleeping through the noise from the party, but I can't leave him here alone to go track down my husband. For all I know he went out for a walk to get some sodas and got mugged and beaten and is bleeding on the street.
So I'm pissed b/c I'm left to worry about him, but I'm even more pissed b/c I'm 22 weeks pregnant with a hurt back and a 1 year old in a country where I can't communicate with the people, thinking, what if I or my son had an emergency? I just feel it was totally irresponsible of him and I'm so mad and basically feel abandoned. It's just really irresponsible for a husband with a son and a pregnant wife, especially considering where we are (and I know NO ONE here I can call for help yet, except the freaking embassy).
I realize the hormones are surging these days, but really, 2 hours later and he still isn't answering his cell. Would you be worried and pissed too?