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Genetic Screening

Did you have it done?

We have to decide whether to do it or decline it before any treatment can begin with our RE. DH is most likely going to leave it up to me...

Dd you do it, or decline? Was it expensive? Was it worth knowing the results?

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Re: Genetic Screening

  • The first RE we saw recommended CF screening and offered a discounted screening through some special lab.  It was only going to cost like $20 so I figured WTH I'll do it.  My screening came back positive.  

    While we were waiting for the results, we decided to switch REs, so my new RE immediately ordered a screening for DH.  Our insurance denied coverage for DH's screening and the lab is trying to charge us $1000 for it.  We've appealed the claim, now we just have to wait to see if the insurance will end up paying for it.  The crappiest part is that the first RE's office told me that they called my insurance and that it would be covered since I am a carrier.

    So while I am glad I did it so now we know that I am a carrier and DH is not, it has been a huge headache dealing with it all. 

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    September 2012: Start IF testing

    DH (32): SA is ok, slightly low morph, normal SCSA  Me (32): Slightly low progesterone, hostile CM, carrier for CF, Moderately high NKC, High TNFa, heterozyogous mutated Factor XIII, and +APA

    October 2012-May 2014: 4 failed IUIs, 3 failed IVFs, and 1 failed FETw/donor embryos

    November 2014: IVF w/ICSI #4 Agonist/Antagonist with EPP and Prednisone, Baby Aspirin, Lovenox, and IVIG for immune issues.  Converted to freeze all due to lining issues.  2 blasts frozen on day 6!

    January 2015: FET #2 Cancelled due to lining issues

    April 2015: FET #2.1


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  • I decided against it we want a baby so much and we'll love and care for it regardless. I figured that all it would do is give me something more to worry about, and I worry enough already.
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  • we did it because we are Jewish and there is a higher prevalence of some genetic diseases. turns out H was a carrier of one, but I am not so we are okay. SO happy we know the results. the diseases that were explained to us will 100% result in death extremely early on, like under 2 years. I want a baby more then anything, but knowing their life expectancy basically was non-existent? I don't know. It was free and actually recommended by rabbis before you get married so it was not even a decision for us. we did it before we started TTC.
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    We did and both of us are fine. We only had to pay our copay, $20.

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  • imagemlynn333:
    I decided against it we want a baby so much and we'll love and care for it regardless. I figured that all it would do is give me something more to worry about, and I worry enough already.

    We didn't do the screening because we wouldn't love a baby if it were sick, we did it because if we both were carriers we would do everything possible to make sure we didn't pass on the disease to our child.  After I found out I was a carrier for CF, DH and I talked and decided that we would move onto IVF with PGD if he was also a carrier.  We felt like the 25% chance that our child would have a disease that the average life expectancy is only 35 was too great a risk to take.  Luckily he is not a carrier. 

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    TTC #1 since August 2011

    My Blog

    September 2012: Start IF testing

    DH (32): SA is ok, slightly low morph, normal SCSA  Me (32): Slightly low progesterone, hostile CM, carrier for CF, Moderately high NKC, High TNFa, heterozyogous mutated Factor XIII, and +APA

    October 2012-May 2014: 4 failed IUIs, 3 failed IVFs, and 1 failed FETw/donor embryos

    November 2014: IVF w/ICSI #4 Agonist/Antagonist with EPP and Prednisone, Baby Aspirin, Lovenox, and IVIG for immune issues.  Converted to freeze all due to lining issues.  2 blasts frozen on day 6!

    January 2015: FET #2 Cancelled due to lining issues

    April 2015: FET #2.1


    PAIF/SAIF Welcome!

  • imageTwinkie0612:

    imagemlynn333:
    I decided against it we want a baby so much and we'll love and care for it regardless. I figured that all it would do is give me something more to worry about, and I worry enough already.

    We didn't do the screening because we wouldn't love a baby if it were sick, we did it because if we both were carriers we would do everything possible to make sure we didn't pass on the disease to our child.  After I found out I was a carrier for CF, DH and I talked and decided that we would move onto IVF with PGD if he was also a carrier.  We felt like the 25% chance that our child would have a disease that the average life expectancy is only 35 was too great a risk to take.  Luckily he is not a carrier. 



    Sorry, I wasn't trying to imply that anyone here wouldn't love their child. It really is about what's right for you I just knew that testing would cause me more emotional harm than it would help.
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    At this point in our journey we decided not to do the screening.
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  • We did it with our first set of blood work. We wanted to know and knew that if we moved on to IVF they were going to want the testing anyhow. I don't think our insurance covered ours, but I would have to look. 
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  • Our RE recommends it if we get to the IVF stage. They said knowing wouldn't help us much in the iui stage. We put it off for now.

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  • We declined because we didn't have a family history of anything we were particularly concerned about.  I am glad that we did. 
  • imagemlynn333:
    imageTwinkie0612:

    imagemlynn333:
    I decided against it we want a baby so much and we'll love and care for it regardless. I figured that all it would do is give me something more to worry about, and I worry enough already.

    We didn't do the screening because we wouldn't love a baby if it were sick, we did it because if we both were carriers we would do everything possible to make sure we didn't pass on the disease to our child.  After I found out I was a carrier for CF, DH and I talked and decided that we would move onto IVF with PGD if he was also a carrier.  We felt like the 25% chance that our child would have a disease that the average life expectancy is only 35 was too great a risk to take.  Luckily he is not a carrier. 

    Sorry, I wasn't trying to imply that anyone here wouldn't love their child. It really is about what's right for you I just knew that testing would cause me more emotional harm than it would help.

    No need to apologize, my post came off a little harsher than I meant :).  Personally I am a fan of genetic testing, but I understand that there are many reasons why people choose not to do it.  In the end it is a person choice that each couple has to make. 

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    TTC #1 since August 2011

    My Blog

    September 2012: Start IF testing

    DH (32): SA is ok, slightly low morph, normal SCSA  Me (32): Slightly low progesterone, hostile CM, carrier for CF, Moderately high NKC, High TNFa, heterozyogous mutated Factor XIII, and +APA

    October 2012-May 2014: 4 failed IUIs, 3 failed IVFs, and 1 failed FETw/donor embryos

    November 2014: IVF w/ICSI #4 Agonist/Antagonist with EPP and Prednisone, Baby Aspirin, Lovenox, and IVIG for immune issues.  Converted to freeze all due to lining issues.  2 blasts frozen on day 6!

    January 2015: FET #2 Cancelled due to lining issues

    April 2015: FET #2.1


    PAIF/SAIF Welcome!

  • Thanks so much for all of your responses! I have a feeling we will lean one way rather than the other, but won't make any final decision until we talk to the RE.

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