Why do u guys get so upset?

Beelinda2013 · May 2013

Just reading this board out I curiosity, why do u ladies get so upset if someone is pregnant? Like, people having to put warnings in their titles, people unable to even read about someone having a 3year old son, or hiding away when you see a pregnant belly?

So, when I walk down the street pregnant, some women are looking the other way, going home to cry, or spiting me because I got pregnant?

I really am curious and just wonder why people here can't even handle to just SEE someone else pregnant. Any responses appreciated. TIA!

monimu13 · May 2013

My guess would be that you got pregnant quickly and couldn't even imagine trying for years like some of us.

This board is a place we can come and not be constantly bombarded with pregnant people....try being in our shoes and NOT crying at least once in a while.

ETA: I like how your first ever bump post was criticizing us...

EIK2013 · May 2013

I don't think it is something a woman can understand until she's been trying for longer than a year unsuccessfully...but, I typically don't have woman asking "why" I feel this way but just accept that this IS how I feel....I don't think I need to justify why these things make me sad....I'm so not in the mood for ignorance right now and I think you are truly ignorant....go away

Sorry ladies, tough day, but seriously....I think your kind of an idiot.

KTdid81 · May 2013

It's not that we're upset someone else got pregnant. It's that we aren't. And until you have that struggle, you'll never really understand.

ufsandra85 · May 2013

Beelinda2013:
Just reading this board out I curiosity, why do u ladies get so upset if someone is pregnant? Like, people having to put warnings in their titles, people unable to even read about someone having a 3year old son, or hiding away when you see a pregnant belly? So, when I walk down the street pregnant, some women are looking the other way, going home to cry, or spiting me because I got pregnant? I really am curious and just wonder why people here can't even handle to just SEE someone else pregnant. Any responses appreciated. TIA!

yes. i have done this many times

BlueEyedDreamer · May 2013

OP, why are YOU so upset? No one is spiting you. We are dealing with our struggles as best as we can, which is easier when we can keep the pain of IF out of sight and out of mind.

Are you an idiot trying to stir up MUD or are you just an unsympathetic, judgmental b!tch?

mrsrichey11 · May 2013

My guess is that you were able to get pregnant easily. DH and I have been TTC for two years. Yes, sometimes I do see a pregnant woman and cry a bit. We are not spiting you because you are pregnant. How would you feel if you were in a group of people and everyone was given one million dollars except for you? It would suck, wouldn't it? You'd probably cry, wouldn't you? Be p!ssed off that everyone around you had something you wanted so badly, but you couldn't have it? Exactly.

Think twice before posting.

Durham1008 · May 2013

Why are you such an idiot? TIA!

ttuprincess · May 2013

monimu13:
My guess would be that you got pregnant quickly and couldn't even imagine trying for years like some of us.
This board is a place we can come and not be constantly bombarded with pregnant people....try being in our shoes and NOT crying at least once in a while.
ETA: I like how your first ever bump post was criticizing us...

This.

seriously?! What in the world makes you come on a board for people fighting infertility and with your first post criticize how we choose to deal with our emotions. As others have said, this is OUR safe place. This is where we come to talk with others who understand our emotions. Your ignorance is not only unsympathetic but down right rude.

RunCC37 · May 2013

Are you really that bored that you felt the need to create an account and post like this? Sad.

Akiesha · May 2013

KTdid81:
It's not that we're upset someone else got pregnant. It's that we aren't. And until you have that struggle, you'll never really understand.

This. Op until you walk in our shoes you can't imagine what you would or wouldn't do. Or how we should deal with it. Good job on being a beotch!

Beelinda2013 · May 2013

Wow. Judging by your responses, it's pretty obvious how rude and bitter most of you are. It was an honest question I had while waiting for my husband to get out of the shower. It isn't like I'm "so bored"; I just had a few minutes to kill and was curious. You women did nothing but confirm what I already thought: some women who can't get pregnant are absolutely insane with jealousy.

This explains why my coworker who USED TO talk to me won't even look at me now that I'm pregnant. I mean, I want a nice house, a new car, what have you.. But I'm not going to be rude and biotchy to someone who has something I don't. That's called bitter jealousy and it looks ugly on each and every one of you.

Sorry you can't have something you want, but getting this crazy bitter and jealous is beyond... Just wow.

jfb29 · May 2013

Beelinda2013:
Wow. Judging by your responses, it's pretty obvious how rude and bitter most of you are. It was an honest question I had while waiting for my husband to get out of the shower. It isn't like I'm "so bored"; I just had a few minutes to kill and was curious. You women did nothing but confirm what I already thought: some women who can't get pregnant are absolutely insane with jealousy. This explains why my coworker who USED TO talk to me won't even look at me now that I'm pregnant. I mean, I want a nice house, a new car, what have you.. But I'm not going to be rude and biotchy to someone who has something I don't. That's called bitter jealousy and it looks ugly on each and every one of you. Sorry you can't have something you want, but getting this crazy bitter and jealous is beyond... Just wow.

And all I can say is "WOW" right back at you. PPs stated it well and I don't think they are being bitter and jealous - they explained that this is a safe place where we can go without judgment for support and understanding. IF is something you can truly not understand unless you have gone through it. What you have just stated is one of THE MOST judgmental things I have read on this board. Please take a good look in the mirror before coming to a place like this and making such comments...

scbedi · May 2013

monimu13:
My guess would be that you got pregnant quickly and couldn't even imagine trying for years like some of us.
This board is a place we can come and not be constantly bombarded with pregnant people....try being in our shoes and NOT crying at least once in a while.
ETA: I like how your first ever bump post was criticizing us...

I know, right?

Beelinda2013 · May 2013

jfb29:
Beelinda2013:
Wow. Judging by your responses, it's pretty obvious how rude and bitter most of you are. It was an honest question I had while waiting for my husband to get out of the shower. It isn't like I'm "so bored"; I just had a few minutes to kill and was curious. You women did nothing but confirm what I already thought: some women who can't get pregnant are absolutely insane with jealousy.

This explains why my coworker who USED TO talk to me won't even look at me now that I'm pregnant. I mean, I want a nice house, a new car, what have you.. But I'm not going to be rude and biotchy to someone who has something I don't. That's called bitter jealousy and it looks ugly on each and every one of you.

Sorry you can't have something you want, but getting this crazy bitter and jealous is beyond... Just wow.
And all I can say is "WOW" right back at you.  PPs stated it well and I don't think they are being bitter and jealous - they explained that this is a safe place where we can go without judgment for support and understanding. IF is something you can truly not understand unless you have gone through it.  What you have just stated is one of THE MOST judgmental things I have read on this board.  Please take a good look in the mirror before coming to a place like this and making such comments...

I did what you said. I looked in the mirror, but I don't think you'd be happy with what I saw... A pregnant tummy.

They should make a board or a post for women who are pregnant and get shunned by people who are jealous.

And bitter... It's hard enough being pregnant without some women treating you like you don't exist anymore... And you don't know my struggles... It actually took me over a year to get pregnant but I NEVER treated any pregnant woman differently or would ever come on a message board and berate people asking questions... Pregnancy isn't as easy physically as one would think, so until you know who someone is, maybe judgy wudgy was a bear... A bitter bear.

scbedi · May 2013

Beelinda2013:
jfb29:
Beelinda2013:
Wow. Judging by your responses, it's pretty obvious how rude and bitter most of you are. It was an honest question I had while waiting for my husband to get out of the shower. It isn't like I'm "so bored"; I just had a few minutes to kill and was curious. You women did nothing but confirm what I already thought: some women who can't get pregnant are absolutely insane with jealousy. This explains why my coworker who USED TO talk to me won't even look at me now that I'm pregnant. I mean, I want a nice house, a new car, what have you.. But I'm not going to be rude and biotchy to someone who has something I don't. That's called bitter jealousy and it looks ugly on each and every one of you. Sorry you can't have something you want, but getting this crazy bitter and jealous is beyond... Just wow.
And all I can say is "WOW" right back at you. PPs stated it well and I don't think they are being bitter and jealous - they explained that this is a safe place where we can go without judgment for support and understanding. IF is something you can truly not understand unless you have gone through it. What you have just stated is one of THE MOST judgmental things I have read on this board. Please take a good look in the mirror before coming to a place like this and making such comments...
I did what you said. I looked in the mirror, but I don't think you'd be happy with what I saw... A pregnant tummy. They should make a board or a post for women who are pregnant and get shunned by people who are jealous. And bitter... It's hard enough being pregnant without some women treating you like you don't exist anymore... And you don't know my struggles... It actually took me over a year to get pregnant but I NEVER treated any pregnant woman differently or would ever come on a message board and berate people asking questions... Pregnancy isn't as easy physically as one would think, so until you know who someone is, maybe judgy wudgy was a bear... A bitter bear.

you are the one who came onto an infertility message board berating us. And we answered your question, if you don't like the answer then don't ask.

Beelinda2013 · May 2013

mrsrichey11:
My guess is that you were able to get pregnant easily. DH and I have been TTC for two years. Yes, sometimes I do see a pregnant woman and cry a bit. We are not spiting you because you are pregnant. How would you feel if you were in a group of people and everyone was given one million dollars except for you? It would suck, wouldn't it? You'd probably cry, wouldn't you? Be p!ssed off that everyone around you had something you wanted so badly, but you couldn't have it? Exactly.nbsp;Think twice before posting. nbsp;

Firstly, I was not able to get pregnant easily. Secondly, I do see people around me with millions of dollars; I live in one of the largest cities in the country. I don't go home to my modest apartment and cry about it. Third, I did think before posting. It was an honest question... I guess I'm just a little hurt that a coworker that I was friends with wont even barely talk to me now that I'm pregnant. It makes me feel a bit angry that she can't get over it and be happy for me.

Some of the responses gave me perspective. Yours? Not so much. Some others? Even less since it was more rude judgmental crap.

Great! More crap!

Also, I didn't know that this was an IF board... I thought this was a trying to conceive board, or "trouble" doing so. I had "trouble" but I would never act this way and call people that I've never met pathetic.

Ps. I thought these boards were here, according to many women on TTGP, to make money for the Bump. Advertisements and such... From what I've seen over there, women are just as rude and belittling as here, except they go chomping at the bit if someone happens to ask what they think about possible pregnancy symptoms.

I guess I just don't get it, so away I go. You girls can stay here and wallow in your sorrows I guess...

monimu13 · May 2013

I don't think you are going to get anyone to feel sorry for the fact that pregnancy isn't easily physically on you...I would love to be in your shoes and in pain everyday...boo freakin hoo.

BBTW...we can see that you are still online...waiting for responses..

RunCC37 · May 2013

Beelinda2013:

Ps. I thought these boards were here, according to many women on TTGP, to make money for the Bump. Advertisements and such... From what I've seen over there, women are just as rude and belittling as here, except they go chomping at the bit if someone happens to ask what they think about possible pregnancy symptoms.

I guess I just don't get it, so away I go. You girls can stay here and wallow in your sorrows I guess...

From the observations I have made in the time I've been around this board, the women on 3T are nothing but compassionate, informative, and sincere. Your post is the first I have seen on this board that seems fabricated with the intent of sabotage. Take it somewhere else. We are dealing with a struggle that you can't begin to imagine let alone empathize. Not that we asked for any empathy from you in the first place. Reminder: YOU are the one who came around here looking for trouble. Buh bye.

LoveIsAll25 · May 2013

Beelinda2013:
Wow. Judging by your responses, it's pretty obvious how rude and bitter most of you are. It was an honest question I had while waiting for my husband to get out of the shower. It isn't like I'm "so bored"; I just had a few minutes to kill and was curious. You women did nothing but confirm what I already thought: some women who can't get pregnant are absolutely insane with jealousy.

This explains why my coworker who USED TO talk to me won't even look at me now that I'm pregnant. I mean, I want a nice house, a new car, what have you.. But I'm not going to be rude and biotchy to someone who has something I don't. That's called bitter jealousy and it looks ugly on each and every one of you.

Sorry you can't have something you want, but getting this crazy bitter and jealous is beyond... Just wow.

Wow. Just wow. You claim you just posted this question while your husbad was in the shower, yet, everytime you respond you write 2 to 3 paragraphs.

You are sad,pathetic and a sad excuse for a women. You come to a board for women who are going through one of the most difficult time in they're lifes to stir some drama to get away from that sad pathetic life you must live.

And yes, they have every right to be upset. Do you understand how much money, time and emotional pain they are investing in order to get pregnant.

Altough I didn't have a problem TTC, I do know a few women who would give away everything they own to have a baby.

Pendeja! Cabrona!!

hsalegio · May 2013

You sir, are a RAGING ***. It is appalling that you felt the need to come and insult women who are struggling with something you will never understand. Take your stupidity and *** elsewhere.

jfb29 · May 2013

talon1226:
The sad thing is I don't think you have any clue how selfish and insensitive you sound. Wishing you had more money than you do is nothing compared to wondering if your lifelong dream if having a child will ever come true. Some of us may never be able to have a child and seeing children is a painful reminder of that. If I have a day where I need to avoid babies or pregnant women to get through the day then who are you to judge that?

This! This is why I suggested you look in a mirror! You are being childish and whining. Many of us, myself included would love to feel sick. I know pregnancy can be extremely hard on the body my SIL recently had her first child and was miserable during the last portion of her pregnancy. She actually developed eclampsia and it was super scary for her the difference between her and you though she didn't complain to me about how horrible she felt bc she knows how hard this journey is on me without having to ask. She was kind and sensitive. You just want attention. Get over yourself!

Kathy4678 · May 2013

Yes. Some women are looking away or will go home and cry. I can't imagine anyone on this board SPITING you because you're pregnant. Bitter is a harsh word around these parts- and until you've been in our place- watch how you use it.

Did you ever stop to think that it is possible to be happy for someone else, but sad for yourself at the same time? Again- until you've been in our place it's impossible to understand.

Kathy4678 · May 2013

hsalegio:
You sir, are a RAGING ***. It is appalling that you felt the need to come and insult women who are struggling with something you will never understand. Take your stupidity and *** elsewhere.

I know you're trying to be helpful, but this is not the place for the picture of your daughter.

husker79 · May 2013

I used to be like that, I couldn't stand it when others around me were getting pregnant, no problem, when I was waiting every month to see if I would get "lucky". (I'm still waiting! :] ) For me, I wanted it so bad and I think a lot of it had to do with jealousy. I would wonder why other woman seem to have no problem conceiving yet I can't. It's so hard when you want something so bad and everyone else around is getting what you want. NO FUN! I have since accepted that I can't control the situation and to become angry for someone else's blessing only makes it that much harder for me. I think it's a kind of grieving process and women have to go through different stages. Eventually for me, I was able to be happy for others and separate my situation from theirs.

luciddreamer106 · May 2013

Beelinda2013:
jfb29:
Beelinda2013:
Wow. Judging by your responses, it's pretty obvious how rude and bitter most of you are. It was an honest question I had while waiting for my husband to get out of the shower. It isn't like I'm "so bored"; I just had a few minutes to kill and was curious. You women did nothing but confirm what I already thought: some women who can't get pregnant are absolutely insane with jealousy.

This explains why my coworker who USED TO talk to me won't even look at me now that I'm pregnant. I mean, I want a nice house, a new car, what have you.. But I'm not going to be rude and biotchy to someone who has something I don't. That's called bitter jealousy and it looks ugly on each and every one of you.

Sorry you can't have something you want, but getting this crazy bitter and jealous is beyond... Just wow.
And all I can say is "WOW" right back at you.  PPs stated it well and I don't think they are being bitter and jealous - they explained that this is a safe place where we can go without judgment for support and understanding. IF is something you can truly not understand unless you have gone through it.  What you have just stated is one of THE MOST judgmental things I have read on this board.  Please take a good look in the mirror before coming to a place like this and making such comments...

I did what you said. I looked in the mirror, but I don't think you'd be happy with what I saw... A pregnant tummy.

They should make a board or a post for women who are pregnant and get shunned by people who are jealous.

And bitter... It's hard enough being pregnant without some women treating you like you don't exist anymore... And you don't know my struggles... It actually took me over a year to get pregnant but I NEVER treated any pregnant woman differently or would ever come on a message board and berate people asking questions... Pregnancy isn't as easy physically as one would think, so until you know who someone is, maybe judgy wudgy was a bear... A bitter bear.

Maybe your friend doesn't talk to you anymore bc you were just as insensitive to her as you are to us.

No one was being rude to you, just giving honest answers and pointing out that you're being a jerk. It's bad enough to ask this question, but your question was full of judgement and insensitivity.

Beelinda2013 · May 2013

NariaDreaming:
OP I tried to give you the benefit of the doubt, but its clear that you are nothing more than an attention seeking, petulant little child.

So you got pregnant and your coworker stopped talking to you. Perhaps that's a sign that you were never that close in the first place. Not everyone is going to shiiit a glitter farting unicorn in celebration of your pregnancy.

You need to seriously get over yourself if it takes berating a group of strangers struggling with infertility to boost your self esteem these days.

Newsflash people get knocked up every day it doesn't make you special, it makes you perfectly ordinary.

You are probably also the type that would throw your own baby shower with a diaper raffle and request books instead of cards.

Once again, you have no idea what you're talking about... I never said I was special or unique for being pregnant... the things you come up with! I have no intention of even having a baby shower because I have always thought they were a tacky gift grab. Even at my own wedding, no electric slide or chicken dance or guarder belt tradition for me... I think this stuff is beyond corny and I don't have a Facebook. I'm a private person.

Again, for women who are trying to explain how one shouldn't judge unless you know someone or how they feel, you women are so obsessed with what you don't have that you can't even begin to wrap your head around someone else's situation. Self obsessed, rude, bitterly jealous of what you can't have. You don't know me, and it's funny how you peg me as someone who wants unicorn farts blown up my vag just because I'm pregnant. Couldn't be further from the truth. I know that no one here is EVER going to agree with my opinion, but I didn't come here looking for that. I came here to ask a question, then offer my perspective when I figured out how rude and spiteful most of you are... If you don't like it, don't read and respond to it. I have free speech and am entitled to my own opinion whether you, and your high and mighty horse, agree with me or not. Maybe if you could actually be happy for someone else your lives wouldn't feel as burdensome...

Just proof that you can't even get out of your self absorbed heads to even consider what someone else is going through if it isn't related to IF. So sad.

Beelinda2013 · May 2013

husker79:
I used to be like that, I couldn't stand it when others around me were getting pregnant, no problem, when I was waiting every month to see if I would get "lucky". nbsp;I'm still waiting! nbsp;:] nbsp;For me, I wanted it so bad and I think a lot of it had to do with jealousy. nbsp;I would wonder why other woman seem to have no problem conceiving yet I can't. nbsp;It's so hard when you want something so bad and everyone else around is getting what you want. nbsp;NO FUN! nbsp;I have since accepted that I can't control the situation and to become angry for someone else's blessing only makes it that much harder for me. nbsp;I think it's a kind of grieving process and women have to go through different stages. nbsp;Eventually for me, I was able to be happy for others and separate my situation from theirs.

This response was amazing! Understanding, thoughtful, and helped me realize a bit more about what happens to women as they do through IF. Lets's face it... It IS a jealousy thing. I personally feel extremely weird having someone that I liked and respected now not even speaking to me. We were not close, but were getting close and beginning a friendship. I know she has been trying, and now she will not even talk to me.

This response helped me to put things in perspective... Thank you!

olson2903 · May 2013

I think this was the kind of reaction you were looking for and wanted. You asked for our response, and you got our response. Nobody asked for yours... BOTTOM LINE!

Reading your post didn't upset me, in all honesty, I actually sympathise for you. It's clear that you were looking for some sort of attention, and in my opinion (because you asked for it in your original post) the attention you decided to seek out is pathetic!

You said you didn't know this was an IF board, well how would you know that individuals on this board get upset when someone mentions they are pregnant, or posts a picture of their child without reading the posts? By reading the posts, you would clearly realize this is and IF board. So I'm not sure if I believe you when you say you didn't know what kind of board this was...

You came on a board for women having trouble trying to conceive, and asked why we get so upset when someone is pregnant or post a picture of their child. You are now stereotyping. You act like every single individual that posts in the TTTC board can't stand looking at pregnant people & kids. You think we're all going to run home and cry or spit on them (because thats what grown adults do, right). Seeing pregnant people, babies, children, that doesn't bother me or half of the board. But there are some individuals that have been dealing with IF for years, and they cry not out of jealously like you think, but because they are wondering if they will ever get to experience that. Not to mention, everyone is on a different cycle day here. After spending $2,000 on a medicated IUI cycle and testing just to find out its a BFN, thats a really hard day. Seeing a post with a pregnancy siggy might just make that day a little harder too. Thinking that they will be able to change their siggy to a pregnancy siggy, only to find out they have to make another ovulation one... Asking someone to mention they have a siggy or child pictured is only to help an individual who is having a really hard day aware of what they are viewing. We're trying to not make it any little harder.

We're not jealous. We're not bitter. We're our own little private support system. We can't go to the TTC board or out shopping and say what were side effects from clomid? How long does the ovidrel shot take to test out? Does your insurance cover IUI? Can you refer me to a RE (if they even know what that is) in my area? What was your recovery like after a hysteroscopy? A laparoscopy? Etc... We come to this board because we can all relate to one another in one way or another. We get support, advice, recommendations from each other.

IF is really hard! Most people can't relate. Financially its hard, emotionally its harder. This board has it's rules and courtesies. They are implemented and geared around the posters here. That said, I would never go to a support group for people with skin cancer and say check out my tan lines, then say why are you all so pissed at me or salty that I can go tanning?!?

Lastly, your coworker. Look how you acted then reacted to a bunch of strangers you dont know. Maybe you being pregnant has nothing to do with her no longer talking to you. I don't know you or her, so I don't know. But based off of the things you said here, I can only imagine what you might say to somebody you know.

I hope you got the insight you needed, and by insight I mean attention.

Durham1008 · May 2013

Beelinda2013:
husker79:
I used to be like that, I couldn't stand it when others around me were getting pregnant, no problem, when I was waiting every month to see if I would get "lucky". nbsp;I'm still waiting! nbsp;:] nbsp;For me, I wanted it so bad and I think a lot of it had to do with jealousy. nbsp;I would wonder why other woman seem to have no problem conceiving yet I can't. nbsp;It's so hard when you want something so bad and everyone else around is getting what you want. nbsp;NO FUN! nbsp;I have since accepted that I can't control the situation and to become angry for someone else's blessing only makes it that much harder for me. nbsp;I think it's a kind of grieving process and women have to go through different stages. nbsp;Eventually for me, I was able to be happy for others and separate my situation from theirs.
This response was amazing! Understanding, thoughtful, and helped me realize a bit more about what happens to women as they do through IF. Lets's face it... It IS a jealousy thing. I personally feel extremely weird having someone that I liked and respected now not even speaking to me. We were not close, but were getting close and beginning a friendship. I know she has been trying, and now she will not even talk to me. This response helped me to put things in perspective... Thank you!

It is NOT about jealousy and that post was by someone who has a whopping two posts on the bump, not a regular poster on 3T. It's about expecting people to be considerate. You come here, without having ever had a conversation with any of us, and ask why we're angry and bitter and make sure to mention in every post that you're pregnant and we're not. And then wonder why people get upset with you? You are a terrible person.

sueann911 · May 2013

Instead of asking Internet strangers, why don't you be a grown up and talk to your coworker?

Maybe she has a completely different problem that you don't know about and you're thinking the whole world revolves around you. The sun doesn't rise and set on your ars either, sweetheart. So why don't you be the bigger person and start acting like the friend that you want her to be.

PrdUSMCWyf · May 2013

Beelinda2013:
Wow. Judging by your responses, it's pretty obvious how rude and bitter most of you are. It was an honest question I had while waiting for my husband to get out of the shower. It isn't like I'm "so bored"; I just had a few minutes to kill and was curious. You women did nothing but confirm what I already thought: some women who can't get pregnant are absolutely insane with jealousy. This explains why my coworker who USED TO talk to me won't even look at me now that I'm pregnant. I mean, I want a nice house, a new car, what have you.. But I'm not going to be rude and biotchy to someone who has something I don't. That's called bitter jealousy and it looks ugly on each and every one of you. Sorry you can't have something you want, but getting this crazy bitter and jealous is beyond... Just wow.

Get a life.

Agent Cooper · May 2013

Beelinda2013:
Once again, you have no idea what you're talking about... I never said I was special or unique for being pregnant... the things you come up with! I have no intention of even having a baby shower because I have always thought they were a tacky gift grab. Even at my own wedding, no electric slide or chicken dance or guarder belt tradition for me... I think this stuff is beyond corny and I don't have a Facebook. I'm a private person. Again, for women who are trying to explain how one shouldn't judge unless you know someone or how they feel, you women are so obsessed with what you don't have that you can't even begin to wrap your head around someone else's situation. Self obsessed, rude, bitterly jealous of what you can't have. You don't know me, and it's funny how you peg me as someone who wants unicorn farts blown up my vag just because I'm pregnant. Couldn't be further from the truth. I know that no one here is EVER going to agree with my opinion, but I didn't come here looking for that. I came here to ask a question, then offer my perspective when I figured out how rude and spiteful most of you are... If you don't like it, don't read and respond to it. I have free speech and am entitled to my own opinion whether you, and your high and mighty horse, agree with me or not. Maybe if you could actually be happy for someone else your lives wouldn't feel as burdensome... Just proof that you can't even get out of your self absorbed heads to even consider what someone else is going through if it isn't related to IF. So sad.

It's pretty clear to me that you're the jealous and bitter one, OP. You came on this board to harass women who have never done anything to you. It seems like you're feeling lonely and isolated since you've gotten pregnant. You know why? Because you think that you deserve special treatment. Your coworker doesn't care that you're pregnant, she's just had enough of you.

And one more thing, that gum you like, it's never coming back into style.

jschwind22 · May 2013

What the what? GTFO OP!

hsalegio · May 2013

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