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morsey2011 · May 2013

I usually have to be at work at 7:30, 30 minutes before school begins. I am usually 3 to 5 minutes late. I hate being late, but even if I get out the door on time, DD gives me a hard time at the sitter's house. Anyway, I have a professional development today and didn't have to be here until 8, so I woke up later and left the house later. DH leaves the house around 7:20 every day. I guess I messed with his routine because he takes DD downstairs and gets her bag ready. When I get downstairs, he says I have to go because he's going to be late. He said it in a frustrated tone like it was my fault. I tell him to leave. He just kind of stands there, so I snap at him that I am late every day, that he can be late one day. Then he goes on to insinuate that he has more important things at work than I do. So I call him after I drop DD off and we get in a fight which results in me hanging up on him and going into my meeting with tears in my eyes. I am still pissed.

mamaZbo · May 2013

I am sorry your DH is being like that. It seems like they really only think about themselves first.I hope he makes it up to you tonight.

My DH works an early morning shift 4-10am. So he gets up and has the bathroom to himself, gets only himself ready, and gets to leave when he is done. When he gets home he has an empty house and can pee when he wants, get himself something to eat and nap uninterrupted. Then he leaves for school, missing the evening of daycare pick-up, dinner and bedtime, and he can't understand why I am tired and cranky. It seems like everything I do is with the thought of DD and DH, while he is totally only focused on his own needs.

morsey2011 · May 2013

I have sent him texts since I've been here with no response. He's digging himself deeper.

KrisM86 · May 2013

morsey2011:
I have sent him texts since I've been here with no response. He's digging himself deeper.

I'm sorry YH is being an azz! The not answering texts when fighting is bad...definitely a way to p!ss someone off even faster!

leahandbuck · May 2013

Sorry your morning started out rough. I do 99% of the DC drop-offs and pick-ups. I had a late meeting yesterday so I had to ask DH to pick H up. Mind you he generally works about an hour late every night and he didn't have to leave work until 6 to get her, which is what time he planned to work until anyway so this in no way disrupted his schedule. When I got home H was screaming and he was frustrated and snapped at me with an "I'm glad your finally home" comment. I walked in the door 10 minutes after he got home. That did not go over well. I swear to God men think that stuff just magically gets done if they don't do it. And anytime I try to explain to him what I have had to deal with or get done in the evening he says I am trying to compare and win when we are both busy. Idiot.

jonnygurl76 · May 2013

I would just ignore him back. Don't text him, let him think about it.

I have found it usually takes a good 4 hours for stupidity to dissipate in men.

morsey2011 · May 2013

Why do some men act like they can't handle the same crap we do? He finally text me and apologized.

lisamonkee11 · May 2013

I have been in a similar boat lately. He talks to me with such disrespect sometimes and when I call him on it he throws something in my face about the house not being clean enough or whatever.

Then he wonders why I don't want to have sex with him.

They really are selfish creatures.

christiney06 · May 2013

This is one is about my brother. He's home from CA and hasn't seen DD since she was about 2 months old. He was playing with her the other day and said to her "you're so pretty, Keira... We were worried for a while you wouldn't be!" Ummm.....say what now?

lisamonkee11 · May 2013

DH's selfishness... We were invited to a party on June 8th with a group of his friends who are all awesome and several have kids, so it'll be a lot of fun for all of us. After confirming with him that we don't have any other plans and we both want to go, I confirmed that we would be there with the host.

Then about half an hour later he sends me and a few other people a link to a drinking, scavenger hunt race... On June 8th.

For one thing, thanks for reminding me yet again that I can't participate in something fun like a drinking scavenger hunt race, but I sure can pick your drunk azz up at the end. Oh and forget that we JUST made plans with a different set of your friends.

Grrrr. I really really wish I could have a big fat bowl and a bottle of wine for dinner tonight.

Elsa1984 · May 2013

christiney06:
This is one is about my brother. nbsp;He's home from CA and hasn't seen DD since she was about 2 months old. nbsp;He was playing nbsp;with her the other day and said nbsp;to her "you're so pretty, Keira... We were worried for a while you wouldn't be!" Ummm.....say what now? nbsp;nbsp;

Omg! Jerk. And who is "we"....? Someone agreed with him?

morsey2011 · May 2013

lisamonkee11:
DH's selfishness... We were invited to a party on June 8th with a group of his friends who are all awesome and several have kids, so it'll be a lot of fun for all of us. After confirming with him that we don't have any other plans and we both want to go, I confirmed that we would be there with the host. Then about half an hour later he sends me and a few other people a link to a drinking, scavenger hunt race... On June 8th. For one thing, thanks for reminding me yet again that I can't participate in something fun like a drinking scavenger hunt race, but I sure can pick your drunk azz up at the end. Oh and forget that we JUST made plans with a different set of your friends. Grrrr. I really really wish I could have a big fat bowl and a bottle of wine for dinner tonight.

that totally sucks.

LCass · May 2013

Morsey, I'm glad your H apologized. What a jerky move.

On a similar note, I was so frustrated with DH last week. He'd complain all the time about how tired he was, how much work he had to do, etc. Meanwhile, I was working two pt jobs, cooking all meals, caring for Lily, making arrangements for our move and trying to do pretty much all the packing by myself. I also had to spend 3 days at the new house waiting for appliances to be delivered and internet to be set up. He was surprised and annoyed that not everything got packed in time (which wasn't even a big deal because we still had our old place for 4 more days).

On top of that, during the days Lily and I had to spend here I put together her new toy shelf and a cupboard for the kitchen. When I told him I was going to do that he started questioning whether I could possibly put it together myself, then when he saw it the only comment he had was "Why doesn't the door close completely?" which I had already told him I needed him to tighten the screws on the hinges. Turns out that wasn't even the problem, one of the hinges was badly constructed and our dads had to bend it to make it work. He still has yet to tell me I did a good job on it, even after I pointed out how rude it was.

christiney06 · May 2013

Elsa1984:
christiney06:
This is one is about my brother. nbsp;He's home from CA and hasn't seen DD since she was about 2 months old. nbsp;He was playing nbsp;with her the other day and said nbsp;to her "you're so pretty, Keira... We were worried for a while you wouldn't be!" Ummm.....say what now? nbsp;nbsp;
Omg! Jerk. And who is "we"....? Someone agreed with him?

I took the high road and walked away but I was thinking the same thing. The sad part is that I bet it was my mom.

lisamonkee11 · May 2013

The hits just keep coming. I just told him I had an idea for an exercise we could do together as a conversation starter. His response: "what do we need to talk for"

Seriously? I guess nothing.

RoxRing · May 2013

lisamonkee11:
The hits just keep coming. I just told him I had an idea for an exercise we could do together as a conversation starter. His response: "what do we need to talk for"

Seriously? I guess nothing.

. Woah! Sounds like he needs completely ignored for a while! Then he can wonder why you aren't 'talking'.

lisamonkee11 · May 2013

I went to bed last night at 8:15 he was playing a video game & I got up from the couch & said I'm going upstairs. He was all like "I can stop playing" I said no - I want to go to bed.

And that was that.

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