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I am NOT going to let this get to me

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Our EM flaked on the agency  and never let them know where her appointment was today and she just texted them to tell them that she found a new agency because they were not giving her what she wants.  I am scratching my head and thinking, she is due in less than a week and does this mean she is finding new PAP's?  I have NO idea what is going on, but for now, I will allow this drama to just go on around me and not include me, because honestly I don't have the heart to deal.
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Failed Matches - December 2012, May 2013, December 2013
Moved on to  gestational surrogacy with a family friend who is our angel and due 7/23/15


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  • CaptainSeriousCaptainSerious member
    Sending you prayers upon prayers!
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  • arbutusbridearbutusbride member
    Geez, I've heard of breaking up with someone over text but breaking up with the agency that way is screwed up.

    Maybe she decided to parent and didn't want to tell you.
    Pursing Domestic Infant Adoption through a local agency. In the meantime, our dog is our baby.  Bumping from Portland, Oregon. 
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  • MagickalNarwhalMagickalNarwhal member
    Oh my gosh!! I'm so sorry! I hope you can get some clarity and some answers soon.
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  • crene84crene84 member
    That IS frustrating!  The baby is almost here, though, so hopefully this roller coaster is almost done for you!  Sending hugs your way!
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  • fledgegrl1fledgegrl1
    Sending good thoughts. Thankfully she is due soon, so you will know one way or another in short time.  It is such a rollercoaster for sure.
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  • GWUAlumGWUAlum member
    Sending prayers your way! I can't even imagine the roller-coaster that you are on! **hugs**
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  • maryoosamaryoosa member
    So much love to you.
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  • KirstybabyKirstybaby member
    I'm sorry!  That is so frustrating!  Hugs to you!
    I'm a dance studio owner, writer, cat mommy, and adventuress who is married to the man of her dreams. My husband and I have had a long-time dream to adopt and it's happening in a way that we didn't quite anticipate. But, like any move of God, it's turning out way better than we expected. We'd love for you to follow our story at www.kirstenkline.com!
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  • irismorningirismorning member
    I am so sorry, you must be completely frustrated! T&P your way.

    Mother of two wonderful boys! Blessed through adoption.

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  • miss071311miss071311 member
    oh my gosh... what a roller coaster indeed.  i am so sorry you're going through this.  i hope things turn out well!!
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  • PanderpPanderp member
    :( How frustrating. Thinking positive thoughts for you.
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  • Ginger71Ginger71 member
    Positive vibes headed your way. Keep us posted and stay strong, lady. xoxo
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  • Stacy092306Stacy092306 member
    Sending postive thoughts your way. 
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  • orange1414orange1414 member
    ((hugs)) I'm so sorry.
    Trying to grow our family with both fertility treatments and adoption since March 2009 
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  • Michelle3081Michelle3081 member
    Wow!  You and your H are in my thoughts. Take care.
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