I met BMs boyfriend
Phantomgirl
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On Friday as I pulled up to BMs there was a work truck in the drive and I assumed it was BFs. As I walked to the door I could see him sitting on the sofa in the living room.
SS flung the door open and practically shouted 'come in phantom I have a surprise for you' lol. He marched me into the living room and announced this is 'D' while pointed at BMs boyfriend. Both BM and I were cracking up! Poor D looked a bit like a rabbit in the headlights.
Anyhow D seems like a lovely guy. He was really polite and friendly. He's quite handsome and on first impressions, I really like him!
BM seemed chilled and very happy and we all chatted for a while.
BM was over complimentary about me as a SM, saying how SS is a lucky boy and how I am so good to him etc. BM sister even got in on the act (the sister who is usually sour and never has a good word to say about anyone!)
I felt it was for BFs benefit, as in, see SPs love their Skids! Maybe I'm wrong and I should just take the compliment.
I was telling DH and he said he already likes D despite never meeting him, simply because he has not heard from BM since January!.
Re: I met BMs boyfriend
I'm pretty sure my DH would say something like that too. LOL.
If I were you, I would not overthink it and just take the compliment. In my situation I would be ecstatic to hear BM say something like that, no matter what the circumstances.