My ex fianc and I were together for about a year and a half when we decided we were going to have a baby. Well we got pregnant and when I was 3 months, he ended up leaving because of a Fight we got into. He got a new girlfriend and never came around but still says he wants to be part of our kids life and raise him... He signed for the marines 2 weeks ago, and yesterday we talked and I found out he is now leaving for bootcamp may 5. He will miss our sons birth. He has yet to apologize for alot of things he has done, he says everything is my fault, and well never be together and raise our family... He seriously has done nothing to help me with this pregnancy. He also thinks in just going to write to him abiut our son and all but why would i honestly write to my ex? i know its for his son, but atill he left, got a gurlfriend, got new cars, didnt go to appointments, done nothing for our baby. Is there any chance boot camp will make him mature, and come back apologizing, an wanting to fix our relationship for our son. Any women have something like this happen?