Pregnant after a Loss

Scared...

All my symptoms are gone. No bloating, nausea or sore boobs. Not hungry, tired or constipated. Nothing. Finding it hard to believe there could be any pretty stories but does anyone have any? Sorry to be such a AW lately but I'm so scared. Sad 


TTC since August 2011
BFP#1 3/16/12 EDD 11/21/12 Delivered 6/1/12 at 15 weeks 2 days
"If there ever comes a day when we can't be together... Keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever." ~ Winnie the Pooh

BFP#2 4/14/13 EDD 12/24/13 Please be our rainbow after the storm!
Beta#1 @ 15dpo 274, P4 16.9 Beta#2 @ 18dpo 940!! Doubling time of 40 hours!! u/s @ 6w2d showed a beautiful HB of 120! u/s @ 10w1d HB 174!! Grow, LO Grow!! Found out 7/22 we are TEAM BLUE!!
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  • The only advice I can give you is that not all pregnancies are the same. Some ladies have a ton of symptoms while others don't have any and they come an go often. FWIW I had basically no symptoms with my first pregnancy and everything was fine.

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  • That is so scary. I'm sorry. My symptoms truly did completely disappear around 6w for an entire week. I was sure it was over, but I started to feel a little off around 7w and then we went in at 8w and saw that beautiful heartbeat. It really can happen!
    Mommy to Alden, born May 19, 2007 - best birthday present ever! natural m/c October 20, 2008 at 8w1d BFP April 4, 2009! Missed m/c discovered May 1, 2009 D&C May 12,2009 BFP March 3, 2010 Chemical pregnancy BFP May 25, 2010 Elias Derek born January 26, 2011! Surprise BFP October 24, 2012 Missed m/c confirmed Nov 26 D&C Nov 30 Surprise BFP February 13, 2013
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  • HUGS - I'm sorry you are going through this. 

    All of my symptoms disappeared right at 7w and then I had bleeding at 7w3d. I went in for an ultrasound that day and saw our baby measuring on track with a great heartbeat. My fatigue did eventually come back and stay during the rest of the first trimester. Occasionally I still get nipple pain, but I otherwise stayed pretty symptom free after that. I'm 22w2d now and baby is doing great. Symptoms really aren't an indication of pregnancy viability.

    TTC #1 since January 2011
    BFP#1 April 12, 2011, EDD December 24, 2011, strong heart beat at 7w3d, d&c at 10w6d
    BFP#2 Oct 24, 2011, natural miscarriage, EDD unknown
    After RPL testing my losses and subsequent infertility are considered unexplained.
    Cycle #22: Femara, TI, and progesterone = BFP!! 
    BFP#3 Dec 21, 2012. Beta #1 @14dpo = 134, progesterone 67.8. Beta #2 @ 17dpo = 664! Team green, EDD 9/1/13, healthy baby boy born 9/12/13!
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  • I'm sorry you are having a rough time right now! I had no symptoms with my DD and she is a very healthy and active 2 1/2 year old now :) 
  • I'm sorry you are feeling so scared right now.  FWIW I didn't have any symptoms at all till 7 weeks...then at 8 weeks they disappeared for about 3 days...then came and went.  Don't base not feeling anything on whether its a viable pregnancy or not.  If you are really anxious, call you doctor and see if you can go in for an u/s.  Good luck & hugs.
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    Diagnose me. DOR, DH perfect
    IUI # 1 6/2010, BFN
    IUI # 2 8/2010, BFN
    IVF # 1 10/2010 Canceled poor response
    IVF 1.2 12/2010 BFP! mc 6 weeks 2 days
    Mental health break for 10 months
    IVF # 2 10/2011 BFN
    IVF # 3 5/2012 BFP! 10 eggs retrieved (best ever)
    7 fertilized transferred 3
    Beta #1 14dpo - 72, Beta #2 17dpo 145 Beta 3 20dpo 521
    First u/s June 15 saw HB 126 bpm missed m/c 7/5/12 10 weeks D&C 7/6/12
    IVF#4 ER 9/30 ET 10/3 Beta 10/16 BFFN. IVF #5 final with o/e. ER 1/21 only 1 retrieved, hoping my lonestar is the one. Beta #1 2/6/13 = 209.... please let this be it! Keep growing lonestar! Beta #2 2/8/13 - 586! , Beta #3 2/10/13 = 1898. First u/s perfect little heart beat at 116 bpm. Measure 6 weeks 1 day. EDD 10/14/13
    3/4/13 measuring right on track beautiful heartbeat 171 bpm, graduated from RE to OB... bittersweet.
    PAIF/SAIF always welcome! Its a girl! 

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    11/13 beta #1  924!!!  2nd bet 11/15 1906, one more on 11/17 3rd & final beta 3430.  First u/s 12/5, 7w4d, 2 heartbeats,
    both measuring right on track....2nd u/s... all is well... both beans measuring right on track... released from RE... first
    appointment with MFM 1/5.  Looks like this is really happening!

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  • I'm sorry PGAL brain is driving you crazy. I hear symptoms can come and go. I hope your next appointment calms your worries. Thinking of you and sending you good vibes! Hugs
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  • Thanks ladies. I  wouldn't  be freaking out so much but i had all the symptoms yesterday and now nothing. I have an u/s Thursday and hopefully that will ease my mind. FX that it's not too soon to see a heartbeat because that will probably put me over the edge. 


    TTC since August 2011
    BFP#1 3/16/12 EDD 11/21/12 Delivered 6/1/12 at 15 weeks 2 days
    "If there ever comes a day when we can't be together... Keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever." ~ Winnie the Pooh

    BFP#2 4/14/13 EDD 12/24/13 Please be our rainbow after the storm!
    Beta#1 @ 15dpo 274, P4 16.9 Beta#2 @ 18dpo 940!! Doubling time of 40 hours!! u/s @ 6w2d showed a beautiful HB of 120! u/s @ 10w1d HB 174!! Grow, LO Grow!! Found out 7/22 we are TEAM BLUE!!
    Zaiden Harper was born 12/22/13 at 1:46 am. 9lbs 8oz and 22in
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  • My symptoms came and went, its certainly more calming to the Pgal brain when the symptoms are there. I'm not a success yet but 12 weeks and as of last Wednesday baby doing great. Big Hugs
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  • imageJulie21613:
    I'm sorry you are feeling so scared right now.  FWIW I didn't have any symptoms at all till 7 weeks...then at 8 weeks they disappeared for about 3 days...then came and went.  Don't base not feeling anything on whether its a viable pregnancy or not.  If you are really anxious, call you doctor and see if you can go in for an u/s.  Good luck & hugs.

    Yes to the bolded. I struggled with this a lot too. I even posted a "Where are my symptoms?" post. And they've come back and left me again several times since that post. I'm trying to live by the mantra "Everything is fine until it isn't" So the only things I will worry about (at least until I get further along) are blood and a bad u/s. Until one of those happens I'm trying to convince myself that everything's fine. It's hard because I know I could be setting myself up for disapointment. But I'd rather get my hopes up and be disapointed, than be worried if LO is going to be okay. I hope your symptoms come back, and you can relax a little bit Right Hug

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  • Huge hugs, girl! PgAL brain can kick you down.
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    BFP#1 9/28/2012 - EDD 6/3/2013 - MMC discovered 11/21/2012 @ 12w2d - D&C 11/24/2012
    BFP#2 4/4/2013 - Born at 37w3d on 11/26/13 via emergency c-section
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  • imagehungryhippo:
    HUGS I'm sorry you are going through this.nbsp; All of my symptoms disappeared right at 7w and then I had bleeding at 7w3d. I went in for an ultrasound that day and saw our baby measuring on track with a great heartbeat. My fatigue did eventually come back and stay during the rest of the first trimester. Occasionally I still get nipple pain, but I otherwise stayed pretty symptom free after that. I'm 22w2d now and baby is doing great. Symptoms really aren't an indication of pregnancy viability.


    I basically could have written this but I am 18 weeks now.

  • Praying for you linzeeh! We will get our Christmas Eve Rainbow babies. I am feeling hopeful enough for the both of us.
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  • Thanks ladies! Since my post I have gotten some slight nausea, I don't know if it's nerves or pregnancy related, but I'll take it! 


    TTC since August 2011
    BFP#1 3/16/12 EDD 11/21/12 Delivered 6/1/12 at 15 weeks 2 days
    "If there ever comes a day when we can't be together... Keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever." ~ Winnie the Pooh

    BFP#2 4/14/13 EDD 12/24/13 Please be our rainbow after the storm!
    Beta#1 @ 15dpo 274, P4 16.9 Beta#2 @ 18dpo 940!! Doubling time of 40 hours!! u/s @ 6w2d showed a beautiful HB of 120! u/s @ 10w1d HB 174!! Grow, LO Grow!! Found out 7/22 we are TEAM BLUE!!
    Zaiden Harper was born 12/22/13 at 1:46 am. 9lbs 8oz and 22in
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  • imagencchnat:

    Symptoms do come and go. Mine disappeared completely for a few days somewhere around 6 or 7 weeks and then came back with a vengeance. I'm now 31 weeks. 

    I hope you're back to feeling like crap soon. 

    This. My symptoms have come and gone this entire pregnancy. Hang in there hun, I know its so scary (((hugs))) xoxo

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  • Thanks ladies! 


    TTC since August 2011
    BFP#1 3/16/12 EDD 11/21/12 Delivered 6/1/12 at 15 weeks 2 days
    "If there ever comes a day when we can't be together... Keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever." ~ Winnie the Pooh

    BFP#2 4/14/13 EDD 12/24/13 Please be our rainbow after the storm!
    Beta#1 @ 15dpo 274, P4 16.9 Beta#2 @ 18dpo 940!! Doubling time of 40 hours!! u/s @ 6w2d showed a beautiful HB of 120! u/s @ 10w1d HB 174!! Grow, LO Grow!! Found out 7/22 we are TEAM BLUE!!
    Zaiden Harper was born 12/22/13 at 1:46 am. 9lbs 8oz and 22in
    ~*~AL Always Welcome~*~
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    ((((((((hugs))))))))))

    I panicked each time mine went away too.  It definitely happens though, so try not to panic.  I know easier said than done.  I'll keep my FX for your u/s tomorrow!!!!

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    Junebug said this yesterday and it is perfect! 

    "The level of your symptoms isn't a good indicator of the viability of your pregnancy!" 

    Marinate on that.  That is wisdom!  I need it for me too.  Stay hopeful.  {{hugs}}

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