Hey Ladies,
Could use some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and recently got engaged in December. I'm 30 and he's 31. He has an 8 year old (whom I love to death and would do anything for) from a previous relationship and has always said he wanted another kid. Seeing that I have none of my own this was great. He always talks about how much he wants a baby and can't wait until we finally have one. But recently, we had thought I may have been pregnant and when that wasnt the case he was really bummed out. Now fast foward 2 weeks and he is dead set on not having any other kids. To the point that he is thinking about a vesectomy. He is known to over react with something is bothering him (thanks to his dads genes) which i am used to by now and usually just let the given issue be until he settles down but it has been 2 nights of nonstop arguements over this. He basically told me if I want a baby than I should probably find someone else. Does anyone have any thoughts on how to handle this, without making a decision I may regret?
Re: Really could use some advice....
If you are 100% sure that you want kids and he is 100% sure that he doesn't, then you may have to walk away from the relationship.
My Awesome Craft Blog
My other blog
kid have always been a crucial issue to me. like a 3rd date question. I did not want to waste time on guys who don't want kids.
if you stay with him and he doesn't change his mind and you do, you'll either be making a huge huge sacrifice or breaking up a family. don't let this issue hang unresolved.