Things that shouldn't bother me

eatmorecupcakes · April 2013

*Things that shouldn't bother me.

Just found out from an acquaintance's blog that my college boyfriend got married last weekend. The one who I dated for 4 years. Who randomly said he didn't love me one day and essentially left me for a waitress from Garfields with a lazy eye. The one who lied to me and ended up dating my (former) best friend. The one who I'm actually glad I didn't marry.

I guess I was hoping he'd be unhappy for longer than 12 years. Haha. I'm a jerk. He's just my first serious ex to get married. Well.....technically another ex got married first but I was at that wedding and that's just a weird story anyways.

ladybugpjb · April 2013

Nothing like old memories to slap you in the face when you least expect it... I hate those "I thought I was over this!" moments.

Monsieur_et_Madame_Ha · April 2013

Ha - I bet it would bother me, too.

NotSharknado · April 2013

Sounds like you dodged a bullet if you ask me.

melissa0726 · April 2013

I know what you mean.

When my ex got married, I felt super weird about the whole thing. We had been back and forth several times over the years, so I guess his getting married to someone else was just really...final. Like there was finally truly no chance of "us" ever happening. Not that I even wanted to be with him at that point, it was just...weird. Anyway, I get your weirdness about it!