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B&M Tuesday
sstara
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I'm so sick of people asking me when we are going to have another baby. It makes me so mad. Especially people whom I know have been through a miscarriage. You would think they would be the last people to ask.
What do you have to complain about today?
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Re: B&M Tuesday
Yesterday was my first day back at work, thank god only one of my patients showed up child therapist. I don't think I can go back today. I just don't have it in me.
People truly don't understand. We are mothers who have lost our children. Its a pain I wish on no one. Something that no one should have to suffer. I feel like screaming most days still I can't seem to get past the anger and grief still.
I am religious in my own way. I believe in god. The comment I hat the most though: Well god must of needed or wanted them more. Screw you! No one needed or wanted my babies more then me. I don't give a crap if he is the Almighty. There is no sense to any of this and I don't care what anyone says!
UGH!
::HUGS:: to all you ladies
Oh yeah I hate it when people give me that one. My other favorite is "you will cherish your future children even more now." Omg like I wasn't going to love this baby because I hadn't had a loss before. It was my first pregnancy.
Edit: something I forgot to add is I hate being benched, waiting to ttc is very hard for me because I am a very active person...
Ugh! I was put on pelvic rest for six weeks. SIX. WEEKS. My postmc checkup is 2 days after my birthday. How fair is that? Not at all!
I'm mostly pissed at the people that didn't know I was pregnant. You don't ask that question no matter what.
I haven't had sex for almost 6 weeks now. I am having an u/s on Tuesday and hopefully after that we can again. It sucks. I don't want to get pregnant right away, but I do want to feel close to my husband in that way again.
Lost baby at 13 weeks due to triploidy syndrome D&C 3/27/13 repeat D&C 5/8/13
I feel the same way.
We haven't had sex since we conceived our angel baby, it's a bit embarrassing really. I know it's silly but I was scared of something happening (oh the irony), so we haven't had sex since the beginning of Feb.
BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!
Is it weird that we haven't since we conceived and I have no desire? It's like I feel my body failed me and have associated intimacy with m/c and heartache. This is my 2nd m/c. Ugh. I'm so tired of feeling like I'm throwing myself a pity party, but I'm just not ready to be happy again.
It's ok, be happy when you're ready to be.