Well, after the BFN Beta a few days ago, I'm pretty sure I've moved on from being devastated, to just being kind of angry/frustrated about the whole thing. And my RE wants to wait until I've had a "full flow" period before he starts me on another round of Clomid. Umm...yeah, I haven't had a "full flow" period in quite some time and have been pretty irregular, so who knows when AF will decide to show up. So, now the waiting game just for AF...
Aside from all this, my DH and I went to one of our good friends' birthday dinners last night (who is PG with her second child). She started asking me about my recent Beta, which I was trying to talk quietly to her about (Um, hello?! I don't exactly want the other five people at the table hearing about my IF), and one of the gals at the table chimes in with "Oh my gosh, I can breathe too heavily in a room of men and will end up pregnant...and I'm sooo not a kid person." She also has two children. And she goes on with how I can "borrow hers," and blah blah blah. GRRRRR...I am so tired of people and their insensitivity! And if one more person tells me to "just relax, it will happen," I may scream. Sorry for the anger burst...I'm just so emotionally and mentally drained and I don't have anyone to talk to IRL about all this, because none of them understands...
Re: Grrrr...hurry up, AF! And a little venting...
***3T July Siggy Challenge: Favorite Summer Drink Peach Bellini***
Me: 36, DH: 41 TTC: Feb 2011
Dx uterine fibroids & MFI = Varicocele causing decreased SA
*** 12/2011: IUI #1 50mg Clomid = BFN ***
*** 8/2012: IUI #2 100mg Clomid = BFN ***
*** 11/2012: IUI #3 150mg Clomid & Metmorphin 150mg = BFN ***
*** 1/2013: Changed RE's & Urologists for more focus on MFI ***
*** 4/2013: IUI#4 Femara & Follistim = BFFN ***
*** 5/2013: IUI#5 Femara, Follistim & Bravella = BFFN ***
***6/2013: Taking a much needed break***
BFN suck. If you ovulated (and I am assuming you did since your RE ordered betas) and you stopped your progesterone, you should get your period soon.
As far as insensitive people, I have decided that I will no longer be nice to anyone who says something stupid to me. If you say something insensitive or stupid, expect to be called out on being an ignorant twat.
TTC #1 since August 2011
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September 2012: Start IF testing
DH (32): SA is ok, slightly low morph, normal SCSA Me (32): Slightly low progesterone, hostile CM, carrier for CF, Moderately high NKC, High TNFa, heterozyogous mutated Factor XIII, and +APA
October 2012-May 2014: 4 failed IUIs, 3 failed IVFs, and 1 failed FETw/donor embryos
November 2014: IVF w/ICSI #4 Agonist/Antagonist with EPP and Prednisone, Baby Aspirin, Lovenox, and IVIG for immune issues. Converted to freeze all due to lining issues. 2 blasts frozen on day 6!
January 2015: FET #2 Cancelled due to lining issues
April 2015: FET #2.1
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I definitely need to try to find my happy place on days like this. My day is getting better, and I've really been trying to think positively about our next cycle (maybe third time's a charm?). Thank you for the kind words
I'm hoping AF will show up soon (This was my first time with the Progesterone suppositories, so I wasn't sure if it would take long after I stopped taking them).
I was just kind of hurt that my friend brought up my issues while we were all out eating dinner (and with a bunch of people I don't know very well, who don't know anything about me and my situation), and then she said "Oh, and not to make you feel worse, but guess who else is pregnant?" So, I was expecting a little more tact from her considering she knows everything my DH and I are, and have been going through. Hurts worse when these kind of comments come from friends or family.
Aw, thanks for the AF vibes! I need them Wishing you lots of luck with your journey as well!
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Age: Me 26, DH 27, Married Oct. 10, 2009 ,TTC since March 2012
Problem: Irregular menstruation, unexplained
Nov&Dec-Provera because of no period after 35+ days
First RE appt 1/10/2013
Tests: TSH (normal), Prolactin (normal), SA (abnormal)
Hysteroscopy (normal) and PCOS labs (negative/normal) 1/15/2013
2/1/13- HPT BFP but Beta Hcg was negative
Plan: Femara + Trigger + IUI in April if no real BFP before then Bloggy Blog!
Thank you I hope you're having a good day.