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Not sure what to do

fieldsfamilyfieldsfamily
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I just found out on Monday that my husband of nearly 8 years wants to separate. We have a 7 year old daughter and 4 year old daughter. I am also 22 weeks pregnant with our baby boy. This news came out of nowhere and I am devastated. Financially we can't afford 2 places to live so he is staying in our guest room right now. He is saying that he just isn't happy being married to me. I never ever thought I would be dealing with this. I have no idea what to even do. I am in totally shock right now. 

 

Thanks for reading my rambling.  

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Re: Not sure what to do

  • mel1987mel1987 member
    Would he concider counselling? You had no idea he felt that way? That's horrible. I'm so sorry you are going though this! Hugs
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  • inthelostinthelost member
    I would also advice counseling. This is a horrible time to dump this news on you! Try to talk to him about it.
    Liliana Seraphina born 9/5/2103


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  • babymama619babymama619 member
    Oh, I"m sorry. How awful! Feel free to ramble and vent any time.

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  • fieldsfamilyfieldsfamily
    He doesn't want to go to counseling. He says it won't change how he feels. I guess I knew we were going through some difficult times, I have very rough pregnancies and have been really sick but I never thought this would be happening. 
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  • mel1987mel1987 member
    Kick him out
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  • Runaway22Runaway22 member

    imagemel1987:
    Kick him out

    lol

    Seriously, OP, I'm really sorry you're going through this. I'll never understand men who dump their pregnant partners. It's beyond me how that works in their minds... I wish I had advice, but I don't :(

    Pregnancy Ticker
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