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Anyone else getting cramps right after orgasm? 

also how many weeks are you and what is your sex drive like?

 I'm almost 6 weeks and I still want it all the time.

MS hasn't started yet. 

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  • Amcrae1018Amcrae1018 member
    I am a little over 6 weeks and had cramps right after orgasm as well, it scared me since that has never happened before. Needless to say even though I still have somewhat of a sex drive but my m/s has taken over now. Hopefully it will get better though.
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  • waterlily2k2waterlily2k2 member
    My first 2 pregnancies I had bad cramps after orgasm. That's actually how I knew to test the second time. I know, not the first clue everyone thinks of, lol. I think it went away after around 8 weeks? I don't remember much ha!
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  • PrimRoseMamaPrimRoseMama member

    Not TMI at all by the way....

    Its normal.

    27 weeks and I only want it occasionally.

    In first trimester I was so sick that the idea of sex made me want to hurl.  


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  • CaityA83CaityA83 member
    I am 8w1d and have zero sex drive. We haven't dtd since the conception. I am way too sick to have any interest at this point. But sometimes I can kind of feel the drive coming back. With DS I had an increased drive once I was don't being sick. I remember having cramps afterwards also.
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  • jackson290721jackson290721 member
    Totally normal. Sex drive didn't exist in the 1st tri. I would have thrown up on DH. Talk about a mood killer. My sex drive is back to normal now though. 
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  • FutureMrsCaesarFutureMrsCaesar member

    Cramps after sex, especially with orgasm are normal.  I had them with my first pregnancy and they were really intense with my second, felt just like contractions, which freaked me out as I was no where near full term.  My OB assured me it was normal and harmless though.

    also the idea of sex to me right now sounds great however I have no motivation to do it and I'd probably throw up on dh if he comes anywhere near me.  Hopefully in a month or so we can get back to it. 

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  • ToughMudderX2ToughMudderX2 member

    imageCaityA83:
    I am 8w1d and have zero sex drive. We haven't dtd since the conception. I am way too sick to have any interest at this point. But sometimes I can kind of feel the drive coming back. With DS I had an increased drive once I was don't being sick. I remember having cramps afterwards also.

    I think our last time was the week after I got my BFP. I was on pelvic rest until week 8 but I have bad night nausea and between that, bloat, sore boobs and thigh flab, so not interested right now. Hopefully I will be at some point or this could go down in the record books as the couple that never had sex during pregnancy...

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  • bigday111111bigday111111 member

    From what I remember cramps after an orgasm  was typical, for me at least. It went away after my first tri. I remember feeling crazy tho because I wanted it all the time. Dream come true for DH but eventually even he was like... again?... So no worries. I think you are in a fairly normal place!

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  • Dreamingmommy4Dreamingmommy4 member
    I haven't had any cramps after orgasm, but I don't think everyone does. As far as sex drive goes....I didn't have a super strong sex drive before being pregnant to begin with, but then it went to zero. I didn't want it ever, no meter how much DH tried to get me in the mood, my body just wouldn't do it. It's last week and a half or so has been a little better. I've been wanting it a little more, which is a good start (@ 10 weeks, btw) I just hope it picks up. ;) 
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  • JessieRose21JessieRose21 member
    Orgasm.... Haven't had one of those since I feel pregnant! : / I'm seven weeks and trying to walk around the house or make a latte at my work without spewing is a challenge, let alone jumping around in bed! My husband thinks I'm extra sexy but I just wanna sleep : /
    Plus right from the word I'm pregnant I've found sex really painful. Hopefully the sex kitten in me will return when if! the nausea subsides! :
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