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Throat Punch Time!

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No longer trying to conceive at all.
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 BFP #3 4.13.11 EDD 12.18.11 m/c 5/13/11 d&c 5/18/11 We will always miss you Sprout Ryker! 
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 Midnight Marie (furbaby) born 7.4.12 passed for unknown reasons 9.19.12 Missing my jumping bean. 
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  • lv2011lv2011 member
    I feel terrible about it, but I kinda wanted to TP my mom, who is the sweetest person on the planet, but said to me "at least you have your DD, and she's really special'. How was I supposed to respond to that? Of course my daughter is special and I love her to death, but that doesn't lessen my desire to have another. It was almost like she was saying to be happy with one and get over it. As it's my mom, I can't get mad at her. But dang, that hurt.
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    Beta #2 @ 20-22 dpo = 8,782!
    Beta #3 @ 27-29dpo = 44,230, dx subchorionic hemorrhage/ threatened mc
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  • nyg2042nyg2042 member

    imagelv2011:
    I feel terrible about it, but I kinda wanted to TP my mom, who is the sweetest person on the planet, but said to me "at least you have your DD, and she's really special'. How was I supposed to respond to that? Of course my daughter is special and I love her to death, but that doesn't lessen my desire to have another. It was almost like she was saying to be happy with one and get over it. As it's my mom, I can't get mad at her. But dang, that hurt.

    I'm so sorry, LV.  I think people (even our loved ones) just don't know what to say sometimes.  I would seriously prefer they say nothing rather than deal with the hurt that some comments cause.  About a week after my loss, I was told "at least you know you can get pregnant."  Gee, thanks. 

    Lots of ((hugs)) to you.



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  • lv2011lv2011 member
    imagenyg2042:

    imagelv2011:
    I feel terrible about it, but I kinda wanted to TP my mom, who is the sweetest person on the planet, but said to me "at least you have your DD, and she's really special'. How was I supposed to respond to that? Of course my daughter is special and I love her to death, but that doesn't lessen my desire to have another. It was almost like she was saying to be happy with one and get over it. As it's my mom, I can't get mad at her. But dang, that hurt.

    I'm so sorry, LV.  I think people (even our loved ones) just don't know what to say sometimes.  I would seriously prefer they say nothing rather than deal with the hurt that some comments cause.  About a week after my loss, I was told "at least you know you can get pregnant."  Gee, thanks. 

    Lots of ((hugs)) to you.

    Thanks, nyg. and (((hugs))) to you, too. That "at least you know..." statement is terrible. People just don't think.

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    BFP 3/21/13 w/ EDD 12/02/13, C/P 3/29/13.
    BFP 9/18/13 w/ EDD 5/26/14,
    Beta #1 @ 14-16dpo = 375, progesterone 33.6
    Beta #2 @ 20-22 dpo = 8,782!
    Beta #3 @ 27-29dpo = 44,230, dx subchorionic hemorrhage/ threatened mc
    Beta #4 @ 29-31dpo = 72, 080 :)
    Grow, little one, grow!

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  • WifeofaComposerWifeofaComposer member

    imagelv2011:
    I feel terrible about it, but I kinda wanted to TP my mom, who is the sweetest person on the planet, but said to me "at least you have your DD, and she's really special'. How was I supposed to respond to that? Of course my daughter is special and I love her to death, but that doesn't lessen my desire to have another. It was almost like she was saying to be happy with one and get over it. As it's my mom, I can't get mad at her. But dang, that hurt.

    Firstly, I love your "Little Bunny Foo-Foo" picture - so stinkin' cute!!

    And, sorry your mom is on your throat punch list. My mom is an amazingly wonderful person, too, but she says some really insensitive, stupid things to me. When we found out Hen had passed away, my mom's response was, "Again?" She also had the nerve to tell me that I'm getting older and I should be happy that I had my son when I did. I love my son - he is from a previous relationship, and now I want to have kids with my husband. My mom doesn't understand that, even though that's exactly what she did.  Huh?



     







     
              
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  • shandorfml2shandorfml2 member
    I want to TP people who are afraid to approach me because they don't know what to say. So they just ignore me and say nothing. This really agitates me. We cannot ignore the fact my child died! Say you're sorry...say you don't know what to say....say something, and don't pretend it never happened because that hurts me more.

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  • km_mdkm_md member
    I'd like to TP my neighbour. She has been a giant PITA since we bought our house (that is a long story) but today she asked me if I "make baby" yet? 


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  • KayPWed223946KayPWed223946 member

    imageshandorfml2:
    I want to TP people who are afraid to approach me because they don't know what to say. So they just ignore me and say nothing. This really agitates me. We cannot ignore the fact my child died! Say you're sorry...say you don't know what to say....say something, and don't pretend it never happened because that hurts me more.

    This!

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  • BumbleBee28BumbleBee28
    I want to TP people who say oh well at least you weren't too far along. Really? Just because I hadn't had an ultrasound and heard a heartbeat, it hurts all the same. Granted I'm sure it is worse when you have seen it on the screen. But my feelings didn't hurt any less.
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  • caroeliz02caroeliz02 member
    My mother in law. She is being a biddy and refuses to come To a breakfast at tiffanys brunch Saturday that I am throwing my mom for her 60th. They knows each other really well and I just think its tacky if her to not come.
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  • valigrl21valigrl21 member

    imageshandorfml2:
    I want to TP people who are afraid to approach me because they don't know what to say. So they just ignore me and say nothing. This really agitates me. We cannot ignore the fact my child died! Say you're sorry...say you don't know what to say....say something, and don't pretend it never happened because that hurts me more.

    I am so sorry people are pretending it never happened. Big ((HUGS))! 

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