Late Term and Child Loss

TTCAL CheckIn

Hello Ladies,

Welcome to Friday TTCAL CheckIn!

I hope I can find you all well and positive this week! Please don't be shy in asking the PGAL/PAL ladies questions if you have them. Lots of baby dust on all of you!

Where are you in your TTCAL journey?

Do you have any relevant appointments upcoming?

QOTW: Has TTCAL effected your romance with your SO at all?

Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?

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Re: TTCAL CheckIn

  • Where are you in your TTCAL journey? C 3 CD 8

    Do you have any relevant appointments upcoming? Nope

    QOTW: Has TTCAL effected your romance with your SO at all? I do feel like somedays its "down to business" and not quite as spontaneous. But, the romance is still there. 

     Open Topic. What is on your mind this week? Busy at work in the next few weeks. This week is also when we learned last year that we were expecting. Going through the same motions brings it all back. 

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  • Where are you in your TTCAL journey? 
    Cycle 1 day 14
     
    Do you have any relevant appointments upcoming? 
    Ivf starts with the beginning of my next cycle
     
    QOTW: Has TTCAL effected your romance with your SO at all? 
    Not really. We have very little chance of getting pregnant without fertility treatment so it isn't so stressful. When ivf starts that definitely changes things in the romance department.
     
    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week? A little sad for me to watch several coworkers have their babies this week and others have showers for people due in the next two months.  
    Married 8/2009, TTC since 4/2010
    ME: 30, DOR- Low amh, normal fsh/afc DH: 30, morphology issue
    IVF #1- BFN
    IVF #2- BFP!!! Beautiful baby girl became an angel on 2/6/13 at 17.5 weeks due to PPROM/IC
    IVF #3- New RE... February March 2014! 8r/6m/6f. Transferred one and have one frostie! BFP! EDD 12/7/14
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  • Where are you in your TTCAL journey?

     cd51...am giving up for now.. Sad


    Do you have any relevant appointments upcoming?

     Yes I'm finally going to the doc. on may 15th to see why my af's are irregular and to see why it's still not happening for us yet.


    QOTW: Has TTCAL effected your romance with your SO at all?

    Yea, just recently I kinda gave up trying for now and totally not in the mood for any bd'ing. We still do just we don't really make time for it right now.

    Open Topic. W

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  • Where are you in your TTCAL journey?

    Cycle 1, day 25

    Do you have any relevant appointments upcoming?

    Nope


    Has TTCAL effected your romance with your SO at all?

    We try not to let it. We have been using opk's so it's hard not to make it strictly business sometimes.
  • Where are you in your TTCAL journey?   No idea, still haven't gotten af post loss... I'm not thinking she's ever going to come back!

    Do you have any relevant appointments upcoming? Setting up a grief counseling appointment. I've avoided it to the point I can't anymore. While the raw emotions are not as apparent, I need to just let everything out instead of bottling it up inside and losing it on DH.

    QOTW: Has TTCAL effected your romance with your SO at all? DH isn't very romantic. I take what I can get from him in that department haha. We just got released from the bench.. was bd'ing for two weeks and then a uti has benched us again for a while Crying

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week? Wanting to plan a girls weekend to the beach soon!
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  • Where are you in your TTCAL journey? Cycle 1, Day 28 ?

    Do you have any relevant appointments upcoming? Next week if no period by then

    QOTW: Has TTCAL effected your romance with your SO at all? No, we?re not very romantic anyhow though

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week? Wishing I didn?t have to try, honestly have no interest in being intimate 

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  • Where are you in your TTCAL journey? 

    Still waiting for af after our loss, 33 days ago.

    Do you have any relevant appointments upcoming? 

    Nope.

    QOTW: Has TTCAL effected your romance with your SO at all? 

    Right now we are benched until af shows, so we are using condoms until we get cleared. Those have killed the romance for sure!

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week? 

    I really hope af shows up soon.  

    Married 11/23/11, TTC starting 10/12, BFP#1 11/30/12, Adoption of stepson finalized 03/19/13,Loss of our daughter at 20w4d due to incompetent cervix 03/27/13, BFP#2 06/28/13, DS2 born 3/1/14.

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  • Where are you in your TTCAL journey? first cycle TTCAL. No af since loss yet, and I think she is coming. Had a big temp drop yesterday. If I had to guess I might have Oed 7 days ago but not sure.

    Do you have any relevant appointments upcoming? nope. Got blood work back though, and I have no clotting disorders.

    QOTW: Has TTCAL effected your romance with your SO at all? At first it was weird, both because it hurt because I had given birth, and second because we were thinking about trying for our next baby.

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week? Frustrated with my lack of AF or BFPs. I just want AF to come and get it over with!

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  • Where are you in your TTCAL journey? Still TTA but getting close to getting the all clear to start again.  (hopefully!)

    Do you have any relevant appointments upcoming? Blood work TOMORROW for Lupus Anticoagulant. As soon as those results come in I get to meet with the MFM.  I can't wait already.

    QOTW: Has TTCAL effected your romance with your SO at all? I think it has, our whole experience really has.  It's hard for me to explain how though.  I just think things are different now.

    Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?  I'm very anxious to know whether or not I have Lupus Anticoagulant and to get started on my plan if I do.  I just really want to know already and I've been thinking about it nonstop.  I'm also really missing my Ava.  We put our outdoor furniture out this weekend and the rocking chair that DH bought for me last year was supposed to be for Ava and I to sit on outside together.  It just makes me so sad to see that chair and not have my baby to hold in it. 
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    BFP#1 - 11/27/09 EDD 8/5/10, DS1 arrived 7/24/10 via emergency c-section.

    BFP#2 - 6/18/12 EDD 2/23/13, sweet baby girl born sleeping on 10/4/12 at 19 weeks, 3 days.

    BFP #3 - 1/18/13 EDD 10/1/13, natural mc on 2/2/13 at 5 weeks, 4 days.

    BFP #4 - 8/29/13 EDD 5/12/14, our sweet rainbow, DS2 born 4/29/14 via c-section

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